TonyeBarcanista:
CAPITAL NO!

NO MEANS NO irrespective of the excuse!

Others may, I CANNOT!

lol baba let's hear word..if she don do am she go tell u ni?..50% of ladies in d world today has done abortion..I know u ll behave like d average NL guy and reply DAT maybe I have done it before thats why am saying this...well ur mind,ur thoughts.ur account ur mentions ur typing.. Its all urs..lemme jes drop dis..no b by mouth..Just pray to God you make the right choice..Chikena.

onyefin:
Reading through all the comments here, I can only say nawaooo for this world of now.
Growing up I've always believe sex should be for only couples in a lifetime journey but I'm shocked to see it different view here.
I have a similar problem right now
Please I need advice urgently before I take a decision I'll regret latter.
A girl that has bèen in and out of relationship in the past, committed abortion for her ex in the past is right now pregnant for me and I'm planning to go and do the traditional rights in 4weeks time then do the weďing after delivery but she threatened me that if I don't do the trad and wedding this December, she will quit and abort the baby. Am angry right now and at the verge of calling off every arrangements already made because I'm right now suspecting something fishy is going on behind me been that I'm not always at home( work 28/28). Meanwhile she recently became secretive and tempramental compared to when we started coupled to fact that my family is now divided for/against marrying her.
As for the baby I want it but not with girl that have no sanity or remorse of their bad acts.

Which one be threat?? babe wey don get bele still get threating rights.....oga..u own all the cards
if u are sure the baby is urs, then marry her, mayb she doesn't just want to carry baby outside wedlock..
On the other hand it might not be urs it might not be urs and want u to quickly do wedding and get stuck with her..let her quit naaaa...seems she already likes abortion as if it's washing clothes......be careful not to raise another man's child..

Bro she has a stained destiny. But if u really really do love her u can go on with the marriage just be prepared to bear with her whatever the consequences of her action is

Saff:
How will you even know.

Most of you have community joysticks, that produce watery transparent sperm, used and abused and barely functioning properly sticks, yet you have the audacity to judge someone based on their past. Let me not say anything

sister u don do one before ?

Amakababe:
get sense. don't be so naive at ur old age.
your mother, sisters and gfs have probably done 1 or 2 abortions.
foetus wey full inside gutter like pure water leather. na whoo dey throway dem for dere?
ghost?
ask ur mother of hanger technique.

no be today we start dey experience dis kan thing. I'm a lady nd know what my fellow ladies do, if u have a problem with all i said den hug a transformer.

Please which one is hanger technique? I want to learn.

AryEmber:
Don't tell me you think every lady in that age gap gas had an abortion before

Let her be AryEmber she thinks everyone is as porous as she was and is. Don't wrestle a pig in the mud

It sucks thinking a lady am dating or planning to get married too has killed a soul. I'd rather go for a single mum with 4 kids to a lady who have done such.

1StopRudeness:


Which one be threat?? babe wey don get bele still get threating rights.....oga..u own all the cards
if u are sure the baby is urs, then marry her, mayb she doesn't just want to carry baby outside wedlock..
On the other hand it might not be urs it might not be urs and want u to quickly do wedding and get stuck with her..let her quit naaaa...seems she already likes abortion as if it's washing clothes......be careful not to raise another man's child..

That's exactly what my mind is contemplating.

Saff:
How will you even know.

Most of you have community joysticks, that produce watery transparent sperm, used and abused and barely functioning properly sticks, yet you have the audacity to judge someone based on their past. Let me not say anything

na wao 145 ladies liked this post.. Kilode!. Oyindidi,MariaLavina,tossie and highqueen hope u aint among the 145 ladies who liked this post cos dat aint fair. And by d way i dont have watery sperm. My own is thick and healthy looking and sure its the same of Nofavours,Iamplato,Randy91 and dumininu01. We are healthy men and very very fertile.

Nuezha:


So the lady in question should be dumped?

I'm not a man of long words. Let him that have no sin cast the first stone.

Sperm fluid that flows into a woman's cervix is naturally meant to fertilize her. If anything, I mean ANYTHING is done to prevent it, it is potentially an abortion. Are you guilty or not?

Brother 'stone'. Abortion kills the feotus, preventive method stop the feotus from forming. If you want to reason that way, then you can as well everytime a lady menstrates, she's aborting.

lefulefu:
na wao 145 ladies liked this post.. Kilode!. Oyindidi,MariaLavina,tossie and highqueen hope u aint among the 145 ladies who liked this post cos dat aint fair. And by d way i dont have watery sperm. My own is thick and healthy looking and sure its the same of Nofavours,Iamplato,Randy91 and dumininu01. We are healthy men and very very fertile.

Nope

Gracesofar:



Let her be AryEmber she thinks everyone is as porous as she was and is. Don't wrestle a pig in the mud

I'm more glad this is coming from a guy, thanks jare!

