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Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Nobody: 9:28am On Oct 29, 2018 |
Do men these days feel comfortable marrying a woman that's not a virgin? Na waoo....most men seemed to be okay even if she isn't a virgin 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Nobody: 9:28am On Oct 29, 2018 |
JasonScoolari:Philippines is 1000 times better than Nigeria in all ramifications you can possibly think of. I know because I'm in Philippine |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by wisebrains: 9:28am On Oct 29, 2018 |
When God said do not commit fornication it is for our own good. This would not have happened had it been they never engaged in immoral sexual activities, it would have been easy for the op to make decide without coming a forum like this. Personally it's not a good idea to get married to such woman, forget about her good characters, you wouldn't feel comfortable anytime you are in the company of that your friend. It's a very dangerous game to play! 9 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by omooba969(m): 9:28am On Oct 29, 2018 |
OnoEsther: Welcome to Nairaland...land of laughter & savages. You've got to be strong in here. |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Fourwinds: 9:29am On Oct 29, 2018 |
MrRichmond:hmmmmmmm.... This was the only law Isaac Newton didn't discovered before he died 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by blackgold2018(m): 9:30am On Oct 29, 2018 |
Born2Breed:If old things are passed away... Nw he'l v another job on keeping her away from the friend by every means necessary abi. Is that not emotional depression?. Well the coded truth from your statement means anything can still happen if the man loose guard. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by blackmercyvelli(m): 9:30am On Oct 29, 2018 |
Aaaaaaah ,never and never , that is abomilation to me and my destiny , l always praying for brand new car not tokunbo ( used ) 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by joenor(m): 9:30am On Oct 29, 2018 |
if you ask me, I see it's as not bad, but let your friendship should reduce, becos our ppl say na old firewood nine light pass oo. |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by movetoca: 9:31am On Oct 29, 2018 |
victorian:God bless you my dear. You have said it all. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by 1miccza: 9:31am On Oct 29, 2018 |
newdawn2017: You'll amazed at the number of Ladies that return to their vomit even with a flame of Love that's hotter than Babylon for their husband.. 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Fourwinds: 9:31am On Oct 29, 2018 |
MrRichmond:hmmmmmmm.... This was the only law Isaac Newton didn't discovered before he died 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by movetoca: 9:33am On Oct 29, 2018 |
MissRaine69:Jesus...You are funny and wicked. |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by orogodoganyin(m): 9:34am On Oct 29, 2018 |
if ur better than ur friend in the other room, I guess, u myt jst be able to go ahead... if ur not,... I rest my case |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Fela4ese: 9:34am On Oct 29, 2018 |
olsome:if the guy is really close as he will sometime come visit u guys.its a no no for me its better u are not frends |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Vikkoh(m): 9:38am On Oct 29, 2018 |
QueenSuccubus: That is Philippines abeg! This is Nahgeeriya!! |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by INTEGRITYA1(m): 9:38am On Oct 29, 2018 |
victorian: As beautiful as this scenario is, there is an iota of risk in such situations unless if both friends involved are ready to part ways or keep serious distance to avoid issues. Under normal circumstances friends are free to visit each others house, office and have lots of things to do together and in common. Meanwhile either genuine or counterfeit there are chances that a guy and his ex girlfriends can still collabo if atmosphere and circumstances around them give room for such. So, we can not just rule out completely that nothing will happen. Even if care is not taken, the guy is also putting his own life at risk. There is an adage in Yoruba which says "A do ni la'ya ko fi oju re wo ni" meaning someone having sexual intercourse with one's wife doesn't look you with favourable eyes. I'm not saying is not possible to get married to a lady your friend has dated or have sexual relationship with before; but serious precautions must be observed and the risk involved is very high. It will also damage those friends relationship for there will be trust issues. 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by galantjoe(m): 9:40am On Oct 29, 2018 |
Every one is against the op marrying a girl being f*ck by his friends, if that is the case, every one that commented must have married or will marry virgins. Impossible. As for me it is all about finding a nice woman that loves you and understand you. Forget about the past, every one gets past. So go ahead to marry her, she has more to prove in term of love than a virgin who believes she deserves more love and care. i rest my case. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by zolajpower: 9:40am On Oct 29, 2018 |
