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Lady Jubilates As Neighbour She Used To Give Food To Marries Her / Man Unknowingly Took His Fiancée To Hotel / Man Offers Girlfriend N500k To Dump Her For Another Lady. She Collects The Money (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by franchasng: 11:39am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann:wow, are you ladies for real or just kidding ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by youngchopper(m): 11:39am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Pureety:what!tta4k 3 Likes
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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by FrustratedMonk(f): 11:39am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Best comment I've read here... The responses from these small girls are very nauseating! lilbest4: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by PremiumLeaks: 11:39am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Pureety:And here you go with this stale guilt tripping line that ceased to work an age ago! ![]() @OP I pray the day comes when folks like you who litter this platform with relationship gibberish whether real or imagined won't get a single reply! Yes! I say this cos at the end of the day you and I know what you will do and all the yada yada in here won't amount to nothing! Abegi! Let me regale u with the only two options you got 1. Quit (you and I kno you won't do this cos anyone who comes to "seek advice" isn't ready to quit or never will while suffering and smiling! 2. Ofcourse if you ain't quiting, its no brainer that you will stay-maybe when she showers you "am sorry", " its not the way you think it is", then the makeup kiss that might end in za oza room! I can bet with nairaland (that i don't own o) that this is where it will end! So bro, no dey disturb us with all this you and your woman matter cos when she will be rubbing ur chest we won't be there! Peace out! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by biggie73(m): 11:40am On Nov 12, 2018 |
I don't invest in my girls. Learn that. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by vidalx(m): 11:40am On Nov 12, 2018 |
uote author=Kastonkastroll post=72807982] This is a dumb comment. So because she is his gf, he should waste all his money on her and turn himself to her slave abi? Nonsense. Doesn't she have two hands, two legs, a brain, one nose, two ears, two eyes and a tongue? Why can't she hustle for her own money? It is only hungry Nigerian girls like you that see relationship as a poverty alleviation program. You don't want to work and even if you work, you still want your bf to take care of all your endless materialistic needs. Haba hanty , u no get shame ni[/quote] You juxt said it all...I would finished her more ... useless hungry girls |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by segunk1(m): 11:40am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Some ladies comments here dey make me fear, as in she even used all the money not even part of it, mehn bro. You need no one to tell you what to do here. |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by MinorityTribe: 11:41am On Nov 12, 2018 |
If you aren't married the only women worth investing on are your Mother and Sisters. If you must give to a girl never you give what you haven't given to your mother and sisters, absolutely never. Or you will live your life to regret it. If you have give them 500k or more i am sure this issue wouldn't have bug you much after all you have spent same or even more amount on your family. But you haven't right? And that's why it's eating you, sacrificing so much for a woman while your family are languishing. You will never sleep well. First thing i calculate after meeting a lady is whether she has any family or personal problems she is looking for a man to dumb on. Once i notice any trace of that i flee, Flee! Fvcking flee! Why can't you just enjoy your time without you dumping your problems on a man? Call me broke or whatever but me too have family i wouldn't trade for anything in the world! And among those families are women like you. 5 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 11:41am On Nov 12, 2018 |
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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by marvelli(f): 11:42am On Nov 12, 2018 |
IamD18:Are you saying your wife/ future wife is a LovePeddler?? As you well know, your future wife/ wife was once your girlfriend. But continue talking your nonsense. |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by solihu(m): 11:42am On Nov 12, 2018 |
lilbest4: Touché ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by mfm04622: 11:42am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann: Why don't you work hard and take care of your family yourself? Lol!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by franchasng: 11:42am On Nov 12, 2018 |
ogasharpsharp:EOD! Op, Enough said ![]() |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by MartinsD12(m): 11:42am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Kastonkastroll:I support you, you Said it all. |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Smile4daddy(m): 11:43am On Nov 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:Congratulations MhizzAJ finally 1 Like
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Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by segunk1(m): 11:44am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann: We know your type and people that are even liking/sharing your comment.... Ebinnas. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Jkt001(m): 11:44am On Nov 12, 2018 |
