okwabayi:

This comment was very educating.
Let me tell you a fact: everybody has sex to achieve an orgasm.
The problem with the studies carried out is women under-report the amount of times they experience orgasms during sex and magnify the number of times they don't. I don't know why but a natural reason must exist for the case. It is no different from the amount of women who claim their ex boyfriends and husbands were under-endowed. We can't go around believing 99% of men around the world possess less than average joysticks now, can we?

I like the reasons you posted but still, without an orgasm to achieve in the first place, they are all moot.

I understand your argument.

What I'm saying Okwabayi is, most women in our country won't just say they want to have sex because they need the big O. No doubt, they enjoy the sex in most cases but the motive of having it is rather based on the reasons I listed above.
So whether they achieve orgasms or not during sex, I'll tell you that's not the main reason they'd wanna go down with a guy.

I've had girls who would call me up requesting to come over to my place. They know I'm going to get laid, but the main reason they'd come is because they want me to 'do something for them'
Give them money, buy them food, etc. They understand the power of using their body to manipulate sex addicted men into giving them what they want.
It's survival.

Nnemuka:
Crying? or moaning?
Moaning should be the word....
I am very loud when i enjoy good sex and my ringing tune is outta this world.

Now i am Hot

I mean shedding tears of pleasure.

H0rny? You sure know what to do, don't you?

FRoosevelt:

I've had girls who would call me up requesting to come over to my place. They know I'm going to get laid, but the main reason they'd come is because they want me to 'do something for them'

In addition to the orgasm you'll give them.

Give them money, buy them food, etc. They understand the power of using their body to manipulate sex addicted men into giving them what they want.
It's survival.

Yes but using this logic I've never seen someone who'll allow others repeatedly cut a piece of his/her flesh with the promise that every cut will bring a payment of food.
If there is no form of physical reward in most actions human take they will not partake in it to begin with.

The girls you speak of enjoy the orgasms you give but even at knife point will never admit it. It's a woman thing.

Divay22:
Guys should stop calling ladies derogatory names only then are we going to be free.
How do we open up on sexually related issues like this, when one useless troll is on the lookout warming up to call us olosho and not so pleasant words that can make one depress if she's doesn't have a thick skin.

Before pointing one finger at us remember the remaining four are pointing back at you.
We can never stop our hypocritical act until y'all stop judging us.

That's an important point you made there Divay22 though I'd like to think this name calling and slut shaming is sort of like a social media thing done by insecure men who are taking advantage of the anonymity of the internet.

Why I say so is because, back then in high school, we had girls who were so open and outspoken when discussing sex and sex related matters. We never saw them as sluts, at least nobody called them names. If anything, they were so popular and well respected among the guys and were great confidants for guys who needed some sort of coaching in relationship issues.
Guys didn't even relate well with the quiet, conserved girls. It's such a shame, the mindset of these hypocritical folks.

okwabayi:




Yes but using this logic I've never seen someone who'll allow others repeatedly cut a piece of his/her flesh with the promise that every cut will bring a payment of food.

The full time escorts and hungry college girls would disagree with you, not to mention the red district call girls.
It's a job for them.

The bottom line is, they enjoy it, but the enjoyment of sex is not the major reason most have sex.

Tell you what, even if a Nigerian girl decides to have sex for the big O, it's just a matter of time before she feels like she's doing the guy some big favour and as such she's going to find a way to make him pay for it, thereby relegating the reason of sexual pleasure for that of material gains.

FRoosevelt:
The full time escorts and hungry college girls would disagree with you, not to mention the red district call girls.
It's a job for them.

The bottom line is, they enjoy it, but the enjoyment of sex is not the major reason most have sex.

Tell you what, even if a Nigerian girl decides to have sex for the big O, it's just a matter of time before she feels like she's doing the guy some big favour and as such she's going to find a way to make him pay for it, thereby relegating the reason of sexual pleasure for that of material gains.

This is fact and was also a healthy debate.
I am satisfied with this outcome.

The escorts and call girls eventually learn to enjoy their jobs.
On the ashawo thread in 'that section' I learned the girls engage in sex 365 days of the year. I always assumed their monthly visitor halts their lifestyle but they engage men in their services regardless.

okwabayi:

This is fact and was also a healthy debate.
I am satisfied with this outcome.

Same here. I love it when I engage in debates and discussions with civil people as there's more to learn from each other.

okwabayi:


The escorts and call girls eventually learn to enjoy their jobs.
On the ashawo thread in 'that section' I learned the girls engage in sex 365 days of the year. I always assumed their monthly visitor halts their lifestyle but they engage men in ther services regardless.

