[quote author=Giddyperson post=72507202]
You said someone should tell you you are over reacting. So...You are over reacting

On a more serious note, I really don't see the big deal. She's family. She put up her neice and nephew on fb not you. Even if she doesn't like you, she probably likes her brother and his kids.

I don't see why her brother should ask her to take down the pics, that's just being mean. It's not like they are embarrasing or sensitive pics or you had ever asked her not to post your kids. She hasn't really done anything to you apart from be cold and lazy, which might just be her personality. I don't like seeing unnecessary rift between family esp when people are not trying to keep the kids out of it.[/quot

even when her brother finds it disrespectful and annoying? ok ooo, i will let it slide then

@imurboss, sis cool down.. it's not so deep in my own opinion.

Personally, i have never uploaded my kids pics on FB. if it's not my twin, it's my brother..infact for my daughter, it was my hubby's friend that even uploaded the picture on his FB congratulating DH.. He only tagged my hubby, he didn't tag me.. i didn't see it as a big deal.. None of them has ever taken permission from either of us..

I see her action as being happy and rejoicing with you even though she didn't show it. You may also need to make a conscious effort to reduce the strain between both of you.

Do you know some of my direct inlaws haven't called since i had my first issue, but i don't even give it a second thot. I have so many issues am already thinking/ dealing with.. If and when i see them , we would greet normally..

If the pictures are left on her page, will anything happen considering that they have been there for over a year.

Personally, i would let it go and focus on more important issues..(MY OWN OPINION OH)

Bloomingbud:
Good afternoon mamas!

Please I'll like to hear from mamas who have fed their babies August secret food and baby grubz, which of these food is better off I'm tired of feeding my children nutribom and pap so I'm thinking of getting either of these two foods.

Mamas make una answer me o

Giddyp ,,,,erson
im....urboss
eks...babe

we v been on august secrets from 6 months till date (she ll b 2 yrs next month). As she got older and started eating more adult meals, we moved it a breakfast option only.
I liked the fact that it is easy to make and its quite nutritious too.

Bloomingbud:
Good afternoon mamas!

Please I'll like to hear from mamas who have fed their babies August secret food and baby grubz, which of these food is better off I'm tired of feeding my children nutribom and pap so I'm thinking of getting either of these two foods.

Mamas make una answer me o

Giddyperson
imurboss
eksbabe

Sorry mama....we didn't do August secret and baby grubz, we did more of home made food/cereals. Let other mamas like giddyperson help out

imurboss:
Good pm lovely mamas, i trust our los are treating us well God bless them for us...


Dear mamas, i'm very sorry for the long post but please can someone tell me i'm over reacting or tell me about someone who will not react to such issue cos up till today those pics of my babies of about 3days old she put on her wall i never have them on my fb page, though i've asked dh to ask her to take those pics down.....please i'm i over reacting?

End of rant!!!!

i think u r over-reacting tho, but then again... i think its cos of d kinda relationship U n ur SIL have, n dts likely d reason y u were not tagged.

I have a BIL who loves to take n upload pix on FB. thanks to him, our wedding pix got to FB b4 we could find time to upload. n when I mean pix....i'm not saying 1 or 5 o, i'm talking like 20 and he even tagged us in all of them . But to me sha, its not a big deal...its his own way of celebrating. Infact everyone in their family know say na so he be.

Biko save ur energy....i dont think its dt big a deal. Life is too short mbok!

CoolOne1:
@imurboss, sis cool down.. it's not so deep in my own opinion.

Personally, i have never uploaded my kids pics on FB. if it's not my twin, it's my brother..infact for my daughter, it was my hubby's friend that even uploaded the picture on his FB congratulating DH.. He only tagged my hubby, he didn't tag me.. i didn't see it as a big deal.. None of them has ever taken permission from either of us..

I see her action as being happy and rejoicing with you even though she didn't show it. You may also need to make a conscious effort to reduce the strain between both of you.

