Beke2020:

Dear Jzhane,

I have been trying to reach you for the past two months. Well am in an emotional and verbally abusive marriage which has lasted for 4 years 9 months. We and dated for a whole year before marriage.

To be honest, I saw all the red alerts but I kept telling my self he loves me and can’t hurt me. Through out the courtship he will quarrel,yell and get angry at me at the slightest provocation but I thought it was the pressure of planning the wedding.
Plus his mother disagreed to him marrying me so from the start. There were complications but I felt standing by him will solidify our marriage. Just few days after the wedding ,all his characters of abuse intensified but I kept giving excuses for him.
Also he had to collect a loan for the wedding from where he works which couldn’t cover the cost of both the traditional and white wedding. So from day one we were struggling financially. I kept faith hoping he finished servicing the loan things will normalize but still it got worse.
Immediately after the wedding also I got pregnant so all the pressure I was getting from him was affecting the pregnancy. I almost lost it getting prepared for the baby was strenuous but my mum helped providing most of d baby things.
Six months into the marriage he was cheating with a lady whom he introduced to me ...more


https://livelystones.com.ng/i-married-my-husband-despite-the-red-flags-now-i-live-with-his-abuse/



Note: this story was shared October 22,2018.
She reached out to us today saying she still want to opt out after all.....lets put her marriage in prayers. Also leave a word on the blog story.it might make the difference

Kindly

StarOnEarth:
Firstly am not clicking anything.

But from the little I read, she obviously saw it coming.

But why do people borrow money to feed people that are not hungry sef in the name of wedding??

frozen70:
Once you find yourself in a marriage that is full of emotional and abusive words

Walk out of it

Marriage is not a do or die affairs and your life does not depend on it

Once you learn to walkout, you are the winner but if you stay and die you are the loser

Beke2020:

Dear Jzhane,

I have been trying to reach you for the past two months. Well am in an emotional and verbally abusive marriage which has lasted for 4 years 9 months. We and dated for a whole year before marriage.

To be honest, I saw all the red alerts but I kept telling my self he loves me and can’t hurt me. Through out the courtship he will quarrel,yell and get angry at me at the slightest provocation but I thought it was the pressure of planning the wedding.
Plus his mother disagreed to him marrying me so from the start. There were complications but I felt standing by him will solidify our marriage. Just few days after the wedding ,all his characters of abuse intensified but I kept giving excuses for him.
Also he had to collect a loan for the wedding from where he works which couldn’t cover the cost of both the traditional and white wedding. So from day one we were struggling financially. I kept faith hoping he finished servicing the loan things will normalize but still it got worse.
Immediately after the wedding also I got pregnant so all the pressure I was getting from him was affecting the pregnancy. I almost lost it getting prepared for the baby was strenuous but my mum helped providing most of d baby things.
Six months into the marriage he was cheating with a lady whom he introduced to me ...more


https://livelystones.com.ng/i-married-my-husband-despite-the-red-flags-now-i-live-with-his-abuse/



Note: this story was shared October 22,2018.
She reached out to us today saying she still want to opt out after all.....lets put her marriage in prayers. Also leave a word on the blog story.it might make the difference

Kindly

malel1:



Are u married , it's so wrong to Tell a lady to leave her matrimonial home

frozen70:


My dear, I am married

If you know what happens in somany homes that have eventually lead to death of spouses you would have advised the deceased to move out earlier

Domestic violence is cousin's to religious war

In every religious war their must be casualties (death)

In domestic violence same thing happens

malel1:



Are u married , it's so wrong to Tell a lady to leave her matrimonial home

malel1:



Are u married , it's so wrong to Tell a lady to leave her matrimonial home

Zither:


It is so right to tell a lady not to leave her matrimonial home so she continues the marital duty of being a punch bag, martial arts target practice, and eventually kicked out of the matrimonial home — in a casket.