Auladimeji1:
If you want to marry I'm okay with it but tell your child(ren) not to disturb us like living dead of Romance section

Lolz. I have had a change of plans after reading through people's words of advice here. Thanks.

MhizzAJ:
you can marry the one you love that is an AS afterall love is blind and love conquers all

Umnnnnnn. I won't allow love to blindfold me. Thanks

MhizzAJ:
you can marry the one you love that is an AS afterall love is blind and love conquers all

Umnnnnnn. I won't allow love to blindfold me. Thanks

tosyne2much:
Are you for real?

You know the repercussions of marrying an AS patient yet you want to take the risk

Are you okay at all?

Bro, I only asked for your opinion Now. You should know I'm very okay... for if I am not, I couldn't have been able to type the epistle.

tosyne2much:
Are you for real?

You know the repercussions of marrying an AS patient yet you want to take the risk

Are you okay at all?

Bro, I only asked for your opinion Now. You should know I'm very okay... for if I am not, I couldn't have been able to type the epistle.

Biglittlelois:
You just had to put "she's submissive" there, really?? what is with guys and this submission thingy smh!!! better go for your nysc and forget about marriage for now, it's too early, you have a whole lot ahead of you.

Thanks a lot. I really appreciate this.

akinwale701:



Umnnnnnn. I won't allow love to blindfold me. Thanks


Umnnnnnn. I won't allow love to blindfold me. Thanks

So you even know what to do sef.

Why seeking for advice on nairaland then

MhizzAJ:



So you even know what to do sef.


Why seeking for advice on nairaland then

I was asking if there could be a way out to preventing giving birth to SS child(ren) but since there ain't any. I have to make a 180• turn.

Headlesschicken:
U never get work,U never go Service,U never buy land,u never buy car,n u done dey discuss bout marriage with innocent gals,make sure u do not miss this year's SHILOR,but meanwhile place both hands on yuh head lemme pray 4u,Now Repeat after Me,my fada my fada whomever placed dix curse on me n my likes,dat we would always be jumping over what is necessary in life 2d Unnecessary should die by fire,die by fire,die by fire!!!!! C'mon brethren pray 4yuhself...

Hehehehe...

Na suffer that guy take dey play!

AS + AS = SS

OP x3.. i called you three times ..Dont make such a mistake, I believe you're are educated enough to understand what it entails bro..forget the packaging and do what's right..I wish u all the best.

AryEmber:
Your lengthy story didn't really piss me of but 'I love boobs'? Really? You had to add that to your post? And Great Ife too? Anyways, my advice is: make enough money to take care of a sickle cell, you'll need it.

Are you okay? He should bring someone into this world to suffer then make enough money to take care of them. What if he loses all the money after the sickle cell kid is born?

themonk:

Are you okay? He should bring someone into this world to suffer then make enough money to take care of them. What if he loses all the money after the sickle cell kid is born?

He claimed to love her then he should damn all the consequences and marry the one he loves. He should pray he doesn't lose all his money, simple! No Be For Love?

AryEmber:
He claimed to love her then he should damn all the consequences and marry the one he loves. He should pray he doesn't lose all his money, simple! No Be For Love?

So because of love he should bring a sickle cell into the world. Well if the love is real he should get castrated as soon as possible and then marry the woman he loves. That way he doesn't bring someone else pain and he spends the rest of his life with the woman he loves.

themonk:

So because of love he should bring a sickle cell into the world. Well if the love is real he should get castrated as soon as possible and then marry the woman he loves. That way he doesn't bring someone else pain and he spends the rest of his life with the woman he loves.

There's something called fetal genotyping where you discover the foetus right from the mother's womb. The foetus could be terminated as soon as it's SS

I know people do it but it's kind of expensive. That's the only option left for the OP

tosyne2much:
There's something called fetal genotyping where you discover the foetus right from the mother's womb. The foetus could be terminated as soon as it's SS

I know people do it but it's kind of expensive. That's the only option left for the OP

Subtle way of saying he should abort the baby if the baby is sickle cell.

