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"You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by mailtimi(m): 12:43pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
A lady known as Kamal Kaur took to Twitter to detail the abuse she suffered at the hands of her ex-husband before walking out of the marriage. In response, a man said walking out was not the best option and she was just making excuses for her failure. Kamal wrote, “I remember when the ex-husband would leave the restaurant just because he had finished eating. One time he emptied a glass of beer in my food so we could leave. It came to a point where I feared going out because of this humiliation. He needed me to drive him so he could drink. The man replied, “Walking out is not the best option. You are simply a failure. Solving the problem is the option, working things out. Failures have a way to glorify their ignorance of truth”. Kamal fired back at him saying, “Ahahahaha. You’re an idiot. I tried for 14 phyuking years and nearly got killed in the process, along with my kids. You’re the most ignorant person I’ve heard from regarding this.” SOURCE: https://naijalog.com/you-are-simply-a-failure-man-condemns-woman-who-walked-out-of-an-abusive-marriage-of-14-years/ |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by Adasun(m): 12:47pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Da man should fire back |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by lookatew: 12:50pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
wow... I wonder why common sense did not reach some people... or maybe these people just chose not to use their brain sha Ladies (nd guys in some cases), walk away from any abusive relationship... the only thing you owe urself in this world is to be happy.. don't let anybody take that from you lalasticlala... send this thing to FP.. ladies need to know they actually have an option to walk away 3 Likes |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by queenbetsy(f): 12:52pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
As a Christian, divorce is Not an option. That is why you should take your time before you get married. Abused for 14 phyucking years! Honestly, she has tried! This is life and death! Moreover, she should have been seeing traces of abuse before they got married but love won't let her use her brain. You guys were arguing, he got angry and slammed the table. Your opinion is: " he knows how to control his temper" shio! When you're finally his, he'll no longer find it comfortable to slam the table, he'll slam you till you decide to follow your brain. Love oshi... |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by Biglittlelois(f): 12:54pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
He is a potential or already a wife beater, that will or expects his wife to still stay despite the beatings, a mistake of a human he is 2 Likes |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by Biglittlelois(f): 12:57pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
queenbetsy: Yes divorce is not allowed, but seperation 100% is, i will not for the life of me continue to stay with a lunatic cos of marriage, nah. 1 Like |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by Nobody: 1:00pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
The lady did an honourable thing by quiting the entrapment called marriage. I for one will never condone any abusive marriage because they say it is for better for worse. Divorce in is own right is bad brought it is better to divorce that man before he send you to your grave. 1 Like |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by LuciferYaweh: 1:02pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Biglittlelois: Differentiate between divorce & separation logically?
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Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by queenbetsy(f): 1:03pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Biglittlelois:that is why you should follow your heart and let your brain do the necessary calculations LuciferYaweh:Divorce is legally allowed but not biblical. If you had a customary marriage, divorce is allowed and you can remarry. A Christian CANNOT leave his/her partner and decide to remarry. The bible says, he/she should not remarry unless one of them dies. The separation she's talking about means that they should live seperately and NOT REMARRY. That is where single parenthood comes in. Most times, separation helps to bring the marriage back in one piece. Some of them, as a result of their children... Some, they felt the need for each other after separation My opinion tho... 1 Like |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by Biglittlelois(f): 1:06pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
LuciferYaweh: I expect that you know the difference, cos i believe you know what divorce entails and what staying away from your spouse means!!! 1 Like |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by Mariangeles(f): 1:07pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
The stupid man is definitely a wife battering monster ! |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by lookatew: 1:10pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
queenbetsy: I just want to address only the bolded.. This is a misconception. Matthew 19:9 And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.” The bible okays divorce if sexual immorality is involved. |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by queenbetsy(f): 1:14pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
lookatew:thanks bro, my assertions were directed to the term "ABUSE" |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by LuciferYaweh: 1:20pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Biglittlelois: queenbetsy: I included the word "logically" in my question for a reason. Now what is the point living apart from your "spouse" if you're still together?? If you're no longer interested in someone, end it. Simple! |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by Nobody: 1:23pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
queenbetsy:divorce is not an option and you will continue to download blows like swift 4G data bundle and pop antidepressants like vitamin C. last last i will come to slay in black and eat burial rice. As a lady you must put yourself first 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by luminouz(m): 1:25pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
queenbetsy: Chai...u again!!! U just disappear and reappear ni sha |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by queenbetsy(f): 7:07pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
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Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by queenbetsy(f): 7:11pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
LuciferYaweh:Simple, if he's used to beating her before they got married, she WILL NOT marry him. My brother, something went wrong somewhere. It is that "something" that needs to be found and tackled NOT while they are together. That is the point where they need a marriage counselor! |
Re: "You Are A Failure" - Man Condemns Woman Who Walked Out Of An Abusive Marriage by Nobody: 7:12pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
May the gods forbid that i fall in love. Love that died centuries ago.. Glad you walked away, you are a survivor. |
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