It's sad seeing how these phrases: "don't judge him/her"
"he/she's not perfect"
"it's a past mistake" etc
have rid the world of it's morals


because of "dont judge", many people now do shiiit, condone shiiit, willingly accept shiiit and encourage shiiit.


Because of "dont judge", no one sees the killing of a feotus (abortion) as a grave sin/crime


well for me, i refuse to accept "dont judge" hence, i can never marry a lady who undergo an abortion esp one who feels no remorse


she's a murderer and i refuse to accept her

EOD


PS: op dont let "dont judge" and it's advocates confuse you


do what you think is right

highqueen:

Lol, it happens.
It's inevitable.
Have seen his type brag so much about who and what to marry, only to end up with something else.
This life eeh.

He never brag na, he only said he can't marry a non-virgin

why do you need to show remorse or whatsoever to what you do intentionally to terminate unintended foetus. well, everyone in this part of this world take things serious. they say you are the sperm that won and what about those that lose? ehn, they are flush down the drain... like that and and sperm that won fate are determine by the management of the game, the two bitches that partake in the show of shame, so with that even the winner could not lift the trophy.

even anyone showing any f*cking remorse for whatsoever (s)he do intentionally provided (s)he was not forced,coerced, cajole or under the influence of any drug or VP such person deserved to be...... don't let me say what's in my mind.

will the fucking remorse bring it to life?
will it change the fact that you are a killer?
once a thief always a the if, once a murderer you always in our club!

and look and at some flaccid dick over their claiming they can't do shīt, I bet your girlfriend had more than a dozen abortion and to shock you, yours are among, couple of you potential babies are in the sink. this is part of the reason your woman won't tell you the truth because you always wanna be saint, ask them if they've e not done it before without condom and if it lead to preg nko? will you accept to take care of them baby mama with your wretched 18k minimum wage, that's if you have job. nonsense. all these niaralander will just make one to be angry for ko reason. no be cause am nah that guy.

Oyindidi:
He never brag na, he only said he can't marry a non-virgin

He did, check his comments again.




I love this life shaa.

highqueen:

He did, check his comments again.
I love this life shaa.

You know him off nairaland?

TonyeBarcanista:
Who deserve who is not my problem, mine is my rules, my standard!

I set my rules and my standard! Simple...

What are the rules, we might just be on the same page.

Oyindidi:
Yes, you should walk the walk not just preaching. Love will leave you to a woman that is not a virgin. A virgin in Nigeria will be a girl of 14.

Love? hahahaa!

I don't believe in love BTW, except the love of parents to their children and among siblings. So love can't lead me anywhere!

What people call love is manipulation of the mind, as for me I've gone past that level!

And talking of marriage, I'm not a fan of it, I like my bachelorhood and my ultimate desire is never to get married (though I'll have to compromise this to fulfil the desire of my parents and siblings, people I could sacrifice anything for to make them happy). So, if I'm to marry, it will 90% a virgin or an extremely decent non-virgin (the likelihood is 10%) and a young one at that (under 24 ).

In summary I love my space, I hate drama associated with relationships/marriage. I have my life, dreams and career to pursue. I so wish I will have my way to birth through Babymama... That's a desire!

Oyindidi:
You know him off nairaland?

Lol, nope.

Why you ask?

highqueen:

He did, check his comments again.




I love this life shaa.

Funny, the person that you directed this your comment to know me off this platform. In fact, a couple of years ago!

I don't brag! I say things I mean and mean things I say...

Only cowards brag

TonyeBarcanista:
Love? hahahaa!

I don't believe in love BTW, except the love of parents to their children and among siblings. So love can't lead me anywhere!

What people call love is manipulation of the mind, as for me I've gone past that level!

And talking of marriage, I'm not a fan of it, I like my bachelorhood and my ultimate desire is never to get married (though I'll have to compromise this to fulfil the desire of my parents and siblings, people I could sacrifice anything for to make them happy). So, if I'm to marry, it will 90% a virgin or an extremely decent non-virgin (the likelihood is 10%) and a young one at that (under 24 ).

In summary I love my space, I hate drama associated with relationships/marriage. I have my life, dreams and career to pursue. I so wish I will have my way to birth through Babymama... That's a desire!

You were ones a loverboy she don do you

I don't believe in this so called love. You know that's not possible. If you didn't iya your wife the children don't belong to you. That babymama ish is not honoured in some tribes.

highqueen:

Lol, nope.

Why you ask?

Lol, he's my younger brother

TonyeBarcanista:

Funny, the person that you directed this your comment to know me off this platform. In fact, a couple of years ago!

I don't brag! I say things I mean and mean things I say...

Only cowards brag

You may not see it as bragging, but that's an outright one you just did in all your posts.

Continue revelling on your euphoria of hallucinations.
There are so many inevitabilities in this life shaa.

paix:
What are the rules, we might just be on the same page.

With respect to the subject;

I can't take the burden of another man.

