The Good Girl falling for the Bad Boy is a universal phenomenon. Many girls confess to being drawn to the wrong boys and this is one mystery the world may never unravel...

You will hear ladies talk about their need for a sincere,loving,faithful,romantic....guy but when they eventually have one asking them out they start acting up and in most cases, they usually don't develop any feelings for such.

In many instances i have heard ladies say " x is a great guy, he is caring, romantic...but I don't have any feelings for him but g is who I want but he is just treating me like shit and making me unhappy"

Please how do we reconcile a situation where many ladies keep desiring guys who treat them like pooh and at the end they cry over avoidable heart break...

I have seen several cases where I will tell a lady clearly that I'm not in yet she will just be ok with flings yet she will tell me about men who are genuinely interested in them. I guess im the bad guy in this situation cos i have no feelings for them.

This is one mystery I don't understand but maybe anyone else can give a clear reason to this strange phenomenon.

Nairalanders over to you all.

There is nothing much to explain. Joe Clef has handled it in the book Mr. Friendzone.

Maybe lalasticlala will have an answer to this.

Bro, any lady who says such sh!t is still a child. Go and date an older lady and see how relationship is supposed to be

Bad guys ko good boys ni

Fazemood:
Bro, any lady who says such sh!t is still a child. Go and date an older lady and see how relationship is supposed to be

It may surprise you that it is the same with even many older ones...why do you think many ladies keep running out of their marriage? they usually complain of the guy acting in one crazy way or the other but they had the chance to marry a good guy but they still chose the bad guy even when they knew.

Toks2008:


It may surprise you that it is the same with even many older ones...why do you think many ladies keep running out of their marriage? they usually complain of the guy acting in one crazy way or the other but they had the chance to marry a good guy but they still chose the bad guy even when they knew.

Any lady who is above 35 and still thinks that way is a kid. Bro, this kind of excuses are common with girl of the age bracket 18 to 30.

A woman who doesn't appreciate a good man at her 27yrs is a hoe. Never give your heart to a lady who goes after your appearance alone they don't last.

Toks2008:


It may surprise you that it is the same with even many older ones...why do you think many ladies keep running out of their marriage? they usually complain of the guy acting in one crazy way or the other but they had the chance to marry a good guy but they still chose the bad guy even when they knew.

Some for the sex.
Others for the thrill of being with a perceived "happening guy".
A few are clueless.
Others were abused, got pregnant and society made them stay.
Bad girls would naturally follow bad boys too.

After all said and done, sensible women will go for good men most of the time jare.

Okay, come and tell me if the girl and guy here are good or bad

It goes with age with women and it applies to both genders.

Let's focus on women since it's the topic.

Most ladies from 18-27 are childish, sluts, arrogant, flirts and not focused. They are only after their finacial-needs from guys and pussay-satisfaction which most bad guyz can offer.


From 28 upwards, maturity steps in, marital reality steps in, pressure increases, lots of heartbreaks, fear of biological expiration, depreciation of sexual features steps in, they wanna focus, they've realized lots of mistakes, they need a man to accept them with their flaws, they become decent, start pretending, talk responsibly, behave well because they wanna meet a target which is A CARING GOOD GUY as a husband. That's why you'll hardly see an aged lady from 28 upwards say trash, brag with number of men she fvcks or depend on men to survive. They don't do that. If you see any lady saying that men MUST provide while being jobless, glorifying their beauty and pussay, just know that she's still an immature lady mostly from 25 downward who's after bad guyz.


Real matured women from 28 upwards don't pray or fall for bad guys, kids from 25 downwards does that because they are not focused, inexperienced and yet to know what life and relationship is all about.

Falling for bad guyz goes with age, that's why most bad guyz are scared of aged ladies, they only go after the young ones with fish brains.

That's stereotyped.
I'm a good girl and I am.with the world best good man.

Simple!
The bad boy is fascinating, the good boy is boring.
Mr Nice guy will always settle for the leftovers of Mr Bad Guy!

highqueen:
That's stereotyped.
I'm a good girl and I am.with the world best good man.

One thing about ladies is the ability to say a thing while they actually mean the complete opposite

TonyeBarcanista:
One thing about ladies is the ability to say a thing while they actually mean the complete opposite

No, I actually mean whatever I say.

Have never been attracted to bad guys before, I'm always attracted to the church or the ones with homely attitude.
Bad guys are evil, won't ever take you serious cos they have many ladies lurking around.
I hate dramas from men.

TonyeBarcanista:
Simple!

The bad boy is fascinating, the good boy is boring.

Mr Nice guy will always settle for the leftovers of Mr Bad Guy!

Yeah, I kinda like the boring guys.

highqueen:

No, I actually mean whatever I say.

Have never been attracted to bad guys before, I'm always attracted to the church or the ones with homely attitude.
Bad guys are evil, won't ever take you serious cos they have many ladies lurking around.
I hate dramas from men.

Na so! Na so na so!

highqueen:
Yeah, I kinda like the boring guys.

Lol

Women love us cuz we don't give two fvcks about them & women have very low self-esteem.


We don't care or pay any attention to girls and females naturally are attracted to things they can't get.

TonyeBarcanista:
Na so! Na so na so!

Seems you are a bad guy, lemme take to my heels.

highqueen:
That's stereotyped. I'm a good girl and I am.with the world best good man.

So why isn't he fvcking you well enough to keep you offline by this time?

Your relationship is either non-existent or dead.

LuciferKristi:
Women love us cuz we don't give two fvcks about them & women have very low self-esteem.


We don't care or pay any attention to girls and females naturally are attracted to things they can't get.

Sharap

LuciferKristi:




So why isn't he fvcking you well enough to keep you offline by this time?


Your relationship is either non-existent or dead.

I'm in no sex relationship.

highqueen:

Seems you are a bad guy, lemme take to my heels.

You want to run from your shadow?

highqueen:
I'm in no sex relationship.

Most rotten-fish odoured ladies are

LuciferKristi:



Most rotten-fish odoured ladies are

Is this necessary?

LuciferKristi:




Most rotten-fish odoured ladies are

Hmmmm.

most of them are confused,a bad guy will pamper you,say sweet words, and buy you anything just to get into a Lady pants....a good guy doesn't have time for that,he is interested in your future,your emotions,your well being..but do these ladies care?.no!!!..all they want is the lies they are been told and the pseudo trills they feel........most ladies don't know what they want!!

highqueen:
That's stereotyped.
I'm a good girl and I am.with the world best good man.

Good for you, But statistics says most women who say their partners are the best with a grin emoji are having it worse than those who say it factly.

Keke drop me here!
Make I chop popcorn dey observe

TonyeBarcanista:
You want to run from your shadow?

abeg people Im new here ...how do I make friends here every thing looks strange

folake4u:
Keke drop me here!

Make I chop popcorn dey observe

Lol

Oluromantic:
Lol