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Re: Relationships And Money by Nobody: 2:54pm On Oct 07, 2018
MissRaine69:

That mindset belongs in the 19th century. You ease his worries that is what a supportive partner does not hide earnings. It works for me this far so let’s leave it at that. The virus of dependence is not something I subcribe to.
dependence, lol, i am talking of using your femininity to live a stress free life
Re: Relationships And Money by Nobody: 3:21pm On Oct 07, 2018
milemimi93:
I never knew we have men leeches..
Anybody can be a leech, doesn't have anything to with gender.
Re: Relationships And Money by milemimi93(m): 3:32pm On Oct 07, 2018
Colourich:
Anybody can be a leech, doesn't have anything to with gender.

It has.. It’s a natural thing for women to leech.. U wonder why a woman will earn more than her man yet still depend on her man for money
Re: Relationships And Money by pryme(m): 3:53pm On Oct 07, 2018
funmisticqueen:
dependence, lol, i am talking of using your femininity to live a stress free life

You should have said this along time ago instead beating around the bush.

If you are having this line of thought then you should change the name of your moniker.

If you want a stress free life then you have to put in the effort. Anybody that expects something for nothing clearly doesn't know much.

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Re: Relationships And Money by Nobody: 5:02pm On Oct 07, 2018
milemimi93:


It has.. It’s a natural thing for women to leech.. U wonder why a woman will earn more than her man yet still depend on her man for money
Unless the lady is not independent.
Re: Relationships And Money by milemimi93(m): 5:15pm On Oct 07, 2018
Colourich:
Unless the lady is not independent.
The so called independent are the worse
Re: Relationships And Money by RavenClaw: 6:49pm On Oct 07, 2018
funmisticqueen:
like your parents did right?


Like your ancestors did
Re: Relationships And Money by Numero9: 9:39pm On Oct 07, 2018
I have a girlfriend I'm dating for 4years now. I feel very comfortable discussing my finances and financial issues with her because she has proven herself worthy over the years. I had Nothing!!! when we first me. I was a broke guy!!! She's a wife material and I have vowed never to take her nor her feelings for granted.

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Re: Relationships And Money by vicben27(m): 9:43pm On Oct 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
If you reveal how much you have, you might stop getting anything from the man.
Igbo woman speaking naso una dey behave.
Re: Relationships And Money by Nobody: 9:54pm On Oct 07, 2018
vicben27:
Igbo woman speaking naso una dey behave.
Naaaa, all tribe think this way. I only highlighted it ni.
Re: Relationships And Money by MissRaine69(f): 10:03pm On Oct 07, 2018
funmisticqueen:
dependence, lol, i am talking of using your femininity to live a stress free life
Having earning power regardless of your status makes it possible to live a stress free life. Meaning I can be independently in partnership.
When you act all “feminist” yet bring nothing to the table then we have a juxtaposition.

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Re: Relationships And Money by MissRaine69(f): 10:04pm On Oct 07, 2018
Numero9:
I have a girlfriend I'm dating for 4years now. I feel very comfortable discussing my finances and financial issues with her because she has proven herself worthy over the years. I had Nothing!!! when we first me. I was a broke guy!!! She's a wife material and I have vowed never to take her nor her feelings for granted.
So how long is she going to remain in the category of girlfriend?

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Re: Relationships And Money by MJBOLT: 10:37pm On Oct 07, 2018
you no get joy
MissRaine69:
So how long is she going to remain in the category of girlfriend?

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Re: Relationships And Money by Nobody: 10:38am On Oct 08, 2018
MissRaine69:


Having earning power regardless of your status makes it possible to live a stress free life. Meaning I can be independently in partnership.
When you act all “feminist” yet bring nothing to the table then we have a juxtaposition.
that is what they sell to you, and you take it hook, line and sinker.

besides i am no feminist,yes i believe everyone should have equal opportunites to the basic things in life, but i prefer the traditional roles.

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Re: Relationships And Money by Numero9: 10:55am On Oct 08, 2018
[quote author=MissRaine69 post=71879331]
So how long is she going to remain in the category of girlfriend?[/quote



She's more than just my girlfriend. I see my future wife in her. We've introduced each other to our families. But the date has not been decided yet.
Re: Relationships And Money by MissRaine69(f): 5:21pm On Oct 09, 2018
funmisticqueen:
that is what they sell to you, and you take it hook, line and sinker.

besides i am no feminist,yes i believe everyone should have equal opportunites to the basic things in life, but i prefer the traditional roles.
Don’t know who “they” infers to but we have paths that suit our purposes in life. Your traditional mantra suits your lifestyle my unconventional arrangement works for me.

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Re: Relationships And Money by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 09, 2018
Preshy561:
Nice picture. Is that you?
Thanks Sis.
Yes that's me lipsrsealed
Re: Relationships And Money by Preshy561(f): 9:00pm On Oct 09, 2018
MariaLavina:
Thanks Sis.

