I though I married a lady of my dreams..but I don't missed road.
Yes I dated alot of fine chicks and I guess am paying for lots of heart breaks..

I played around..I tasted all the waters..
Single,yellow, black, ugly, short tall and married.
So when I got married.. I did cheat and just once.for the last threeyears..
I can't take it anymore..we are not in d same class. This would be the first time am talking about it .

Its crazy...u know I don't blamed marriage folks who got single and never married

I did cried once that one day soon I would get tired and leave.
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Pele

Smiling !

dem force u to marry her?

So wats the problem

There's a 100% chance she's equally tired of you too.

Mbok, just do the smart thing before una kee each other

U so right...I want to be free and I want her to be free. Bit Christian says no !

The problem... Is we are two different spices.. Am the free thinker while she is ...I don't know.

Baba mama no drama. I wish I did that shit...shout to davido and d rest.
Anyways...I have left home for weeks...
She stills fights on d phone...
I tired gaaam too much folks
But d peace is beautiful.. I don't think she loves been by her self....

1johnjohn:
The problem... Is we are two different spices.. Am the free thinker while she is ...I don't know.

You didn't know that before you married her abi?

czarina:
You didn't know that before you married her abi?

She was gentle and laid back..
Until I start to see another side.

If you like date your spouse for 10 years, you can never know them well enough.

Talk with her first, tell her the changes you've noticed and it's not making you happy let her open up to you too. Maybe you've changed also and after this talk, nothing positive then you can both free yourself.

1johnjohn:


She was gentle and laid back..
Until I start to see another side.

My friend, just go home and take care of your family.

I don't like men like you who don't get commited to their marriage and make it a duty to work.

Listen to me,

YOU CAN'T LIVE WITH HER WITHOUT CHALLENGES AND YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HER.

FINALLY,

DONT Bleep ANOTHER WOMAN TILL YOU FIX THE MESS IN YOUR HOME...

Real men don't run away from issues with their wives, they stay home and fix it.


#makeyourfamilywork

Yes I would try one time...bit honesty.. Am tired to be a better person. Thanks be much...honestly.. Greatful

thunderfirebuha:


My friend, just go home and take care of your family.

I don't like men like you who don't get commited to their marriage and make it a duty to work.

Listen to me,

YOU CAN'T LIVE WITH HER WITHOUT CHALLENGES AND YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HER.

FINALLY,

DONT Bleep ANOTHER WOMAN TILL YOU FIX THE MESS IN YOUR HOME...

Pls its not about love making..but when u are with a lady..u have peace . is it with all woman or its just me...if its going to be like this ...I settled with bebemama...

1johnjohn:



Pls its not about love making..but when u are with a lady..u have peace . is it with all woman or its just me...if its going to be like this ...I settled with bebemama...

There is no woman you won't issues with. How you handle it is the key to a happy home.

Don't listen to lies friends will tell you because what worked for them will never work for you. you have to find out with patience what will work for you....

Even apostle Paul stated in the bible, "it is better for a man not to marriage but to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife" marriage is not children play it takes the both mature partner to accommodate each other shortcomings.

May God see you through.

Now, Op has said a lot buh at same time he has said nothing..

Kind of man I don't like dealing with.. no offense... buh you're just going round and round and round, all in circles... please, be straight forward..What is actually wrong?. you cheated on her and everything went sour or what?..

I feel your pain though.

After cheating on the poor woman, you expect her to remain calm

I'm surprised she hasn't sent you to the great beyond

Ode

Your English is enough to cause a divorce

1johnjohn:
I though I married a lady of my dreams..but I don't missed road.
Yes I dated alot of fine chicks and I guess am paying for lots of heart breaks..

I played around..I tasted all the waters..
Single,yellow, black, ugly, short tall and married.
So when I got married.. I did cheat and just once.for the last threeyears..
I can't take it anymore..we are not in d same class. This would be the first time am talking about it .

Its crazy...u know I don't blamed marriage folks who got single and never married

I did cried once that one day soon I would get tired and leave.
Sharing it with other folks

Did you not gage the class levels before you got married?
See this is the problem with the “ indomie” approach to relationships. There is no foundation and no middle just a lot of everythings built on nothing and when it crushes there is nothing to salvage.
She has not changed, she is the person she was when you met. You just did not take the time to dig deep. You opted for the instant approach because you were blindsighted. No sympathy. If you had taken time to peel off the layers you would not be where you are. Life experiences learn from them.

teresafaith:
After cheating on the poor woman, you expect her to remain calm

I'm surprised she hasn't sent you to the great beyond

Ode

He is a typical narcissist...makes it all about him

Are you expecting any sympathy or advice? Lol, my friend, that woman has done nothing wrong, you're just tired of the pussy and looking for a way to continue your cheating talent.

u didnt even say something precisely....y u wanna leave her....after cheating on her u wanna divorce again saying shii about class.......if u leave her do u know aw d next u wanna will look like.....guy don't leave her and go back to ur family..talk things out and go on a date ....bring urself down to ur class bro and leave that ego....make that woman happy pls...she deserves it

1johnjohn:
I though I married a lady of my dreams..but I don't missed road.
Yes I dated alot of fine chicks and I guess am paying for lots of heart breaks..

I played around..I tasted all the waters..
Single,yellow, black, ugly, short tall and married.
So when I got married.. I did cheat and just once.for the last threeyears..
I can't take it anymore..we are not in d same class. This would be the first time am talking about it .

Its crazy...u know I don't blamed marriage folks who got single and never married

I did cried once that one day soon I would get tired and leave.
Sharing it with other folks

You have not said anything

Go straight to your points let's see where the faults are coming from

But if you believe you have broken so many hearts and you are getting the punishment now then, bear it

You can't hurt others and expect yourself not to be hurt

1johnjohn:
U so right...I want to be free and I want her to be free. Bit Christian says no !

where was christianity when u cheated Oh is that one allowed

1johnjohn:
U so right...I want to be free and I want her to be free. Bit Christian says no !

I watched a case on divorce court on FB.It had to reset my mind about what marriage entails.The judge is good.Uses fun to know if she can bring those couple back together.

ednut1:
where was christianity when u cheated Oh is that one allowed

Who no dey cheat?...

frozen70:



You have not said anything

Go straight to your points let's see where the faults are coming from

But if you believe you have broken so many hearts and you are getting the punishment now then, bear it

You can't hurt others and expect yourself not to be hurt

No faults.. I want to happy and free. Its just for people to learn!

czarina:
You didn't know that before you married her abi?

u can't know much about a person until u are married to the person and live together for 5yrs. dating is a different ball game