Would you stop doing something that brings you money and enjoyment benefits? I won't.

You see, they might love their job but not every man who hops on their body. Sometimes they have to endure because, you know, the money.

Ashawo thread is an interesting section though, lots of sexcapades.

funmisticqueen:
the only man that deserves such an orgasm from me is the one who pays all my bills. i cant do that kind of thing for a broke man.

Because you have seen your father Na abi..stupid harlot

FRoosevelt:
I understand your argument.

What I'm saying Okwabayi is, most women in our country won't just say they want to have sex because they need the big O. No doubt, they enjoy the sex in most cases but the motive of having it is rather based on the reasons I listed above.
So whether they achieve orgasms or not during sex, I'll tell you that's not the main reason they'd wanna go down with a guy.

I've had girls who would call me up requesting to come over to my place. They know I'm going to get laid, but the main reason they'd come is because they want me to 'do something for them'
Give them money, buy them food, etc. They understand the power of using their body to manipulate sex addicted men into giving them what they want.
It's survival.

Bia where is my food?

Divay22:

Bia where is my food?

Hehehehe... You know what to do, don't you Divay?

FRoosevelt:
Hehehehe...
You know what to do, don't you Divay?

Nah..
For this one, I am confuse.
I visit food section, hoping and praying one day you'll call me

FRoosevelt:
I mean shedding tears of pleasure.

H0rny? You sure know what to do, don't you?

No, i am single and i don't masturbate

Divay22:

Nah..
For this one, I am confuse.
I visit food section, hoping and praying one day you'll call me

Rejoice Divay, your prayers are about to be answered. But....you need to take a step, don't be shy, just do it

I'll take over from there. Great cuisine exclusively prepared for you and just you, only if you'd take that step

Nnemuka:

No, i am single and i don't masturbate

Such a conundrum

I can only imagine the loads of pleasure welled up in you. Tell me something, doesn't it stress you out?

FRoosevelt:
Such a conundrum

I can only imagine the loads of pleasure welled up in you. Tell me something, doesn't it stress you out?

I am ovulating and i think i will rap someone if i don't get the d in hours....

I am stressed

Nnemuka:

I am ovulating and i think i will rap someone if i don't get the d in hours....

I am stressed

Hump your pillow, you'll be fine. Or cross your legs so tight. You'll feel great and relieved.

FRoosevelt:
Hump your pillow, you'll be fine. Or cross your legs so tight. You'll feel great and relieved.

Naaa....

Nnemuka:
Naaa....

Okay then

Ejusni:

Because you have seen your father Na abi..stupid harlot

yes na. you are just jealous i cant call you daddy in bed

Ejusni:

Because you have seen your father Na abi..stupid harlot

An insecure boy (Man is too big for you) spotted

FRoosevelt:
Share your opinion, amigo.

No be I see drink 7up today?

Biglittlelois:
It's a mixture of both most times

Cry or scream?

Only big diks that inflict pains can make a woman cry.

Abi na tears of joy u dey talk about?

Wilfredpat22:
We fake it

The only person that can cry out in vain is a virgin. If she is not a virgin forget it

She is a expired walking corpse

Monster dikk that inflict real pains can make u cry. Unless u are a canal.

willyo:

No be I see drink 7up today?

Oreofepeters:
You are the biggest mistake to humanity, shallow minded, shortsighted, dimwit and idiot like you believe there is an imaginary place called hellfire (holier than thou brothers) Africans are not in anyway holier than the whites #getthatintoyourhead..
You have been brainwashed already and I can't help, but go back and study your bible very well, there is nothing like hellfire...

Lemme sha educate you a bit

Hell means Hades, condition of the dead and "fire" is a figurative word bible uses to describe "external destruction".
Hence the two words doesn't correlate " Hellfire" was invented by your religious leaders to instill fear in you....

if I may ask, who would be in charge of that fire? God? or Jesus? But God is a God of love and kindness, 1john 4:8 he hates seeing us suffering from pains. Is it that same God that will change all of a sudden, sit back and relax and watch people burn in hell? that means God is wicked...











start using this drug, you need it the most....

