WinningEleven:

If you know, you know

Biglittlelois:
But she's right in a way, what if the guy you put your hope on dissapionts at the end after soo many years, that means you have to start from scratch with another guy, do you know how emotionally draining that is

GOFRONT:
Why is it that the pressure to get married is more on the ladies side than the guyz side??

Allaboutkatiee:
I support her 100%
No need putting all your eggs in one basket

openmine:

I agree about the abuses but I totally disagree about double dating!
If the motive of a relationship is to know that person better and hopefully graduate to marriage,what would she do with five or six guys?
If the 5 guys are in love with her,who will she end up picking?
What if she ends up picking a wrong guy only to regret at d end?
What if the guys she is dating finds out and decide to codedly use her and dump her at the end?
What if the same man she likes among her numerous bf is actually cheating on her?
One sure thing about life is that we will surely face heartbreaks,but it all depends on how the individual handles it!
I will no tell my enemy to double date!
Its totally illogical!
My opinion though

eniorisha:
Most people believe dating equates or must always involve sex. As far as I'm concern, she's very correct, so far u take sex out of d equation with both guys.


Single datings DT many of us had been involved in since...where have they lead us?

DATING is not equal to sex abeg!

correctbae:
Many ladies have been victims and will still be victims of heartbreak. Many ladies find it difficult to move on after such experiences and it has been one of the reasons many are still Unmarried.
Omohtee12 on twitter has thought of a way out for those that want to get married soon, according to her tweet, girls should date more than one guy instead of sticking to one. She also advised ladies to step up their games and not put all eggs in one baasket.
And u call ur self (Jesus picking) sorry for ur guy
Tweet below;

You want to get married soon and you are dating only 1man?���
Ladies step up your game and stop putting all your eggs in a basket

Read Also: “Ladies Wearing Black Bra Are Dirty”- Nigerian Man Says On Faceb00k
https://correctbae.ng/2018/11/06/ladies-wearing-black-bra-are-dirty-married-man-says-on-faceb00k/

correctbae:
Many ladies have been victims and will still be victims of heartbreak. Many ladies find it difficult to move on after such experiences and it has been one of the reasons many are still Unmarried.
Omohtee12 on twitter has thought of a way out for those that want to get married soon, according to her tweet, girls should date more than one guy instead of sticking to one. She also advised ladies to step up their games and not put all eggs in one baasket.
And u call ur self (Jesus piking) sorry for ur guy
Tweet below;

You want to get married soon and you are dating only 1man?���
Ladies step up your game and stop putting all your eggs in a basket

Read Also: “Ladies Wearing Black Bra Are Dirty”- Nigerian Man Says On Faceb00k
https://correctbae.ng/2018/11/06/ladies-wearing-black-bra-are-dirty-married-man-says-on-faceb00k/

Divay22:
I wonder how people cope with this double dating of a thing.
Body no dey pain them

IamD18:
If you like date 20 guys, they'll fvck you, gist your pussay within themselves and dump your sorry ass if sex is the only thing you are offering them.

Use your head. To whom wide pussay is given, sense is expected.

einsteine:


How many people would be boyfriends without having sex? Except they attend Deeper Life or something.

Oreofepeters:
You know this is a bitter truth, don't argue with that fact...

Allaboutkatiee:
I support her 100% No need putting all your eggs in one basket

Slikbae:
You're not talking to a novice. I am a doctor and it is a medical fact that men have a biological clock just as women and every other living creature.

Newsflash: As a man, do you know that the quality of your sperm reduces at 40 hence reducing the probability of birthing a normal healthy baby?

Fisher007:


Nope she is wrong. If you are looking for sexmate, boyfriend with benifits, flexmate etc, she is right.

But if you are looking for a 'real husband' , you need to be with one.
You need to build trust and loyalty among each other.

Now the issues of hope or all your eggs in one basket. Why focus so much on a man emotionally or financially when you still have your parents or sibling to care for. You need to channel that energy on your career in other to be self-dependent first before looking for a real husband.

The fact is that most Nigerian ladies are lazy, you need a husband to continue the work or position of your father. You all don't like to work and sort your responsibilities. Most ladies see marriage as a safe haven.

Most parents don't even advice their daughters cause they see her marrying as less burden on them. They will now tell you 'Once you are in you are in'

Advice build yourself first and don't put any hope in any guy. The right guy will eventually come when he sees your worth and knows your value.

But dating multiple guys means future trouble for you cause, one way or the other your husband will know you were double or triple dating during your courtship with him. And that will lead to disrespect in your home, lack of trust and self-worth for you as long as you remain is wife.

solasoulmusic:
I humbly disagree having too many men is a distraction and a turn off for guys and guys just because you have the number doesn’t mean you’ve won the heart it takes work takes sacrifice and a willingness to try

What happens is people stop trying when their effort is needed most and love really isn’t as complicated it’s appreciation everyday not just on birthdays

openmine:

Nice....I finally agree with your submissions!
Thumbs up

Tijay90:
I'm beginning to agree that people with big brezz usually don't have sense.

Allaboutkatiee:
Why is my comment paining your guys like this?
Me having 5 boyfriends doesn't mean am sleeping with all of them
Besides I was just kidding Sha
And I call them mugus,they think am dating them but to me they are friends (money spenders)

vickydevoka:

Jess! Aw do u knw. Very very rite. One of my criteria of getting married. U must not have big brezz n ass