Do you know some of my direct inlaws haven't called since i had my first issue, but i don't even give it a second thot. I have so many issues am already thinking/ dealing with.. If and when i see them , we would greet normally..

If the pictures are left on her page, will anything happen considering that they have been there for over a year.

Personally, i would let it go and focus on more important issues..(MY OWN OPINION OH)

Well, i saw it this in september but never raised any dust though not until yesterday when some issues came up with dh and it quickly recall what i saw and dh was angry with me why i didn't bring it up before now and you know we were never tagged in any of the pics.....i will let it slide then. Thanks for the word of advice..

enque:


i think u r over-reacting tho, but then again... i think its cos of d kinda relationship U n ur SIL have, n dts likely d reason y u were not tagged.

I have a BIL who loves to take n upload pix on FB. thanks to him, our wedding pix got to FB b4 we could find time to upload. n when I mean pix....i'm not saying 1 or 5 o, i'm talking like 20 and he even tagged us in all of them . But to me sha, its not a big deal...its his own way of celebrating. Infact everyone in their family know say na so he be.

Biko save ur energy....i dont think its dt big a deal. Life is too short mbok!

Is that why he couldn't also tag his own brother too. Ok....i let it slide. Thank you ma

Short answer, yes you kinda are

Except you're uncomfortable with your kids being on social media (in which case you won't have posted them yourself), ignore her

It's not worth getting upset over honestly. You know where you stand with her, maybe she feels more connected to the babies than you (as per her direct relatives), while that isn't ideal, it's the way she is and giving her this much attention is stressful and a waste of time

Pele, drink cold water. It is well

imurboss:
Good pm lovely mamas, i trust our los are treating us well God bless them for us...

Please,Ejor, Biko
Dear mamas, i'm very sorry for the long post but please can someone tell me i'm over reacting or tell me about someone who will not react to such issue cos up till today those pics of my babies of about 3days old she put on her wall i never have them on my fb page, though i've asked dh to ask her to take those pics down.....please i'm i over reacting?

End of rant!!!!

Never heard of baby grubz but we use AS with no issues and good reviews

Bloomingbud:
Good afternoon mamas!

Please I'll like to hear from mamas who have fed their babies August secret food and baby grubz, which of these food is better off I'm tired of feeding my children nutribom and pap so I'm thinking of getting either of these two foods.

Mamas make una answer me o

Giddy.person
imur.boss
ek.sbabe

Oshe tonop time!!!!!!

enque:


we v been on august secrets from 6 months till date (she ll b 2 yrs next month). As she got older and started eating more adult meals, we moved it a breakfast option only.
I liked the fact that it is easy to make and its quite nutritious too.

hunniesuzie:
Oshe tonop time!!!!!!

issa weekday...tainkyu haunty tornup

Giddyperson:

Yeah it certainly looks and tastes better with milk plus the baby needs milk. But we sha used to drink it like that when GB was still breastfeeding and didn't like milk.

Thanks ma'am

I go dey leave nor worry

enque:


issa weekday...tainkyu haunty tornup

hunniesuzie:
Never heard of baby grubz but we use AS with no issues and good reviews

imurboss:


Sorry mama....we didn't do August secret and baby grubz, we did more of home made food/cereals. Let other mamas like giddyperson help out

enque:


we v been on august secrets from 6 months till date (she ll b 2 yrs next month). As she got older and started eating more adult meals, we moved it a breakfast option only.
I liked the fact that it is easy to make and its quite nutritious too.

Giddyperson:

Haven't tried baby grubz. August Secrets looks like pap and finishes fast but your kids would probably love it.