Who has time to read what an uneducated brat like you want to say. Copy copy cat at least try to be original for once in your damned miserable life than to put up that meme I used. You really do need the drug for real. Grow up and try get small tiny sense. By the way I don't follow thread and I don't have time to read your crawl crawl speech, I only saw the last line, so you need to eat enough shit next time after taking the drug I recommended #Sensellin

GrowUpBoys:




Who has time to read what an uneducated brat like you want to say. Copy copy cat at least try to be original for once in your damned miserable life than to put up that meme I used. You really do need the drug for real. Grow up and try get small tiny sense. By the way I don't follow thread and I don't have time to read your crawl crawl speech, I only saw the last line, so you need to eat enough shit next time after taking the drug I recommended #Sensellin

I don't have time arguing with a douchebag like you. Your IQ is below 1% that's why you jump on people's mention like frog..


Get a life or try at least upgrade your sense to 1.5% you are just too low menh...

Oreofepeters:
I don't have time arguing with a douchebag like you. Your IQ is below 1% that's why you jump on people's mention like frog..


Get a life or try and upgrade your sense to at least 1.5% you are just too low menh...

Small boy small boy when will you learn? So simple English you can't read? Like I said to your bony arse, I don't have time to read anything coming from a rift rat/church rat like you so do get that drug and get over your depression. Sort your miserable life with your ancestors or village people, when you're done and grown with a little sense you can come back to battle and I might just read a line or two of your mother's cum dripping out of your stinking shrine of a mouth. #StupidMouse

FRoosevelt:
Have you ever cried during lovemaking?

Was it out of intense palpable pleasure or out of pains? or both??

Men are also invited to contribute, as women on here are super conservative and usually shy away from discussing their sex life.

1) They are pretending -boost the guy’s ego
2) pleasure/pain
3) very painful crying is the only thing one can do

GrowUpBoys:





Small boy small boy when will you learn? So simple English you can't read? Like I said to your bony arse, I don't have time to read anything coming from a rift rat/church rat like you so do get that drug and get over your depression. Sort your miserable life with your ancestors or village people, when you're done and grown with a little sense you can come back to battle and I might just read a line or two of your mother's cum dripping out of your stinking shrine of a mouth. #StupidMouse

lol you are pained eehya...
All these growing up boys of nairaland never seize to amaze me..... Last time I checked, you were a product of baby factory and nairaland is the only place that add meaning to your miserable asshat........

Oreofepeters:
lol you are pained eehya...
All these growing up boys of nairaland never seize to amaze me..... Last time I checked, you were a product of baby factory and nairaland is the only place that add meaning to your miserable asshat........

Keep wasting your tiny mb, I only see mention above my page and knowing its your rift rat/church rat arse, I am always happy to scroll down without bothering to read cause you are beneath me and I am so happy to always blast your tiny bony arse when I have the time without having to read what a brat like you has to say but it won't stop me from insulting you entire generation when I am less busy or when I feel like cause I love it that you read mine when I don't read yours. It's obvious by how fast I see your pained mentions but you're too below me for me to read your childish vomit. Your mother will do better in reading/gulping it off your tiny joystick. So you can crawl back into where the sun don't shine or hug the nearest transformer in your village, I no send you nor your garbage you dey hope make I read? #sorryforyoursmallmb I only enjoy hitting you where it hurts most. Don't forget though to drink extra #Sensellin #BarkingEkuke #Hahahaha #BringItOn #Continue #IAmEnjoyingThis #Hahaha #EDeyPainYouDie! #Hahahaha! #Hahahahahahaha!!!!!! Eat enough #shit next time #boy

GrowUpBoys:


Keep wasting your tiny mb, I only see mention above my page and knowing its your rift rat/church rat arse, I am always happy to scroll down without bothering to read cause you are beneath me and I am so happy to always blast your tiny bony arse when I have the time without having to read what a brat like you has to say but it won't stop me from insulting you entire generation when I am less busy or when I feel like cause I love it that you read mine when I don't read yours. It's obvious by how fast I see your pained mentions but you're too below me for me to read your childish vomit. Your mother will do better in reading/gulping it off your tiny joystick. So you can crawl back into where the sun don't shine or hug the nearest transformer in your village, I no send you nor your garbage you dey hope make I read? #sorryforyoursmallmb I only enjoy hitting you where it hurts most. Don't forget though to drink extra #Sensellin #BarkingEkuke #Hahahaha #BringItOn #Continue #IAmEnjoyingThis #Hahaha #EDeyPainYouDie! #Hahahaha! #Hahahahahahaha!!!!!! Eat enough #shit next time #boy

buhahaahah I don't have time to read that epistle you wrote up there, I could only glimpsed the first line, all na thrash it's better not to read it.................I don't blame you though I blame your mum for breeding an insipid Clodpate then donated it to a baby factory due to her waywardness..........

Abeg go and get brain transplant so that you can assimilate this...