And to answer op's question yes i can marry a lady that has done abortion as long as her womb is still intact and she hasnt done it up to a thousand times.

Some people typing, “No” up and down, have denied taking up responsibilities, some even went to the hospital together to abort the innocent life growing in her... Bunch of hypocrites

That's why most of these men ends up with one Karashika, or an unfortunate innocent lady who doesn't know it's the fault of her husband that they are yet to have a child

Say No to abortion
You had sex for crying out loud what were you expecting, iphone X?
Get a condom if it's always itching you to f**k

some girls do abortion like going to the toilet ?

NuhRegular:




Lmaaao.. The last sentence
Coming from a guy.. I'm so proud

Thanks hon, I can be really pissed off on issues like this.

1StopRudeness:


Before u park ur car and let them chook nozzle into ur tanker, u should be sure it's a good petrol station. U don't throw caution into the wind forgetting u are the hymen and womb carrier....
ur choice of word is hilarious..but I like it..women use it alot......

Thanks man, I'm just miffed at guys who would use all their energy to fvck as if that 5mins of intense action would determine their success in life, yet when the chips are down, they'd chicken out like pussies.

I sometimes go hard on the ladies but we should try to understand that they're ladies, and would always act like ladies. Sometimes you marvel at why they do certain things which beat common sense, but the answer is simple, they're ladies.

lefulefu:
na wao 145 ladies liked this post.. Kilode!. Oyindidi,MariaLavina,tossie and highqueen hope u aint among the 145 ladies who liked this post cos dat aint fair. And by d way i dont have watery sperm. My own is thick and healthy looking and sure its the same of Nofavours,Iamplato,Randy91 and dumininu01. We are healthy men and very very fertile.

...


No Mind These Girls o. I'm Much Bothered If They Can even Concieve one Baby

idesylvester:
No be if them tell you you go know...Abortion is not virginity ooo

That is why I won't marry a non-virgin

[quote author=bongolistik post=72902680]sorry to quote you, sex and abortion are two very related things. Normally, you can't abort without having raw sex. You must have sex before you can talk of abortion. No sex no abortion and no abortion without sex[/quotes]


sex doesn't lead to abortion it leads to pregnancy....It is the abnormality of having sex that leads to unwanted pregnancy which in turn leads to abortion. Having sex in a 'moral' way doesn't lead to abortion

TonyeBarcanista:

With respect to the subject;

I can't take the burden of another man.

Also, I believe people are responsible for the choice they make. I also believe people should decide what they want and what they can't live it instead of the society to define it.

Things like virginity, chastity, body counts, abortion, baby outside wedlock, divorcee etc are strong factors that I consider in settling down, though for "freestyle relationship", I wouldn't mind...

How would you know if she has had an abortion before?

Really?


Picture it I don’t believe it

Earthbound:

Typical Yoruba girl. After you've already said too much. Fortunately for some of us, our joysticks have and will always be in top shape.

omoelerin1:
No mind her. na yeye girl

lol.....this gat me cracking

Bros you can and almost every can.
Some years ago, I used to think like this but I know better now.

TonyeBarcanista:
CAPITAL NO!

NO MEANS NO irrespective of the excuse!

Others may, I CANNOT!

Yes,I can marry her, even though narrowly I missed doing so out of ignorance and naivety like that of the Op's.

ChiefAlex:


What if she turns to a LovePeddler after disflowering her. Life doesn’t have manual

managing a Lady is the most easiest thing on earth if you understand the code


a lady that keep herself at the age of 26yrs would turn peddler when a guy Is satisfying her with what inspired her?


a lady with ambition bank with her future not on unproductive romances, that's the kind of lady I dated in the past and I'm going to get married to

Saff:
Really?


Picture it I don’t believe it

Not today. No be me go spoil you finish.


If I show you, I'd have to serve you.

Serve me? Lol hmmm

Until they dah we go see

Earthbound:

Not today. No be me go spoil you finish.


If I show you, I'd have to serve you.

If you see anyone let me know too... I need the virgin too

TonyeBarcanista:
That is why I won't marry a non-virgin

Amaka is saying the naked truth.
Sit down and listen to her words of wisdom.

Ayemileto:



Because u have done multiple abortions don't mean all ladies between a particular age gap must have done it.


I just pity the man that will end up marrying you.

See the way you're jumping around the thread as if you're the OP's girlfriend.

SMH.

Saff:
Serve me? Lol hmmm

Until they dah we go see

I guess we'll just have to wait and see then. Could be closer than you think.

TonyeBarcanista:
That is why I won't marry a non-virgin

I hope you aren't engaging in pre marital sex?huh??....coz you cannot be wanting to marry a virgin and still be fucking around tho