But Really... taking a Look at it... What if any of Her Family Member is actually going through a Life and Death situation which Money can really avert or turn around... Or What If she gave t to another unknown Guy somewhere in the name of loyalty... or probably to please another guy outside the Relationship.... Most Ladies are unpredictable the... smh This is bound to Happen in A Relationship built on the foundation of INFIDELITY SELF_WILL and Less Respect for the other half... Even if she needed to spend the money on something else,maybe Family issues like being mentioned here... I see no reason why she shouldn't notify Her Partner before embarking on such... That's Purely an act of Disrespect... Even if it's just 50k... A Good Wife material should be able to account for the Money before and after Spending it... And the Guy in question now should act as a Man... Approach the Issue like a Man... Relationship is made up of two Imperfect bodies... You've got ur own flaws and Imperfections too... Because of that... stick to ur Lady if you're sure and convinced... You are meant to be an Agent of Change in Her Life... Don't back out coz of this Little Storm... Your Anchor should hold u together and weather this Storm in Relationships.... Dictate to Money... Never Allow t Dictate ur Life!!! A word they Say!!!!!!!! |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by lexy2014: 11:45am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann: Since u are rich, y do u have d mentality of a lady who waits 4a mans money b4 she&her family can feed? 1 Like |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Gkemz: 11:45am On Nov 12, 2018 |
This is not enough reason to quit the relationship except there are other things you are not telling us. At least she used it to settle family needs. Yes, she may not be prudent in spending but in all things Family comes first even though it's contrary to what you intended. You have to forgive and let go. |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Brightest04(m): 11:45am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Investing on a woman who is not your family, that's,mother,or sister is just windy...She is not yet your wife but ordinary girlfriend so check yourself. |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by slickbak(m): 11:45am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Na this money dey pain bros. If him marry her she go surety bros to village ppl. |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by shugamummy: 11:46am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Keep showing your stupid. What if the guy took a loan.this is purely the difference between Africans and the whites. They always have one family issue to sort and yeye people like you will come online and spew thrash. If she can't keep to simple instruction to use a certain fund for certain issues she should avoid collecting in the first instance. Must men cope with all these thrashes all the time. MhizzAJ: 1 Like |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by dessey(m): 11:47am On Nov 12, 2018 |
A broken relationship is better than a broken home, bros a word is enough for the wise. ![]() |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Bizibi(m): 11:47am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Princedapace:I won't bother myself about setting up a business for a gf/fiancee,the best I can do is get a high paying job for her but if she is a serious person that want to be in business then I can help her and even go extra length to expand the business after seeing its growth.some Nigeria ladies are not really good in business,it is better getting them a paying job. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Isokoboy(m): 11:47am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann: Gals like you..have made me to distaste relationships.... So because am in a relationship with a gal .. I must carter for you and your family .and forget my family or my future...... Dont go and hustle.... Spread your leg for us nd expect money... for your family. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by MartinsD12(m): 11:47am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Liliyann:You didn't make any sense at all, what she did is misplaced priority, the money is for her to start up business, the guy mean well, but she used for something related to family problems, she misappropriated the money and is punishable under existing laws, efcc must hear this. |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Uguruzik(m): 11:47am On Nov 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ: This is TERRIBLE, did you r really mean what you just wrote here? If so you must be a TERRIBLE spouse. |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Hassan88(m): 11:47am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Pureety: She should have informed the boy before spending that money on her family. Is it her money? I will not tolerate nonsense from any woman. It's clear that she is a waste. If a woman does that to me that means my trust for will go Rusty. Please I need a woman that we can both agree on a contract marriage. I need just 1 kid from her. Please dm. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by freshvine(f): 11:48am On Nov 12, 2018 |
Pureety: see fish brain and she even got likes and shares for uncommon stupidity. so the boyfriend mint money huh? what if that was a fallback plan for their life? what stops her from establishing the business and gradually sorting family financial issues through proceed and output? |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by PremiumLeaks: 11:48am On Nov 12, 2018 |
MinorityTribe:Guy ur head get oil! God bless you! Anytime I see folks like this that want "mature advice", it tells me one thing, we are dealing with immature fella and only a mature fella understand the simple statement you made. Wish I could like it a 1000 times! 1 Like |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Hassan88(m): 11:49am On Nov 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:Birds of a feather. It's clear you are one of them. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by donbenie(m): 11:49am On Nov 12, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:And why should any self-respecting reasoning man spend ALL his savings on a MERE GIRLFRIEND? If your brother came back from wherever he is based and told your family that he spent all his life savings on his girlfriend,I guess you would all be congratulating him on his accomplishments.. ![]() All these broke @ss girls,so he should overlook the fact that she mismanaged 500k in this Naija situation because he is very caring? CARING AND MUGU must be synonymous in your dictionary.. ![]() |
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