I don't really know if or not I'm Pro-abortion yet because the question of whether a foetus has an identity which can be denied the right to exist or not is something I have not done my due diligence on.

akinwale701:
Apology for my lengthy story but let me make it as brief as I can.
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There is this girl (Abigael (not real name)) I've been dating since last year May to be precise. We so much love each other to the extent that she is always ready to lose anything for me only to hold to my love. This girl is well endowed both front and back (I love boobs a lot. Lol. ) and I so much love her attitude and everything pertaining to her. Let me not forget to add that she's very submissive to me as well and in fact, she's the best lady that has ever showed me love to this extent. Meanwhile, there's another girl (Bola (not real name)) I've been dating as well since 2015, before you crucify me of double dating, Bola has always been a type that neglects and won't show enough care and always denies me her attention despite the fact that we both stay in the same city. Even when I ask her why. All she will say is "I love you and I mean it" even though I can remember how I visited her when she was still schooling in another state but this girl never visited me throughout my stay in OAU. To cut the story short, being a fresh graduate of Great Ife (yes, Great Ife!!!) waiting for my NYSC mobilization this month, I went for my medical fitness test last month and I eventually came to realize that my genotype is AS (I never knew before because I had never gone to a hospital for such test). Meanwhile, Bola's genotype is AA while Abigael's is AS like myself. I have browsed a lot about genotype compatibility and I discover it's very medically risky for AS to marry AS. I really love Abigael so much and would love to see her carrying my baby because Bola is just a type that I have stopped loving but only acting up so it doesn't look I wanna break her heart even since these days. I've discussed this issue with Abigael and after much deliberation, we've agreed we'll still marry despite the danger ahead. Please, doctors in the house, what should I do? Is there anything we can do to prevent giving birth to SS child(ren)? Can I break up with Abigael and restore my feelings for Bola? What can I do please?

Please help a brother!!!

lol simple , carry out test on the babies when she's pregnant and abort everyone that has SS

I will not give you any advice until you finish your NYSC.

AryEmber:
Your lengthy story didn't really piss me of but 'I love boobs'? Really? You had to add that to your post? And Great Ife too? Anyways, my advice is: make enough money to take care of a sickle cell, you'll need it.

something wrong? I love big boobs too it's normal.

tosyne2much:
Are you for real?

You know the repercussions of marrying an AS patient yet you want to take the risk

Are you okay at all?

it isnt him i pity but the foolish girl. She will be the one staying in the hospital with sick(children) By the time they lose one or two children, their love will pick race.

Chale!!! wanna address something!! Guys his talking about marrying her doesn't mean he'll marry her now, he just got plans for her which he'll get done when the time is ready.. Bro. you're saying you Love her cause of her Front and Back That Looks like Lust Not Love I might be wrong shah!
Lemme Educate you real quick what should make you attracted to someone when we talking about True Love are;
-Inward Character
-Outward Modesty
-Upward Devotion
Sure You Know what it means.



Oya Back To the matter
That be some tough one though!
Advice?? I've got two for you
One be say if you really Love The girl you'll also think about your unborn kiddies. what's Love?? wanting the best for others even when it'll cause your happiness. don't you wanna have healthy kiddies running and playing around the house?? or you want to have kiddies that you'll always take to hospital cause of ill health?? Marrying her makes both of you happy for now but your future kiddies won't be happy and probably you guys won't be happy.


You Believe in GOD right You can talk to GOD about this who knows What might happen? Your Genotype might Change.. Its Called FAITH#
but don't jump into marriage thinking GOD would Change everything. Pray about it now if Things don't turn out the way you want it, GOD is always Good don't forget.

agohmamuda:
I will not give you any advice until you finish your NYSC.