Yes that's me lipsrsealed
Welcome
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Re: Relationships And Money by chigoizie7(m): 9:39pm On Oct 09, 2018
understanding matters a lot.


in my office, yesterday. a woman approached an account officer for a loan, unfortunately, the husband has already indicated interest, but our policy maintains that u can't give loan to husband and wife at the same time.


the woman picked her phone, called the husband, come and see sweet talking, after telling him about the policy, she went " babym, biko nu, u know u are richer, allow me to take this time around so as to boast my business this season, bikonu , nwoke oma."

from the phone, the man just laughed, after laughing , he said, " u dis girl, for ur mind u smart pass me Abi?for u mind now, I ghorigonum nu Abi? no wahala. we are one, go ahead let me look for another alternative, but na because say u be my baby ooh. I know it is for our own good." and she replied, daalu nwoke oma, ooo nya ka m ji ekwu maka gi.

after the call, ALL of us around hailed her. madam D madam.

her reply was that, he is her husband and they know how it works for them, that we see how the husband washes her own brain too, that she might know ooh, but will give in because all their efforts are for their own good. that she has never for once regretted ever marrying him.



one of us now asked, madam , how long have u been married, she said. 13yrs,





my point is, if una two understand una selves, there won't be any need hiding it for each other.





also, newly weds, both working , decided that the husband salary is to build a house for them, while the wife is to Carter for other family expenses. 3 years, they are living in their own house, next is to buy a car.
Re: Relationships And Money by Nobody: 9:45pm On Oct 09, 2018
Iamgrey5:
grin grin
lipsrsealed
How have you been?
Re: Relationships And Money by Nobody: 12:33am On Oct 11, 2018
MissRaine69:

So how long is she going to remain in the category of girlfriend?

Since we claim to be equal why can't she propose ?

So sad how you share numerous patriarchal traits.

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Re: Relationships And Money by RavenClaw: 6:13pm On Oct 12, 2018
Elder0001:


Since we claim to be equal why can't she propose ?

So sad how you share numerous patriarchal traits.

I like that!!!
Re: Relationships And Money by MissRaine69(f): 7:15pm On Oct 12, 2018
Elder0001:


Since we claim to be equal why can't she propose ?

So sad how you share numerous patriarchal traits.
Is it that hard to be objective when having a discussion? Or is it easier to lean towards the defensive? How many women will muster the carriage to do what you ask? Is it me that’s stifled by “patriachial traits?” Or is it the person you are with?
Why did you not say “ you are waiting for her to pop the question?”
Re: Relationships And Money by mumureloaded(m): 5:35pm On Oct 15, 2018
ewaomaga:
then what will a responsible woman do?

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Re: Relationships And Money by Suleletul: 7:36pm On Oct 30, 2018
I think a woman is quite itchy towards the money as she loves to spend the money of his husband without consideration of the saving for the upcoming time. I think that is why a man hides his exact income from his partner. I basically do not tell anyone about my earnings.
Re: Relationships And Money by trojan84(m): 10:05pm On Oct 30, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Pls shut it. A responsible man will take care of his woman.
Listen to yourself. No one is taking the responsibility away from a man to a woman, all the man needs is a help meet, whr as I don't see why a responsible man will have everything going fine and still need u to take over is responsibilities
Re: Relationships And Money by trojan84(m): 10:06pm On Oct 30, 2018
Pusyiter:
It does honey, I mean 100%. Why no earth would you hide your account balance? Please, most of you guys are discouraging people from falling in love
I dey tell u. The way many think these days is just disheartening
Re: Relationships And Money by mimimile93: 11:09pm On Oct 30, 2018
MissRaine69:
Why is it difficult for couples to have honest discussions about finances? Especially women, why do you hide how much you earn from the person you are with? And for the guys do you actually know how much she earns?
Re: Relationships And Money by Nobody: 9:33am On Oct 31, 2018
trojan84:

Listen to yourself. No one is taking the responsibility away from a man to a woman, all the man needs is a help meet, whr as I don't see why a responsible man will have everything going fine and still need u to take over is responsibilities
Women are Everly a man's help meet. I never said otherwise
Re: Relationships And Money by Sigmabond(m): 11:28am On Oct 31, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Pls shut it. A responsible man will take care of his woman.



I like this. My question is: WILL THE WOMAN OBEY THE RESPONSIBLE HUSBAND WHO TAKES CARE OF HER? This is where the problem lies
Re: Relationships And Money by Nobody: 12:48pm On Oct 31, 2018
Sigmabond:




I like this. My question is: WILL THE WOMAN OBEY THE RESPONSIBLE HUSBAND WHO TAKES CARE OF HER? This is where the problem lies
Why not? This is why people court, so as to ascertain compatibility level.
Re: Relationships And Money by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:00pm On Oct 31, 2018
MissRaine69:

Don’t spend more on a girlfriend more than you would on your own mother.
If she is threatening you then cut her off what do you have to lose ? She has no loyalties to you.
.. I love this. Words of wisdom.

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