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Lady Jubilates As Neighbour She Used To Give Food To Marries Her / Man Unknowingly Took His Fiancée To Hotel / Man Offers Girlfriend N500k To Dump Her For Another Lady. She Collects The Money (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 7:39am On Nov 09, 2018 |
ogasharpsharp:you just said, it all. that's why I have decided not to go into any relationship with my heart,but with my head. 9 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Mobi47(m): 7:41am On Nov 09, 2018 |
if that is what she really did then its very bad and a red sign to ur future plans with her. if she really likes you, she wouldn't take such actions without your permission such a lady will give you headache when u marry her. forget about her for your own good and make sure u collect at list halve of that money back.....I know she wouldn't want to pay back but how ever it comes just see it as a sign from heaving helping u to avoid a big mistake. but if say na after marriage u do that kind thing for her e for better....she no go try D's kind thing na Note: those ladies above insulting you and supporting her, have same character as her and can do even worst....so don't mind their words. A stitch in time, saves nine. 8 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by ednut1(m): 7:43am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Pureety:it is still fraud haba. If she wasnt alive wont the family issue be resolved. So imagine u give ur mum money for business bt she go give one pastor. How wud u feel 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by chris20000: 8:29am On Nov 09, 2018 |
I'm really dumbfounded by the comments coming from our girls here. I just hope you girls are joking o, if not then there is a big problem. Not even one of you condemned the girl's action. The truth is this, none of you girls will come out and say such trash apart from nairaland because it's a faceless forum. Note that I'm watching all of you and I and my friends or anyone relating to me will stay as far as possible from you girls. 44 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by anochuko01(m): 8:44am On Nov 09, 2018 |
which responsible person would spend a whole 500k on another thing outside what was initially agreed ![]() speaks alot about her person 9 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by SantiRAMBO: 8:54am On Nov 09, 2018 |
I don't know when guys will have sense Lets gather here and pray for this brother... #SayNoToEmotionalSlavery The girl is not sensible, she's got the brain of a fish and the earlier you look elsewhere for love the better for you.. Many girls will worship you for giving dem 500k and here you are wasting it on a dullard in the name of relationship. 6 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by AryEmber(f): 9:06am On Nov 09, 2018 |
The only problem I see here is that she didn't inform you and hear what you had to say first. So call her first and tell her how hurt you were, if she does not show any remorse and apologise, gerra of the relationship. 18 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Headlesschicken(m): 9:07am On Nov 09, 2018 |
![]() MhizzAJ: 32 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 9:11am On Nov 09, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:You're Useless as the guy above you said about the girl in OP Question 15 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by carter009(m): 9:23am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Useless thing, can't you just shut up for once. MhizzAJ: 23 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by henrybomb(m): 9:24am On Nov 09, 2018 |
First, never post issues like this on social medium because some people here are just sick up there while a few of them are reasonable. Second, you shouldn't leave her because of that I know 500k is not small but you guys should talk about it. She probably didn't think it through spending that amount on family issues because I think she shouldn't have done that, to be on the safer side make your findings properly 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Acidosis(m): 9:27am On Nov 09, 2018 |
ogasharpsharp: That got me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 25 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by chronique(m): 9:45am On Nov 09, 2018 |
I haven't visited the romance section in a long while cos of the shallow dull unintelligent comments I read here and today that I visited and decided to read a thread, I'm being welcomed with same comments. Apparently, the brain dead fellows who are criticizing the guy seem to have forgotten that all fingers are not equal and the dude gave what he could afford. 500k isn't any small money to be overlooked at all. I don't understand how someone gives you money for business and you spend everything on taking care of family. It's obvious you never needed the money for business. 55 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 9:54am On Nov 09, 2018 |
MhizzAJ: May your bro spend all his life savings on his GF . 59 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:56am On Nov 09, 2018 |
ramselly:Have you empowered your younger sister or mother with 500k before? 29 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by TonyeBarcanista(m): 9:58am On Nov 09, 2018 |
[s] Pureety:[/s] 3 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:01am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Liliyann:This is poverty of the mind speaking through you 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 10:02am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Girls are never satisfied even if you give her a million they will be like John gave his gf 5mil naira. If I were you, I would be the one to rent the shop and buy everything in it, it will be mine with her working in it. In case she changes her mind all you will have to do is employ a new staff lol. This benefits is for the office of a gf. Omon shine you eye, don't let a girl take you for granted. 24 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Les: 10:08am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Pureety:shut up, just shut up! 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Les: 10:08am On Nov 09, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:shut up 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Les: 10:10am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Liliyann:I'm ashamed of you. To the guy, the girl comes first, but to the girl, her family comes first? Truly I'm ashamed of you and please shut up b4 you embarrass me further! 58 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Les: 10:12am On Nov 09, 2018 |
