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I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by christyanah: 6:57pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
I've been married for three years now but I think I might've made a big mistake. I used to be sexually attracted to women before I gave my life to Christ and it's been amazing so far. I'm blessed with a couple of kids which I love and adore but I'm afraid, I haven't been fulfilled. Ofcourse, I love my husband and he's been nothing but amazing but I don't think i'm sexually compatible. I've never been aroused by a man. Never enjoyed kissing a man I've never been sexually attracted to men, no matter how gentle they are. I've tried. Prayed. Fasted. I seem to achieve all these easily with women. I think I need help Even my husband notices how sexually lazy I've been towards him. I'm so worried. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Nwodosis(m): 7:00pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
You gave your life to Christ, you overcame lesbianism and lived happily? Why then did you take your life back from Christ? You should tell your husband the truth about yourself and stop deceiving the innocent man. If he accepts you "for whom you are " make I borrow una language, and still loves you, he can get you a lesbian sex doll for you and you guys might even be having thre*some with the doll. 124 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by ogorwyne(f): 7:02pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
You are about to crash someone's life o. You didn't know this before you married him? Why now? 39 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by cenaman(m): 7:03pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
hell is ur potion in jesus name. 15 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by JasonScoolari: 7:04pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
I won't condemn you, but I have to advise you to do away with those lesbian friends... Do it for your marriage and the kids. 65 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Oreofepeters: 7:04pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
I don't have problem with lesbians but my problem is with gays... I can even marry a lesbian as long as she's not going to cheat on me with another man... if I caught my wife in bed with another woman I will be very happy to use my 9inch preek scatter two of them in a thréesome way... 118 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by FluidQueen(f): 7:08pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
This isn't rocket science. You're a lesbian. He's an heterosexual man. Don't punish him any further. Divorce him. He'd get joint custody of the kids. Everybody's happy. You can finally chase that orgasm. Cest fini. Why people think they can just pray their sexual orientation away is just baffling and the apex of stupidity. 45 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by sparkle6(m): 7:21pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
FluidQueen:What? Just to reach a land of 2mins pleasure, you want her to break a home. A knot being tied up in the church and blessed. What do you mean sexual orientation? Are you okay? Nobody was born gay or les! Its just a self decision and western societal orientation. My sister get that shitty mindset off your head. 175 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by sparkle6(m): 7:22pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
FluidQueen:What? Just to reach a land of 2mins pleasure, you want her to break a home. A knot being tied up in the church and blessed. What do you mean sexual orientation? Are you okay? Nobody was born gay or les! Its just a self decision and western societal orientation. My sister get that shitty mindset off your head. 15 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by 46O1CE: 7:24pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
Oreofepeters:You need to fuck_ off . 4 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by ednut1(m): 7:26pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
In 2017 ur kids were 6 and 3. Now u say uve been married for 3 years 87 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Nobody: 7:32pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
ednut1: Are you a minner? If you're not, you should become one. You are wasting your talent on NL mining old posts. 47 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by calliope(f): 7:33pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
You can't pray away the gay; it'd only make matters worse. All I could imagine is the poor girl you left 3years ago to go chase this charade of a life, you live now.. Take responsibility for your darn actions, stay miserably in that marriage and make it work regardless, after all you consciously knew what you were getting into, yet you chose the life, so bear the consequences however unsuitable it feel. 3 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Nwodosis(m): 7:35pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
ednut1:Bros, most of these stories may be fictitious but knowledge are acquired and lessons learnt. 22 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Nobody: 7:40pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
I think you should let your husband know the truth. And I also recommend seeing a sex therapist. They have a lot tools that can help you achieve orgasm and you'll enjoy your sex life. Again. 1 Like |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by oaselemi: 7:47pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
The solution is simple, anytime you and your husband want to perform gymnastics activities in your room you invite one more lesbian to join 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by columbus007(m): 8:24pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
Very simple! get a very clean house help for yourself and let her touch you when you want. 2 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Nobody: 8:34pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
You're confused and your hormones are all over the place. Best chance, you're bisexual. If you're brave enough to tell your husband, it might be the best decision you ever made. Goodluck 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Nobody: 8:35pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
You're confused and your hormones are all over the place. Best chance, you're bisexual. If you're brave enough to tell your husband, it might be the best decision you ever made. Goodluck. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Ranchhoddas: 9:12pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
Sounds like a fake story to me! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Yoshy: 10:03pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
christyanah: Yiu were not born a lesbian and nobody is born gay, dont take the advice that its who you're. The most important question is, are you ready to fight to overcome this? 8 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Obodo999(m): 1:56am On Nov 05, 2018 |
Oreofepeters: Both are equally bad. Why are you justifying one over the other? Pray you don't encounter a lesbian because she will shorten your life |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by rex444(m): 2:12am On Nov 05, 2018 |
Op r you d one? Else my advice will be a waste |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Nobody: 3:00am On Nov 05, 2018 |
If true then this is not a bog deal. Divorce and go each others way. 1 Like |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by dadalicious: 6:02am On Nov 05, 2018 |
ednut1:She could not even change moniker to post 2 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Exponental(m): 6:11am On Nov 05, 2018 |
Does he know your past? Encourage him to do more pre-intimacy before sex. Free your mind and explore.... gay/lesbianism is punishment, it's an improvisation of good sex. 1 Like |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Speedyconnect15: 6:21am On Nov 05, 2018 |
Nawao. Its not easy. I won't judge u. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Donaluta(m): 6:26am On Nov 05, 2018 |
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Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by 46O1CE: 7:27am On Nov 05, 2018 |
Donaluta:Who’s this clown? |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by KalakutaRepubli: 8:34am On Nov 05, 2018 |
christyanah:go ahead and tell your man, just be open with him. If he is someone like me, I wouldn't mind, really!!! I could even join a party with ur lesby partner. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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