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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by MissRaine69(f): 11:51pm On Nov 16, 2018
jorion:
Lol, funny but op is right. Even amongst sisters, if not for societal norms and ethics, ladies would be snatching their sister's rich husband. Please don't attack me o, I am not well. Women and their wahala.
We cool.
Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by Nobody: 7:16am On Nov 17, 2018
MissRaine69:

Don’t fear for my wellbeing ....the somebody is very comfortable in himself to let me be me.
don't flatter yourself.i was talking about platonic friends,nothing more.
I don't think you are my type,no offense. cool

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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by AryEmber(f): 7:56am On Nov 17, 2018
MissRaine69:

What about me do you actually know to make that sort of judgement?
Your posts, a lot of time, contains intelligent words but they also come out rude. Like you're mocking, riddiculing folks here. Take MariaLavina for an example, she was somewhat on your side, even told the lady insulting you to 'no vex' jokingly but what did you do? You attacked her and a comment that was not directed at you. That's saucy to me.

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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by Nobody: 10:38am On Nov 17, 2018
AryEmber:
Your posts, a lot of time, contains intelligent words but they also come out rude. Like you're mocking, riddiculing folks here. Take Maria Lavina for an example, she was somewhat on your side, even told the lady insulting you to 'no vex' jokingly but what did you do? You attacked her and a comment that was not directed at you. That's saucy to me.
You are right, MissRaine is intelligent no doubt about that.That's the only reason I sometimes open her threads, I didn't relegate her to some attention seeking trolls on here. But her problem is she's quite saucy and proud, she believes she's better than everyone here (ladies especially).
Sometimes I wonder how can an intelligent being create threads to involve people in conversations but at the same time trample on them. She creates topics that would have helped lots of ladies here, but ruin them all with her 'I better pass you' attitude. That is why most of her threads die early. How can you correct, advice or mentor people when you make them feel like they aren't worthy to even lick your shoes. That beats my imagination grin

Highqueen is Nice. Trying to correct her every time on every threads. I don't have that time and energy, the last time I tried it, I was insulted.
MissRaine thinks she's hated or envied, no! The fact is, if two or more people are complaining about the same thing in, then that is a pointer that there is something wrong somewhere. A sane being will look into it and make amends. She feels no one can correct her. She may be right, this is Nl and it is a free world. But then we all know our online personality is a reflection of who we are offline. This attitude of her is not nice at all.

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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by AryEmber(f): 11:13am On Nov 17, 2018
MariaLavina:
You are right, MissRaine is intelligent no doubt about that.That's the only reason I sometimes open her threads, I didn't relegate her to some attention seeking trolls on here. But her problem is she's quite saucy and proud, she believes she's better than everyone here (ladies especially).
Sometimes I wonder how can an intelligent being create threads to involve people in conversations but at the same time trample on them. She creates topics that would have helped lots of ladies here, but ruin them all with her 'I better pass you' attitude. That is why most of her threads die early. How can you correct, advice or mentor people when you make them feel like they aren't worthy to even lick your shoes. That beats my imagination grin

Highqueen is Nice. Trying to correct her every time on every threads. I don't have that time and energy, the last time I tried it, I was insulted.
MissRaine thinks she's hated or envied, no! The fact is, if two or more people are complaining about the same thing in, then that is a pointer that there is something wrong somewhere. A sane being will look into it and make amends. She feels no one can correct her. She may be right, this is Nl and it is a free world. But then we all know our online personality is a reflection of who we are offline. This attitude of her is not nice at all.
I'll say her attitude is the answer to her question here. I don't usually care though, I pick out what I find useful and ignore the rest.

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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by Nobody: 11:21am On Nov 17, 2018
AryEmber:
I'll say her attitude is the answer to her question here. I don't usually care though, I pick out what I find useful and ignore the rest.
You are right. If her thread is what is happening in her life or around her, she should check herself.

That's the best thing to do.

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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by MissRaine69(f): 4:25pm On Nov 17, 2018
nwanneni:
don't flatter yourself.i was talking about platonic friends,nothing more.
I don't think you are my type,no offense. cool
Why should I be offended? You are entitled to your view are you not?
Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by MissRaine69(f): 4:27pm On Nov 17, 2018
AryEmber:
Your posts, a lot of time, contains intelligent words but they also come out rude. Like you're mocking, riddiculing folks here. Take MariaLavina for an example, she was somewhat on your side, even told the lady insulting you to 'no vex' jokingly but what did you do? You attacked her and a comment that was not directed at you. That's saucy to me.
That’s your opinion
I am ok with that.
Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by MissRaine69(f): 4:36pm On Nov 17, 2018
EscobarSnipes:
I don't know, women are inexplicable. You see the way they attack a fellow lady on the verge of success and it's appalling.

Even when a group of ladies come together as friends, it's a matter of time before their friendship starts going south and at a closer look you'll notice it was jealousy, envy, strife etc The one that pains me is that 2 ladies can remain eternal enemies for what happened between them in when they were still roommates in school.

Many will say they prefer having guys as friends to their fellow ladies
I am that way inclined I have more male friends than female for one main reason lack of emotional intelligence.
It’s the pettiness that I cannot fathom
This thread gives you a glimpse of that behaviour.
Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by CAPSLOCKED: 4:40pm On Nov 17, 2018
MissRaine69:

I am that way inclined I have more male friends than female for one main reason lack of emotional intelligence.
It’s the pettiness that I cannot fathom
This thread gives you a glimpse of that behaviour.

MANY WOMEN PREFER MALE FRIENDS, MOSTLY FOR THE PROFITS AND CHEAP (OR FREE) SERVICES.
ONLY A FEW PRETEND IT'S FOR THE SAKE OF INTELLIGENCE.