highqueen:shameless fellow, just shut it! 39 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Nobody: 10:13am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Most ladies you meet are supportive. They can play that you role with care, advices or just their emotional presence so leave that out. Now, here is the deal: Half a million is a big deal. That amount can do some things or even bulk up if you have fix it in ALAT. I trust that you've learnt now that you should never spend Big on any girl that isn't engaged (formal family introduced ) to your family. Family problems would always be there. One cousin needs WAEC money, a brother needs this or that, the painful thing you might discover is that some part of the money might have been spent on less important stuffs like new phones, aso ebi, etc and not critical stuff like health, etc. 500k would have settled a lot except she paid house rent for someone. Maybe another guy. You appear to be the one considering a breakup. Guess what I think : She might be thinking just the same too. I'm fact, she might be planning to serve you a line soonest. She needs to be taught how to spend money. She needs to make up for the money. This can't end in 'I am sorry' or rounds of sex (if at all) else she would do it again. If managing resources is the only issue you have with her, I can bet that she is not a bad woman. You should strive to maintain your relationship and push to marriage aptly. You can't find the perfect human. Even you aren't perfect. She needs to know how big the problem is. She may not have squandered the money if the 700k were complete. You should know the situation na. She was happy you helped her. She can't touch the money. But it's not complete. She had a lone 500k in her account. Which probably never happened before. She must have bragged about her balance to a sibling. Or one mistakenly spotted it while playing with her phone. Then tells others. A need arises and they push the question to her. Sade, do you have up to 45k with you? Lekan needs to resume school and as you can see, there is no money at home. I'll return to you by ending. (never happens) She must have faced difficult dilemma but had no choice. She sent the money and the moment its less than 500, it starts raising down to like 25k. She can't dare tell you nor ask you for any more money during that time. So she started taking out of it for hair, nails (if at all) and other ladies thing. When the money reached 280k, her brain booted up, she realized how much was gone already and started feeling bad. She redefines her shop ambition to a smaller plan. But she would need 350k to do that. She needs just 70k more. Feliz, her ex has been disturbing her for some time now. She noticed things have changed for him since he came back to Nigeria from his masters at UK. She realized she can just play smile for a little and perhaps raise the 70k or even more from him. So things went south. She spent a few more (30k) on cloths and accessories to look better around Feliz. Now with 100k to remake, she did everything with Felix, but got only 20k during the entire week of hard labour in the other room. What a shame. Felix lives a fake life and wasn't really buzzed up as she thought. Well, she spent the remaining of that month attending to some other men that have been on the wait list. She made the 100k laslas. And tried to get a lower shop behind you. You found out and questioned her on why. She claimed she reduced her taste and is okay on this new level. I am tired of writing. Lots can happen. Lots would have happened. Next time, If the budget is 700k and you know you can afford 500k. Tell her it's ready. Tell her to bring 200k. Since you're dating her, you should know her work and her income strength. If she has no job, where did you expect her to raise 200k from? Her family? Lastly, keep the woman and appreciate her.. Visit her family once in a while and see how life is for them over there. You are going to be part of the family too if you proceed. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Les: 10:15am On Nov 09, 2018 |
AryEmber:finally some sensible lady, after a year, there's no need for explanation, that girl don't deserve this wonderful man. He just go! 6 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by highqueen(f): 10:18am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Les:It's like you are very stupid. Make your comment and never quote me again. 2 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by delkuf(m): 10:25am On Nov 09, 2018 |
MetroBaba1:why una dey answer this girl. Una see say some body come ajegunle , una dey get time to answer am |
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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Les: 10:30am On Nov 09, 2018 |
highqueen:lowest queen! 37 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by marvin906(m): 10:31am On Nov 09, 2018 |
MhizzAJ: if I tell you word this morning you will say am a bully... your village peeps Don they touch wire's for head this morning 4 Likes
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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Liliyann(f): 10:31am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Les: Who do we have here?? Little girl, this isn't kiddies section!!! Run along, go play with your toys!!! State your point and don't ever mention me again!!! I don't have the time for asslickers!!! You are a big shame to womanhood!!! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by highqueen(f): 10:32am On Nov 09, 2018 |
Liliyann:You can imagine the little rat. I blame nairaland shaa 3 Likes |
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