Thank you so much mamas, I'll just go for august secret then but this one Giddyperson said it finishes quickly nawa o.

hunniesuzie:
Short answer, yes you kinda are

Except you're uncomfortable with your kids being on social media (in which case you won't have posted them yourself), ignore her

It's not worth getting upset over honestly. You know where you stand with her, maybe she feels more connected to the babies than you (as per her direct relatives), while that isn't ideal, it's the way she is and giving her this much attention is stressful and a waste of time

Pele, drink cold water. It is well

lol at the bolded, i don hear. I was only waiting for your approval to fight back or chill now that you have said so, i will chill . Thank you ma

enque:


issa weekday...tainkyu haunty tornup

I'm kuku on permanent leave. We ironing our clothes already for turn up.

Dbryan:

Mama thanks but what's bagaruwa sound like hausa herb?

Yes. Its a Hausa nomenclature.
Mostly found among Hausa peeps that sell local spices, zobo things or islamic drugs.

Owasgirl:


Good morning mama. Sorry to bother your mention.

Please do you mind breaking the procedure you outlined down to a jjc level.

1. Is the insert at the surface or inside?

2. Raw groundnut water in which essence? You blend uncooked groundnut or soak it?

3. Can fenugreek and pagaruwa powder be gotten from the open market?

Is everything you listed in number 3 to be mixed together or one can be used in place of all?

I anticipate your quick response, please. Thank you very much.

I'm a new mom from the pregnancy thread.

1. Inside, though not too deep. Just before the entrance.
2. No blending. Soak raw groundnut overnight or for longer. Its the water you drink.
3. Basically gotten from Hausa traders that sell spices (ginger et al), Islamic drugs, etc.
4. No, you don't mix everything together. They are all different, natural vag.ina tightening methods.

preshpearl:


so happy for for you, nne

you are over welcome

how is the night vigil going??

Mama thank you so much but I'm barely sleeping at night, just woke from a short nap now because baby was sleeping....it's all good as I have learnt to embrace my 4th trimester package

August secrets mixagrain is good. My baby preferred it to nutty meal. I haven't tried baby grubz.

Bloomingbud:
Good afternoon mamas!

Please I'll like to hear from mamas who have fed their babies August secret food and baby grubz, which of these food is better off I'm tired of feeding my children nutribom and pap so I'm thinking of getting either of these two foods.

Mamas make una answer me o

DocAdray:



Yes. Its a Hausa nomenclature.
Mostly found among Hausa peeps that sell local spices, zobo things or islamic drugs.

Ok mama thanks I really do appreciate

Bloomingbud:









Thank you so much mamas, I'll just go for august secret then but this one Giddyperson said it finishes quickly nawa o.

Don't mind me o, try it first. You know I'm Ijebu

Ejoor
Mamas
Abeg help.

5-6months old that can sit, how do you bath them?
I don't even know how bathing can be explained but just try hopefully I will grab.

Bath time is now war time for me.i still put her to my lap and bath her. She won't stay still, her mouth is fully open licking everything that crosses her face_soap o, water o, sponge,everything.
I really need alternative bathing procedures.

imurboss:


Well, i saw it this in september but never raised any dust though not until yesterday when some issues came up with dh and it quickly recall what i saw and dh was angry with me why i didn't bring it up before now and you know we were never tagged in any of the pics.....i will let it slide then. Thanks for the word of advice..

My dear,the only Trad pics,i have now is the ones my little cousin uploaded without my permission on Facebook,though I scolded them initially,but years down the line after been disappointed by the photographers of the day,im grateful.
Its normal to feel the breach of consent, between you complained of her attitude to the Babies at the hospital,my own cousin left me at the hospital immediately after I was brought out of theatre in a general hospital,to go freshen up,leaving my baby and I at alone for 12hours,she is still my family.
She also announced the birth and circumstances surrounding it before I can.

Roseey0:
Ejoor
Mamas
Abeg help.

5-6months old that can sit, how do you bath them?
I don't even know how bathing can be explained but just try hopefully I will grab.

Bath time is now war time for me.i still put her to my lap and bath her. She won't stay still, her mouth is fully open licking everything that crosses her face_soap o, water o, sponge,everything.
I really need alternative bathing procedures.