Hehe

marvinsync:



lol simple , carry out test on the babies when she's pregnant and abort everyone that has SS

I have always been an enemy to any abortionist. So I can't do that and will never do that. I think leaving the lady is the best option for me.

solz007:
Chale!!! wanna address something!! Guys his talking about marrying her doesn't mean he'll marry her now, he just got plans for her which he'll get done when the time is ready.. Bro. you're saying you Love her cause of her Front and Back That Looks like Lust Not Love I might be wrong shah!
Lemme Educate you real quick what should make you attracted to someone when we talking about True Love are;
-Inward Character
-Outward Modesty
-Upward Devotion
Sure You Know what it means.



Oya Back To the matter
That be some tough one though!
Advice?? I've got two for you
One be say if you really Love The girl you'll also think about your unborn kiddies. what's Love?? wanting the best for others even when it'll cause your happiness. don't you wanna have healthy kiddies running and playing around the house?? or you want to have kiddies that you'll always take to hospital cause of ill health?? Marrying her makes both of you happy for now but your future kiddies won't be happy and probably you guys won't be happy.


You Believe in GOD right You can talk to GOD about this who knows What might happen? Your Genotype might Change.. Its Called FAITH#
but don't jump into marriage thinking GOD would Change everything. Pray about it now if Things don't turn out the way you want it, GOD is always Good don't forget.

I'm really impressed by your sincere and mature words of advice. I think I need to break up with the lady to avoid stories that touch in the future. It pains me but I have no choice. Thanks once again. I really appreciate your words of advice.

Eyeness:
it isnt him i pity but the foolish girl. She will be the one staying in the hospital with sick(children) By the time they lose one or two children, their love will pick race.

Haba. That was harsh, you know?

tosyne2much:
There's something called fetal genotyping where you discover the foetus right from the mother's womb. The foetus could be terminated as soon as it's SS

I know people do it but it's kind of expensive. That's the only option left for the OP

I think I can avoid all these by simply letting go of the lady in question. God knows best.

eaddyboy:
AS + AS = SS

OP x3.. i called you three times ..Dont make such a mistake, I believe you're are educated enough to understand what it entails bro..forget the packaging and do what's right..I wish u all the best.

I understand. Thanks a lot.

marvinsync:



lol simple , carry out test on the babies when she's pregnant and abort everyone that has SS

I can't choose to become a murderer because of love. I'm backing out already.

agohmamuda:
I will not give you any advice until you finish your NYSC.

Lol. I understand. Thanks for the advice in disguise. Lemme focus on my Nysc for now.

Well I know of a close friend whose parents are both AS.she's AA and her two other siblings are AS.her parents wanted to have another child but the last child was going to end up being a sickler so they are only three children. Its all a matter of luck really. But you can stillgo ahead and marry Abigail.just make sure you have enough cash to take care of a sickler child if it comes to that.

You just have to let her go it really breaks my heart to see a loved up couples breaking up because of such issues but it is the best decision. I do thank God for my type of genotype because I don't think I would bear breaking up with the one I love( in future) because of this.
I feel for you and Abigail really

See what love has turned this one too... On a normal day,, you would have been the one discouraging someone else not to do so.... But hey, wetin I Sabi self?

destinychild001:
You just have to let her go it really breaks my heart to see a loved up couples breaking up because of such issues but it is the best decision. I do thank God for my type of genotype because I don't think I would bear breaking up with the one I love( in future) because of this.
I feel for you and Abigail really

Thanks for your candid advice.

Alexaonfleek:
Well I know of a close friend whose parents are both AS.she's AA and her two other siblings are AS.her parents wanted to have another child but the last child was going to end up being a sickler so they are only three children. Its all a matter of luck really. But you can stillgo ahead and marry Abigail.just make sure you have enough cash to take care of a sickler child if it comes to that.

I think prevention is better than cure.

Phinity318:
See what love has turned this one too... On a normal day,, you would have been the one discouraging someone else not to do so.... But hey, wetin I Sabi self?

Phinity318:
See what love has turned this one too... On a normal day,, you would have been the one discouraging someone else not to do so.... But hey, wetin I Sabi self?