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Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Ghostmode2two(m): 8:43pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
I bought a ticket for a friend to the UK when he cried for help till date I haven't heard from him for over ten years now.But he calls other people. That is life 36 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by agarawu23(m): 8:43pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Hmmm...... I stopped visiting facebook when I traveled too. Friends asking for different finacial help and visa like I work in the embassy. Fvck u, I live in North Africa and not Yankee where they sell drugs, wire people's money and make hundreds of dollars Abroad isn't easy. 31 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Rexnegro(m): 8:44pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
truth is e no too easy like that for them too over there 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by kilonso001(m): 8:44pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo:what if he isn't stable yet. Trust me two month is too small to settle down. If u don't believe me, try it and see. It's not all rosy out there as they paint it 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by MissRaine69(f): 8:46pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
GavelSlam:That or someone died. I have no idea how I still have relatives the way people die daily. Most did not even know existed. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Quorax: 8:46pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo: The undertone of your message suggest to me you were expecting something bros... It is very evident. You may try to pretend it wasn't the case but matured minds can easily see through you. U seem to be among the plethora of Nigerians who think money grows on trees abroad. Move the fork on buddy. E no easy anywhere. 27 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Tobest150(m): 8:47pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
I didn't catch that |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Earth2Metahuman: 8:47pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
when will people realize no one owes them anything get the Bleep out and go make your own something. you are his friend not his family. he go dey work for cold weather, you go dey there dey Bleep small girls up and dan and expecting free money. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by STENON(f): 8:48pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Life itself is not easy irrespective of the country 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Brownshugar69: 8:49pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
My brother I stay in Canada. I left nigeria 1year ago. Since I left Nigeria all my friends have been sending me the history of their family problems for me to solve with the money I pick from the ground in Canada. You friend should just tell you that he does not have money to send to you like I do to my friends. Some of my friends will give me ultimatum to when I should send them money like they are the one that bought my tickets and paid for my visa. I have sent to few who are patient but not those ones who are angry that I didn’t send to them 57 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Nobody: 8:49pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Lol, okay, i wont! |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by sekundosekundo: 8:50pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo: The moment I saw London I spit....those peeps stingy gon 9 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by sumgelem(m): 8:50pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Just passing..... |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by ojimbo(m): 8:51pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo:up to one year I spoke with my girlfriend last. I love her so much but the frustration abroad doesn't give me the courage to speak to her. Life is not as easy as you think abroad especially when you do not have papers to stay there 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by festsamuel(m): 8:51pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
that is life for u, take it the way u see it |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by linearity: 8:52pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Give him time, if you guys were true friends as you have indicated, he will definitely reconnect with you. The truth is, going abroad especially with a visa and no work permit is very difficult. Even those who have work permit before traveling abroad are having it very difficult. You get discriminated against based on the color of your skin and the way you talk. Many have many problems they had to sort through, I don't think, the issue with him is saying 'Hi' back to you. Many feel disappointed, dejected and depressed when they come face to face with the reality on ground, but despite all that, they struggle to put a good showing. If they call back home and say things are not good for them abroad, people back home will not believe them, some will even curse them and say they are there in abroad 'wasting their visa'. The other thing is, when you travel abroad; the list of people that depend on you or call you for one thing or the other increase through the roof and you truly don't know what will follow the next "Hi" or call from home; so many just adopt the "maintaining the low profile" strategy until their head is above the water a little bit. If you are a true friend, once in a while; instead of just "Hi"; send him a lengthy message. Things like birthday wishes, telling him you know it is hard, but let him keep fighting....try to differentiate yourself from the other myriad of people who hide behind a "Hi" to request for this and that...and he will open up to you about what he is going through....you will better appreciate and understand him. Don't read much meaning into him sending his gf money....he might not even know the gf is cheating on him in Nigeria like you indicated and he might just be thinking, she is a wife-material....even in Nigeria, it is common place for guys to be more close to their gf compare to their best friends and if it comes to choosing just one, some guys even in Nigeria will choose their gf over their best friend....so, sending his gf money and not even responding to your "Hi" does not mean, he picked up that trait merely because he traveled out or trying to 'act big'. Very few Nigerians who work really hard for their money and leave abroad 'act big' because they themselves know the dehumanizing jobs and situations through which they make that money, some can't even disclose to you what the do to earn that money because they are ashamed that you will laugh at them. Most of those who show-up and 'act big', did not really struggle hard to make that money, so they do not know the true value of a pound or a dollar....Don't desert him, there is no place like home or anything like old friendship....and some abroad still relish that nostalgia feelings about home and as best buddies that goes way back, you can help to bridge that connection. 48 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Nobody: 8:52pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
general rule |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Nobody: 8:53pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo:Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha I reside ABROAD as well, although I visit NIGERIA almost every 2years, because I have ongoing projects. But I don't behave so. However, I choose whom I spend time with for security reasons as I have been severally hit. Just CALM DOWN and retry. Don't relent, Don't Insult him. You may be better placed, since it's the UK UK is conservative and Limited 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by emijo(m): 8:53pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Your own na only cloth u give am abi? I gave my bossom friend clothes and a whooping some of 20k that I have been saving for something else. Since he left for Yankee I only sent him text once and he didn't reply. I left him to his world and two of us has been in the dark for more than 2 years without being in contact with each other. Recently he has been in touch, tryna chat me through facebook but I ignored him too. I know that he is only chatting me cos of the type of flashy pix I do post on facebook. My advice to u bro is to focus on ur hustle and never depend on anyone to be a fulcrum to ur success. 30 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Icon79(m): 8:54pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
May God bless you there, bro. You don tok am finish. Too add anything else would be most uncivilized! O pari GavelSlam: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 8:55pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe:see brother you don't get me am not begging money from him..it has been eight years now ..I just want to say hi to him...he always turn off from Chatting him .. have never ask of money God sees my heart am working so why will I depend on him...my own is to say hi.... 5 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by bestpunterever: 8:56pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
bujebudanu1:even blood self they Bleep up. 3 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by bitcoin215: 8:56pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Very true |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Ikembasunda1(m): 8:56pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
you don't need t boarder when your winter and shoes are there in London, they are your replica 2 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by GIFTD: 8:58pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Op u're correct. Don't mind those posters critizing u..may they be repaid that way for good doing so that they will know exactly how it hurts. Tnx handsomeyitayo: 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Beautyaddy: 8:58pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Kenekingisback: I've been wanting to ask? Who's this person? |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 8:59pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
azraeljaheel:wat am trying to justify is why is it that if they want. Travel out ..they will start promising heaven and earth ..after you might have assisted them with something..dey promise not to forget you...when dey get there ...dey start acting funny...I wish him well 2 Likes 1 Share |
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