I place lying face down on my laps and bath the face last,some times I let her Play in a bathtub and scrub.

No mind that Ijebu woman,it sha finishes quickly if that's what you take as breakfast,lunch and dinner.She has vege beans which u can use to make moi moi or akara or varieties sef

Bloomingbud:









Thank you so much mamas, I'll just go for august secret then but this one Giddyperson said it finishes quickly nawa o.

Oshe pteridophyta

imurboss:


lol at the bolded, i don hear. I was only waiting for your approval to fight back or chill now that you have said so, i will chill . Thank you ma

Bloomingbud:
Good afternoon mamas!

Please I'll like to hear from mamas who have fed their babies August secret food and baby grubz, which of these food is better off I'm tired of feeding my children nutribom and pap so I'm thinking of getting either of these two foods.

Mamas make una answer me o

Gid dyperson
imu rboss
eksb abe

1. AS is smooth like pap while baby grubs is not
2. Almost all the baby grubs foods contains groundnut.
3. The aroma of As is nic.
4. But i noticed my ds gained more weight with BG

I will go with AS anytime anyday.

Roseey0:
Ejoor
Mamas
Abeg help.

5-6months old that can sit, how do you bath them?
I don't even know how bathing can be explained but just try hopefully I will grab.

Bath time is now war time for me.i still put her to my lap and bath her. She won't stay still, her mouth is fully open licking everything that crosses her face_soap o, water o, sponge,everything.
I really need alternative bathing procedures.

Put her to sit on her bowl during bath time,buy all these water duck or any rubber toy and give her during bath time. .My son can sit unaided but not for long, that's what I do, tho I monitor him.

Roseey0:
Ejoor
Mamas
Abeg help.

5-6months old that can sit, how do you bath them?
I don't even know how bathing can be explained but just try hopefully I will grab.

Bath time is now war time for me.i still put her to my lap and bath her. She won't stay still, her mouth is fully open licking everything that crosses her face_soap o, water o, sponge,everything.
I really need alternative bathing procedures.

At 5-6 months I was letting her sit in the tub. I started bathing her standing in the bathroom at seven months cuz the bath tub drama was just too much.

Mzleemah:

1. AS is smooth like pap while baby grubs is not
2. Almost all the baby grubs foods contains groundnut.
3. The aroma of As is nic.
4. But i noticed my ds gained more weight with BG

I will go with AS anytime anyday.

Thank you your no 4 point is the only thing dragging me to BG as my daughter needs to add a little but since many people here have fed their children AS then I'll just go for it, but you the say anything about the price of both.



quote author=Halcyon123 post=72511667]No mind that Ijebu woman,it sha finishes quickly if that's what you take as breakfast,lunch and dinner.She has vege beans which u can use to make moi moi or akara or varieties sef[/quote]

Thank you ma.

OMOTOWO:
For the past one month now,I expect my son to get bigger but he is becoming like me(lepa) but this is a boy that weighed 4kg at birth.He is 5 months old and he is on exclusive breastfeeding .We discovered that nowadays that he sucks his fingers a lot and put anything he lays his hand on into his mouth.All these leave us to worry may be he is tired of breastfeeding alone .And besides,he likes breastfeeding every time and after being fed ,he start cyring and making moves to suck again .Please,I want him chubby and I don't want him to be too slim like me .Can we start giving him all these tinned formulae or what is it called ?If yes,can you tell me which is the best for a 5-month old baby ?I mean the one that can change his weight .Lest I forget ,he weighed 4kg at birth and he is still 6.8 kg at five months!!!

Typically a baby should have doubled his birth weight by 5-6months even when exclusively breastfed.

Have you ever tried checking the quantity of breastmilk he consumes by expressing? He may not be getting enough milk. If he isn't then you may need to start him on age appropriate complimentary feeding.