Also, I believe people are responsible for the choice they make. I also believe people should decide what they want and what they can't live it instead of the society to define it.

Things like virginity, chastity, body counts, abortion, baby outside wedlock, divorcee etc are strong factors that I consider in settling down, though for "freestyle relationship", I wouldn't mind...

Oyindidi:
Lol, he's my younger brother

Lool.
Younger, that means he's a boy.

highqueen:

Lool.
Younger, that means he's a boy.

No, he's a grown man

Oyindidi:
You were ones a loverboy she don do you

I don't believe in this so called love. You know that's not possible. If you didn't iya your wife the children don't belong to you. That babymama ish is not honoured in some tribes.

The Iya thing is a scam by in-laws to reap where they never sowed. My dad did it and spent a fortune in 2006 to do the Okurukaka (hope I spelt well?)

For me, honestly, I don't even know where I'd marry from sef (the likelihood of being my place is HIGHLY NEGATIVE) - That is if I marry sef and Iya is out of it. The Iya my father did I haven't seen the financial benefit to me or to him aside some village bragging right, which I care not.

Thankfully, I will start writing my will from the day a woman birth my first child

Oyindidi:
No, he's a grown man

Lol, maybe physically but I doubt that in his age though.

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highqueen:

You may not see it as bragging, but that's an outright one you just did in all your posts.

Continue revelling on your euphoria of hallucinations.
There are so many inevitabilities in this life shaa.

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TonyeBarcanista:
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Reality will soon come knocking.

Oyindidi:
Lol, he's my younger brother

Na elderly man you de call younger brother?

TonyeBarcanista:

The Iya thing is a scam by in-laws to reap where they never sowed. My dad did it and spent a fortune in 2006 to do the Okurukaka (hope I spelt well?)

For me, honestly, I don't even know where I'd marry from sef (the likelihood of being my place is HIGHLY NEGATIVE) - That is if I marry sef and Iya is out of it. The Iya my father did I haven't seen the financial benefit to me or to him aside some village bragging right, which I care not.

Thankfully, I will start writing my will from the first day a woman birth my child

My brother, my neighbor's children iya their mother after the death of their father to take part in his inheritance. They spent close to a million if not more to marry their mother.

I believe the okurukaka is normally done after years of marriage, right?

TonyeBarcanista:
Na elderly man you de call younger brother?

You remember watin that guy talk for your aunt place

TonyeBarcanista:
CAPITAL NO!

NO MEANS NO irrespective of the excuse!

Others may, I CANNOT!

and pls if I may ask how will u know?

highqueen:

Lol, maybe physically but I doubt that in his age though.

Tonye is grown man but physically and in age. Are you ready to pay the groom's price?

Amakababe:
what lady (age 18-45) hasn't done an abortion before.
all na wash.
u suppose dey thank her for telling u sef lolz

ahhhhhh...abeg.....its not every Lady in DAT age bracket dat has had abortion o....pls....abeg...I av not done abortion and I don't plan on doing

Oyindidi:
Tonye is grown man but physically and in age. Are you ready to pay the groom's price?

Lol, in age maybe 26-28.
I doubt he's 30 and above since he is still a hustler.



Pay groom price? Lol, nah, I will pass.

Eveezy:
God Forbid, for why na?
























She must have had atleast 4 to prove dt she is fertile

gossshhhh!!!!wetin u dey yan!!!!wat type of brain do u av niso she should av four abortions... and destroy her body... get sense!!!

Oyindidi:
My brother, my neighbor's children iya their mother after the death of their father to take part in his inheritance. They spent close to a million if not more to marry their mother.

I believe the okurukaka is normally done after years of marriage, right?

Well maybe there are some family inheritance to be shared that was why. For me, no Iya, the likelihood is negative. I don't have any plan to invest my life at home, I desire to give my kids better life in the city or outside the country. Those that enjoy inheriting home fortunes should go ahead!

Beside, my father did Iya'a on my mother, my grandfather did on my grandmother, my great grandfather did for my great grandmother but I am yet to see ANY benefit...

As for Okorukaka, it can be done anytime as long as the $$$$ is there.

AryEmber:
Don't tell me you think every lady in that age gap gas had an abortion before

I yuss taya for the Lady oo...na wa.... chaii

boomssey:
and pls if I may ask how will u know?

I will ask her na

TonyeBarcanista:

With respect to the subject;

I can't take the burden of another man.

Also, I believe people are responsible for the choice they make. I also believe people should decide what they want and what they can't live it instead of the society to define it.

Things like virginity, chastity, body counts, abortion, baby outside wedlock, divorcee etc are strong factors that I consider in settling down, though for "freestyle relationship", I wouldn't mind...

As I said, we're on the same page.

Amakababe:
of course you'll deny as natural defence mechanism.
but it's fine sweetie, this is a faceless forum.

abeg nor dey yan this kind thing. who says the kinda shii tho