Saff:What if my friend ex changes her panties nko? |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by DonX001: 9:41am On Oct 29, 2018 |
Hedonini:You sabi book for woman matters o! 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Ghostmode2two(m): 9:41am On Oct 29, 2018 |
My fifty scent advice is no. A woman is like horse and any man who have rode her previously can ride her again 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Alexis11: 9:42am On Oct 29, 2018 |
saheedandu: Your own comment look more like inexperienced adult. Like somebody with adolescent carryover. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by toolovely(m): 9:42am On Oct 29, 2018 |
obekediamondfuto: i personally don't think there's anything wrong with her. is it just because he's ur close friend? as long as the babe has been bleeped, there's nothing else to change. supposing you marry someone that's not close to you but later find out the guy that has been doing d damage, will u den send her away? |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Edojoma(m): 9:43am On Oct 29, 2018 |
oshe111: My guy,,, I swear,,,, u yarn d truth,, u guys will b togeda drinking, after little highness,, u will b talking women,,, den Wat comes up next is anoda friend narrating how ur wife was banged ,,,,, lol,,, And u won't b comfortable seeing ur friend dat banged her, wenever u c him,, u can visualize d banging,,,, On getting home,, u pick up quarrel over little things,,, Lol,,, save ursef d stress biko,,, As for ME,, I can never n will never do it,, not becos she might bang him again but d trauma of d previous banging,, I can't contain it seeing my friend 7 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by zagorakis(m): 9:44am On Oct 29, 2018 |
obekediamondfuto:Dont be so quick guy, it might be a she-male, If u know u know.. |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Damfostopper(m): 9:44am On Oct 29, 2018 |
victorian: and the friend is comfortable after knowing very well that the ex who was his friend has seen her private ...tufiakwa nonsensse and buhari 3 Likes
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Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by highbee02: 9:44am On Oct 29, 2018 |
Saff: She has many pants, the guy only saw 1 |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by olaeffect(m): 9:45am On Oct 29, 2018 |
Hmmm. What I have seen so far in summary. 1. A woman can never be trusted not to have sex with someone she has been having sex with before 2. A friend that has slept with a lady before can still sleep with her not minding the fact that she is his friends wife now. 3. A typical man cannot stand the fact that his friend (or even anyone else) has had sex with his wife way before they got married. Not minding the fact that he also has had sex with some ladies in the past that will or are also married to other men too. Hmmm. As a man can you marry your ex-girlfriend friend? And for the ladies, can you marry your girlfriends ex? 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Nobody: 9:46am On Oct 29, 2018 |
fellom:how will a man jus open im two eyes go marry im best friend ex fuk mate. Mehn dats crazy. U marry such a woman and ur friend will still be visiting u two at home. Na so e dey take start. U go work and ur best friend go pay a social visit to ur wife at home...dem begin discuss about d past and how much dey miss it...then dem begin play small small pickin play wich go later lead to heavy petting and kissing and graduate to za oza room. Better such a guy go do paternity test on im kids ..especially if im kids dey carry im best friend shape of head. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by agarawu23(m): 9:46am On Oct 29, 2018 |
oshe111:but I hear say the "thing" no dey read meter |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by Nobody: 9:48am On Oct 29, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista:In Geology, the present is the key to the chronology of rocks and fossils is likened to relationships b/w friends and exes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by kingron: 9:48am On Oct 29, 2018 |
Don't bro. My ex girlfriend slept with my friend, whilst in the relationship even though my friend has apologised . He still brags about shifting her pant nd how he will go Bleep her again if he sees her. That's not my problem as she is now an ex. But some guys can just start bragging. I don knack im babe bla bla bla better another person u don't know to have knocked your babe up not a familiar face. 5 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Lady Your Friend Slept With In The Past by jagorinho: 9:49am On Oct 29, 2018 |
modestbrowser:shut up!!! phillipines and Nigeria are in d same category, do not hype what is not, fillipinos are maids in most arab countries, even it should be consider as a major export from the phillipines, if not for leadership problems ravaging Nigeria , there shouldnt be any avenue for comparison, but for now both countries are third world, so keep your hype to yourself, i would rather stay on a tree in Japan than roam freely in phillipines. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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