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Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Raalsalghul: 8:46am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Toks2008:Na everybody u go reply. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Raalsalghul: 8:48am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Carinaflo:Same stuff I tell my sis everyday. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by MrPresident1: 9:07am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Useless senseless indomitable generation of idiots cannot comprehend simple wisdom. Since you have refused to learn the easy way, experience will teach you in the harder way. Idiots. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Nobody: 9:26am On Nov 03, 2018 |
okeyfineboy:You couldn't have said it any better. Bunch of foolish people that thinks that a woman is only successful with a Mrs title and unsuccessful should the marriage crumble. No wonder thousands of women would rather be STUCK in an unhappy union than walk their way out to make the best of themselves. Yeye dey smell! 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Ryocaj(m): 9:44am On Nov 03, 2018 |
All I can say is marriage is overrated n not 4 dis generation! |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by okeyfineboy(m): 9:56am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Toks2008: You are the one who is ignorant. I meant they are successful and okay (emotionally). You talk as if It's only women that have issues when divorced, men have issues too. Some divorced women are very okay emotionally, some bluntly refused to get married saying they prefer being single. I repeat, I know divorced women who will rather remain single than get married again while some others desire to remarry. I know men who divorce hit so hard that it even affected their health to the extent of being hospitalized. Some can't even move on. So just stop being baised. No spouse should feel more important than the other in marriage. They should work together to sustain their marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by mmyfarmsltd(m): 10:03am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Toks2008:OK thanks |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by okeyfineboy(m): 10:06am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Toks2008: I think you're the one who rant endlessly as if you know what you're saying. I also think you're the one who sounds like an underage child. 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by abdulaz: 10:17am On Nov 03, 2018 |
TSOM: No mind am. I just tire for some people way of thinking sha. Na God go come down come choose parter for them ba Sheeples people who can’t think on their own to make a choice and bear every consequences that come afterwards. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Nobody: 10:35am On Nov 03, 2018 |
I've never seen someone die for marrying late but I've never seen people die for marrying the wrong person. Take your time before you jump into marriage, make sure what you feel is real and you can tolerate the person's excesses, don't let societal pressure lead you into a marriage you will live the rest of your short life to regret. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Nobody: 10:36am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Toks2008:Lalasticl is married. He got married this year. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 11:52am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Laeroy: It is exactly what you are thinking. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 11:54am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Colourich: Yeah I know. I actually wrote this thread about 17months ago. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 12:02pm On Nov 03, 2018 |
Colourich: One of the funniest words i hear single guys and ladies of marriageable ages say is ''Its better to wait for the right person than to rush into marriage just to rush out'' but i think what they have is Gamophobia(The fear of marriage) In my humble opinion,this phrase is grossly faulted cos no matter how careful you may be in choosing a spouse,there is always an element of surprise waiting and taking all the time in the world is not a sure proof that you will end up with ''the right person'' The gospel truth is that there is no right or wrong choice of spouse but what we have is your choice and what you make out of it. As long as there is an element of attraction between both of you,ask relevant questions and do your due diligence on that person and if you are satisfied with your findings,take the risk without the facade of long courtship and the rest can be worked on. No matter how comfortable you think you are with that person ,you can only start knowing each other when you start living together. Just be prepared to marry and tolerate four personalities in one partner which are,the person you thought you married,the person you are actually married to,the type of person your partner will become and the person you bring out of your partner. Marriage is not about feelings but It is all about your determination to make it work. 2 Likes |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 12:32pm On Nov 03, 2018 |
