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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Emasel(m): 9:23am On Nov 12, 2018 |
NO! Unless I'm not aware. If she has committed abortion(s) and I ask her and she lies, it's between her and God. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by enemyofprogress: 9:23am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Saff:experience teacher, you must have have done abortion about 5-7 times for different boys,mark the word boys 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 9:24am On Nov 12, 2018 |
I’m telling you! It’s crazy the way life works ![]() highqueen: |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Flattino(m): 9:24am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Thank God for Islam 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 9:25am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Never did abortion in my life, and if I have I wouldnt hesitate to tell my partner just because I like to be transparent. I just know a lot about life. enemyofprogress: |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by enemyofprogress: 9:26am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Saff:pills nko |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 9:28am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Sure enemyofprogress: |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Ryocaj(m): 9:28am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Saff: Lol.. dis one don abort posterity finish.. olobe 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by IamPlato(m): 9:29am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Saff:... This Is An Insult To Men Like IAmplato NwaAmaikpe Donstan18 and Lefulefu... |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Ryocaj(m): 9:29am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Saff:lol..dis one don abort posterity finish.. olobe |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by ifeko1214(m): 9:29am On Nov 12, 2018 |
AryEmber: U had any? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by ifeko1214(m): 9:31am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Saff: Hw many have u had? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Thicktemptation(f): 9:31am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Have you impregnated a girl before and she had an abortion ? If yes u too don do abortion 5 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by nesman: 9:32am On Nov 12, 2018 |
80% of woman have had abortion. must woman can't tell you their past life, cos it contains lots. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Ryocaj(m): 9:32am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Amakababe:So u have had an abortion b4 |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by thegoodone1234(m): 9:32am On Nov 12, 2018 |
capital YES |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by ifeko1214(m): 9:33am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Amakababe: So u don abort taya ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Nobody: 9:33am On Nov 12, 2018 |
thegoodone1234:Can you marry one that has done it 3 times? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by enemyofprogress: 9:34am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Saff:you have swallowed all of them for belle. Wicked girl! |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Smartie234: 9:34am On Nov 12, 2018 |
KanielOutis92: Pls ignore that comment. This must be very desperate,miserable, and idiotic attention seeking guy posing as a woman 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by smellingmenses: 9:34am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Saff:D Matter touch you no be small.. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 9:34am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by enemyofprogress: 9:35am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Amakababe:no wonder! |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Nobody: 9:35am On Nov 12, 2018 |
If you as a man has ever had sex with a girl without condom and released inside here. SAME question applies to YOU. DO YOU DESERVED TO BE MARRIED? The thing is men want it all perfect and holy but how many times have you had the urge or have sex with a girl not thinkING about the implication of that sex. When shhiitt hit the fan, all of a sudden we start blaming the girl for not carrying the child for 9 months without care. Seeing the child get education and care like other child and also while living the guilt or prejudice of having sex outside marriage and being a lone parent. Many Nigerians mind is like that of our President. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Bradiyung(m): 9:36am On Nov 12, 2018 |
No never!!! I can't marry someone who has taken an innocent live it's better u are a single mother than u committed abortion...it's a no no for me |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Chanchit: 9:40am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Amakababe: The funny thing is, most of the people here, male and female, when it finally happens to them, they won't come here and say it. Even married couples do it, most of the times, the woman won't even tell her husband. I know girls that their mother boasts of their virginity status, but people weh know, know that they have aborted pregnancies more than twice. To the main question, only a silly girl tell her bf she has aborted pregnancy before. The only reason I would want that kind of info is if the abortion has affected her womb. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Saff(f): 9:42am On Nov 12, 2018 |
It will shock you. You will just marry an ex prostitution, in disguise of a clean, innocent beautiful lady out of desperation. That’s the prophecy I have for you and I believe it will happen. TonyeBarcanista: 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by sparko1(m): 9:43am On Nov 12, 2018 |
GoldHorse: Oh! so you don't know you can castrate with herbal drugs, the man will still be there and even every other thing will be there, he will even be able to have sex but he can't impregnate a woman! ok now, you see, yeah! that thought you have now is exactly how it feels! just take a look at some psychological effect of abortion, know a woman with all the different challenges, now add this! Psychological consequences of an abortion Unfounded and uncontrolled crying Problems with later pregnancies, for example a higher risk of miscarriages and premature births; increased perinatal mortality (during and after the birth); increased risk of tubal or abdominal pregnancies Severe mood swings and instability Signs of nervous tension, like sweats, trembling, flushing, paleness and general nervousness Restlessness and tension, possibly even hyperactivity Concentration and memory disorders Depression Feelings of shame, repentence and remorse Thoughts of suicide Feeling of loneliness and inner emptiness Death of feelings (“Robot feeling”) Feeling of lonesomeness, exclusion and isolation Feeling of emotional indifference Feeling of being condemned or dirty in terms of a relationship with a higher power or with people Decreased self-esteem Self-aggression (nail biting, teeth grinding, scratching) Medicine, drug and alcohol abuse Strong reaction to noises that bring the suction curettage to mind (like vacuum cleaner noise) Compulsive re-experiencing of the abortion in the mind Multiple abortions (compulsive repetition) Wow!, just wow! Strong emotional reactions at the sight of a pregnant woman or a baby Stronger resistance during gynaecological examinations Fear of “punishment” through serious disease or accidents of one’s other children (Niobe syndrome) Relationship problems Feelings of hate and disgust in relation to sexuality Rage and hate for the child’s father, the abortion doctor or men generally now I know the source of Feminist tendencies! Feeling of helplessness towards the subsequent children; increased risk for mistreatment, many of our mothers can relate A feeling of loss of parental authority over the other children [url https://samc-foundation.ch/abortion/consequences-of-abortion/]Source[/url] |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by RTSC: 9:43am On Nov 12, 2018 |
If I can help it, I won't marry her. There is always a trauma or guilt that the lady will carry for as long as she lives. So I would rather not. But then, she probably won't tell you. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Uglymugg: 9:45am On Nov 12, 2018 |
KanielOutis92: That's a guy. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by sommyboi(m): 9:50am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Saff: You're an honest person tho. God bless you and keep you happy in life! |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by excel001(m): 9:53am On Nov 12, 2018 |
highqueen:One of the warnings i got from a mentor is never to deflower a girl am not ready to tie the knot with and I have always kept to it. Even on some occasions that i have come across some virgin girls. i quickly Zip up. So i believe any man who has not disvirgined a girl before is still a virgin and has full right to seek for one in marriage |
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