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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by MissRaine69(f): 9:27pm On Nov 17, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:


MANY WOMEN PREFER MALE FRIENDS, MOSTLY FOR THE PROFITS AND CHEAP (OR FREE) SERVICES.
ONLY A FEW PRETEND IT'S FOR THE SAKE OF INTELLIGENCE.
Perhaps, can’t defend what I am not familiar with. On a personal level not what other women do
I value their friendship and ability to call a spade a spade without getting all histrionic about it or feeling the need to mudsling. That said some men are that way inclined. The bottom line is I gravitate towards like minded people.

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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by latsy: 9:35pm On Nov 17, 2018
You must have a very bad attitude.
"Success" creates enemies when mixed with pride.
And this has nothing to do with gender, I have seen similar
thing happen in male circle too.
Nobody loves to be put down!

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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by latsy: 9:44pm On Nov 17, 2018
WizAkzy:
Should I tell you something? Don't lower yourself to the level of the brain dead. Your gender hates being challenged or confronted, especially if they are really guilty. When a man says something that is challenging to women, the brain dead ones try to use emotional manipulation by shaming him( using words like sexist pig and misogynist) to make him appear stupid before others and hence will be overlooked. But when a women does it, of course they know themselves, so they shame her by saying she is a male worshipper or she is just trying to get attention from men. Your gender loves being ass kissed and any attempt by anyone to challenge them, won't be taking lightly. Like I said don't play in the mud with the intellectual pigs here.
You shouldn't throw the word "intellectual" around without knowing its meaning.
Even the question in the topic is idiotic because we(the thinking ones) don't know what she means by successful and she present no evidence that "most" women hates what she
termed "successful".
Such question can only come from a shallow mind.

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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by latsy: 9:49pm On Nov 17, 2018
EscobarSnipes:
I don't know, women are inexplicable. You see the way they attack a fellow lady on the verge of success and it's appalling.

Even when a group of ladies come together as friends, it's a matter of time before their friendship starts going south and at a closer look you'll notice it was jealousy, envy, strife etc The one that pains me is that 2 ladies can remain eternal enemies for what happened between them in when they were still roommates in school.

Many will say they prefer having guys as friends to their fellow ladies
You can never understand men or women.
Even a tiny cell isn't fully understood.
You will be frustrated if you attempt to apply a formula to billions of people based on gender.
It never works and it will never work.
Conflict is part of humanity.
Why do you think cultists kill one another?
Love, harmony or kindness?
Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by WizAkzy: 9:57pm On Nov 17, 2018
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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by MissRaine69(f): 9:36am On Nov 18, 2018
latsy:
You must have a very bad attitude.
"Success" creates enemies when mixed with pride.
And this has nothing to do with gender, I have seen similar
thing happen in male circle too.
Nobody loves to be put down!
As a woman I can ask a question based on what I observe and experience yes it happens to both sexes but one of those sexes makes it very blatantly obvious. This thread should have given you a glimpse if you had looked carefully.

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Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by latsy: 9:03pm On Nov 19, 2018
MissRaine69:

As a woman I can ask a question based on what I observe and experience yes it happens to both sexes but one of those sexes makes it very blatantly obvious. This thread should have given you a glimpse if you had looked carefully.
If someone came online and post an insulting and loaded question about men because
of their personal experience, I and most other men will attack the person and it will have nothing
to do with gender.

What you are saying is that most women hates success but you are not one of the haters,
then you used the responses you got as a confirmation of your statement.

I am not saying your stated experience is false but it cannot be projected outside your locality.
If you want to know the real answer, you would have to ask the women who don't like
your success.
But if you wanted a meaningful discussion, you shouldn't have used an accusatory tone.
Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by latsy: 9:11pm On Nov 19, 2018
WizAkzy:
My comment was not based on the topic. I have been visiting this section for long, and I have observed how they attack women who have intelligent inputs. She is one of the few who think differently amongst her gender here, and for that reasons she gets attacks from them.
Making women feel less human is not thinking differently, it is thinking negatively
because you she feels superior.
Replace the "women" in her topic with "men" and see if men will applaud you.
Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by MissRaine69(f): 11:28pm On Nov 19, 2018
latsy:

If someone came online and post an insulting and loaded question about men because
of their personal experience, I and most other men will attack the person and it will have nothing
to do with gender.

What you are saying is that most women hates success but you are not one of the haters,
then you used the responses you got as a confirmation of your statement.

I am not saying your stated experience is false but it cannot be projected outside your locality.
If you want to know the real answer, you would have to ask the women who don't like
your success.
But if you wanted a meaningful discussion, you shouldn't have used an accusatory tone.

Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by Nobody: 6:05am On Nov 20, 2018
Its true, women are their own enemies, its even worse if you are successful, having a good career and unmarried, the jobless housewives in their husband's house will use the opportunity to insult your marital status whereas they are nothing but married failures.
Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by Raalsalghul: 3:00pm On Nov 20, 2018
Colourich:
Its true, women are their own enemies, its even worse if you are successful, having a good career and unmarried, the jobless housewives in their husband's house will use the opportunity to insult your marital status whereas they are nothing but married failures.
Speaking from experience I guess.
Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:15pm On Nov 20, 2018
MariaLavina:
Here's the equation

Successful women don't help because they don't want others to be like them.
Struggling women hate because they aren't helped. smiley


smiley
Re: Successful Women Are Viewed As Threatening by most women why? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:18pm On Nov 20, 2018
lilmax:
lol, you are not intelligent

At all. She's not bright.

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