yettymuse: This is the illusion i talk about...there is no wrong or right union and i just wish ladies get this truth. A yoruba adage says,''What a dog sees that makes it bark is the same thing the lamb sees and just looks without making a sound'' This adage is very deep and it simply means that your marriage is what you make of it. Some married ladies will not have a sound sleep because they suspect their husband is cheating n them whilst some will even put a condom in their briefcase so they can play safe..some ladies can not cope with a terrible mother in-law whilst some have mastered the act of taming them... some women get so unhappy because their husband is a 2 minutes man whilst some will gladly go all out to find solution to his problem...some ladies are unhappy because the man is broke whilst some ladies will double their hustle and take over the finances of the entire household until things pick up again for the man...some ladies will always cry about their husband physical or emotional abuse while some women already understands how to avoid any form of abuse from even the most violent men... I can go on and on to explain the fact that the reasons some ladies run out of their marriage will not even bother another married lady which means it is about the mindset and that is the area many arried women must work on. This thread is not concerned about the unmarried lady who chooses to remain unmarried but it is to let that woman who has chosen to marry understand the need to work on her marriage and not run out except there is a serious threat to her life or the man abandons her. 2 Likes |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by bukatyne(f): 1:53pm On Nov 03, 2018 |
Funny thread. Well, it is free information for the women especially unmarried: Know that there are men like Toks2008 and decide if that is the type of husband you want. Yes, I know he claims to be against adultery and how he is part of the miraculous 1% that doesn't cheat. However, if you endorse cheating, then you sound as someone lacking the opportunity to do so than not doing it because of your 'moral' stance. If this thread is highlighting on the emotional disadvantage of divorce, then I am pleased to tell you that a lot more women feel worse in their marriages. In fact, I believe men whose wives left them when they were younger are 'luckier': they can get other partners if they so wish. You need to see the number of lonely old men whose wives have abandoned them and become tourists in their children's homes. And men remarrying is not necessarily because they are at an advantage; they might be remarrying because they can't cope otherwise. Now if anyone leaves a marriage due to flimsy reasons (and cheating is NOT), he/she will pay for it. If a woman marries a potential cheat and cries murder when he actually does so, she is very unserious. 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by biterkola: 2:20pm On Nov 03, 2018 |
This OP is forever schooling women and yet has not found someone to manage his expectations till now. Why is it that a lot of men keep trying to tell women what to do to have lasting marriages?I find it interesting when people who have not lived womanhood pop up with to do lists for a gender they have no clue about. Whatever works for A will not work for B and I'm glad women are reading up all this stuff so.they toughen up and start being very selective about the males they allow in their lives. There is somebody for everybody,If you like your freedom choose a man who loves women that like freedom,if you like Ops type,go ahead as long as you can see plainly what you are walking into. If your marriage isn't working for you,it's okay to move on. No one has the right to decide for you what a flimsy reason is or isn't . Live your truth !In the end,it's you that will live wig the consequences of your decisions! 2 Likes |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Nobody: 3:33pm On Nov 03, 2018 |
Toks2008:Mr depth, Mr maturity, thanks for the unnecessary sermon. Don't forget to invite me for your wedding. 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Nobody: 4:36pm On Nov 03, 2018 |
Toks2008:Ok 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Omotayor123(f): 9:29pm On Nov 03, 2018 |
OgahBohz:Thanks And yes I am |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by baba11(m): 7:31am On Nov 04, 2018 |
Omotayor123: |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by seenter84: 12:04pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
Nice one toks 1 Like |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by OgahBohz: 5:31pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
Omotayor123:... toh .. inshAllah I would like us to be friends if you don't mind, you sound very intelligent, and where I come from it's difficult to find any intellectual Muslim lady ... .. I mean no harm walai.. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by virago(f): 10:19pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
Toks2008: You won't even know what intelligence is if it hits you in the face |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Omotayor123(f): 6:08am On Nov 06, 2018 |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Omotayor123(f): 6:10am On Nov 06, 2018 |
OgahBohz:No wahala my brother. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by OgahBohz: 7:20am On Nov 06, 2018 |
Omotayor123:... can we chat via WhatsApp?... m sure you won't like to share your contact here ( to avoid disturbance) how about I drop mine and you say hi?.. by the way mine is... 07038840936(whatsApp only) Salam.. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by baba11(m): 8:33am On Nov 06, 2018 |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 8:54pm On Nov 07, 2018 |
OgahBohz: Omotayor123:
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Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by OgahBohz: 12:40am On Nov 08, 2018 |
Toks2008: nice one .. a simple ' NO ' wouldn't be too much of a reply would it ..? the picture message wasn't necessary dr .. |
Re: The moment you become a Mrs. by Toks2008(m): 12:47am On Nov 08, 2018 |
OgahBohz:lol! i was just being comical bro..abeg carry on. |
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