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Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Ndipe(m): 10:05pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Is it by force for her to marry him after being disrespected by his mum? You dont treat human beings like that. All these silliness of testing your son's wife by seeing if she will wash your clothes, pack your plates after eating, sweep the floor (all these on the first introduction) is just disrespectful. 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by yannis: 10:06pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
OldBeer:LOL, a tactical way of saying, I know what I said don't apply to lots of people and it's fallacious but have to say it since it's sounds so good. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by DexterousOne(m): 10:07pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
safarigirl: interesting perspective you got there. I like ladies that still have some sense But you are missing one VERY KEY dimension to this case... And the dimension is that.... Just like how black single mothers spoilt their sons, and now they are a menace to the society, a lot of useless, misogynist men out there were trained that way BY THEIR OWN MOTHERS The sense of entitlement in many cases were instilled by their mum. The fact that they cannot do the chores, or take charge is also linked directly or indirectly to the MOTHER. Who teaches her son that he is a prize, and that olderunmarried ladies are "evening newspaper " Most cases, it's his mother Who taught the man that he is doing the lady a favour by marrying her, and the only criteria he deserves respect is that he is the man who saved her from the gallows of spinsterhood ? And when he is grown, the WOMAN who will harass the unfortunate Lady who marries this misogynist IS STILL HIS MOTHER! I hope you see where I'm coming from The day Nigerian mum stop breeding entitled boys is the day that things will change (highly unlikely tho) The upbringing style needs to change for both sexes for real change to come 9 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by OsuMustGo: 10:09pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
CharleyBright:Who opened this one's cage? |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by DexterousOne(m): 10:10pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
franchasng: A lot of Nigerian men are dead weight Take that from me. Black American men are even the worst As for white folks, it depends 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by jaxxy(m): 10:23pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
safarigirl: Hahaha@ who love help. Ure right and I never said a gal shud be or even play slave to her mother Inlaw bt there’s smtn called 1st impression and courtesy. That’s what I’m talking about. She can come visting for the 1st time and not make an attempt to get along. It’s probably gona be a one off thingy. Same wud apply to the guy if he was visting and say her dad was overbearing I believe in courtesy and 1st impression bt after that we get to understand ourselves and boundaries better. Nobody is weak here based on my perspective trust me. I just won’t disrespect my host on such a peculiar visit that’s all. The outcome shud not affect their relationship negatively. Sm other cases the parents may be nicer bt al this are all 1st impressions. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by herolamy1: 10:23pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Hedonini: Any girl that is active on Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, and Nairaland Romance Section (tongue out) is not a wife material, test or no test. Who wants to marry these over-entitled, garrulous, narcissistic, vainglorious, and psychologically DAMAGED social media brats of nowadays? As a man, do so to your eternal detriment. Just like my HOD |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by chris31(m): 10:26pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Hedonini:Exactly Expect only for business promotion |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Sterope(f): 10:28pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
@The bolded, Ate you talking about men raised by useless, weak, lazy excuse of a mother? DexterousOne: |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by safarigirl(f): 10:36pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
DexterousOne:i always maintain that women are the reason men are the way they are. It is a woman that gives a man a general impression of women. That is why most of these ignorant guys, I fault the women around them and thise they have dated. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by DexterousOne(m): 10:40pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Sterope:well.... that's one category of women tho.. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Chopwater: 10:45pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
I don't believe dis story. No Africa parent wil treat their daughter in-law 2 be like dis, even when d family is poor. I still remembered d day my ex girl friend came 2 visit me, while i was still leaving with my mum at dat time . My ex came at d time my mum was cooking, even when my ex went 2 d kitchen to meet my mum. she refused her saying my ex is a guest, dat next time she wil cook bt not today. What suprises me most is when my mum served d meal for my ex nd i. instead of fish, i saw fried turkey inside d meal. I ask hw come abt d meat instead of d fish she used to cook d food. She told me, she bought d fried turkey cos we hav a guest in d house. What i'm trying to say is dat, when it comes to food Africa parent don't joke with it. especially when u are an inlaw. They serve u d best part. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Nobody: 10:45pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Gossipninja: This particular mother in law is foolishly silly 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by galadima77(m): 10:58pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
ednut1: hahahahahahahahaha how did you know it's a lie? |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by anigbajumo(m): 11:01pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
pocohantas: I guess ur views is based on the perspective u find urself, most of ur colleagues were empty headed which are only good in slaying arnd nd liter the social media with pictures.A reasonable guy won't ask u such question immediately he meet u,real men prefer career ladies than idle slay queen.... 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Sterope(f): 11:04pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by DexterousOne(m): 11:19pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Sterope: you sabi dem |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Nobody: 11:30pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
I don't understand a thing about this story tbh |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by kodded(m): 11:40pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
safarigirl: lol I think you don't get the point, the said girl ditch the guy because he was broke and not because his family was treating her like a slave ....in other words, if his family was rich, the girl wouldn't have mind turning in a house help for them as long as the boy will put a ring on her finger |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by pocohantas(f): 11:44pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
anigbajumo: MOST young NAIJA GUYS ARE IDLE UNREASONABLE SLAY KINGS. So, spare me the bullshit of my colleagues. And yea, the girls are not any better. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Ayobami7(m): 11:54pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
OK |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by ireneidiva(f): 2:25am On Nov 02, 2018 |
franchasng:Stop generalizing. See you saying black American men are horrible. You carried your tribalism mentality outside. Using one black American man as a standard. You see yourself? |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by alexola20(m): 3:52am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by alexola20(m): 3:54am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Ishilove: 4:00am On Nov 02, 2018 |
safarigirl:#truth. Have you noticed that many men who have travelled and lived overseas for a period of time have a different orientation from their homegrown, home based counterparts? It's like the overseas ones have had their brains reformatted by a completely different system and values. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by LordIsaac(m): 5:49am On Nov 02, 2018 |
I thank God that this is a case of a woman testing another woman. The fact is, any lady that fails that simple test has NOTHING to offer in marriage only demands, entitlement and woes. A lot comes with being a female cum mother even in the animal kingdom. A woman just delivered her son from a woman; they seem to know better! |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Tex42(m): 5:57am On Nov 02, 2018 |
I will never leave a woman I love because of these stuffs. These things are almost like tradition in this part of the world. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Nobody: 6:45am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Anyone SEE any correlation between her passing a test and the family being poor please? If you do please alert me, I forgot my eyeglasses at the park. Stupid girl! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Nobody: 6:45am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Hedonini:lol...they are the ones that will be in a relationship but still entertain dm from different guys, go out to eat with guys n from there cheat...most of them |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Softhands(m): 6:55am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Lol... there is no need to test if the girl comes from a good home...shaku shaku and unpredictable girls like you from shaky homes need to be tested... OldBeer: |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by Softhands(m): 7:00am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Love is blind until real situations occurs and you suddenly realize you are the only blind one in love, the other partner was not... So why not test for such real situations now and see how she reacts? Better end a gold digging relationship than end a Marriage. Tex42: |
Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Her Fiancé's Mother Tested Her by isnovic(m): 7:23am On Nov 02, 2018 |
Gossipninja: Foolish people everywhere with access to internet. |
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