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What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by Nobody: 8:55pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
What does this mean/ symbolize? Also, Why are the last names of families always the man's last name? Why can't it be the woman's last name? |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Why don't you ask generations before you idiot 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
darol4real:Why the insult? I just asked a question 5 Likes |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by donbachi(m): 9:06pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Change of ownership. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by SEGLIZ: 9:07pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
darol4real: Chineke! this that you fired the guy crudely so, I'm sure the guy done collect your wife before before o. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Is not insult guy raptex: |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
SEGLIZ: |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
darol4real: |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by Chizzyjoyce(f): 9:20pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
raptex: We are in a patriarchal system. Where the man is the head over the family and the reverse is always the case in a matriarchs system.. Hope I tried |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by Acidosis(m): 9:28pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Marriage is a union between two people. Can you go into business partnership with a friend and you both give the same business two names? How would potential customers cope with that confusion? That being said, even if a woman keeps her surname, it will ultimately get lost in the next generation. Reason is not farfetched, children still take their father's name. So why would a woman want to dissociate herself from her husband and children? The name (father's name) you want to retain will still get lost anyways. Some women just love to cause problems when there is none, especially the crazy feminists and satanists. Society has made a provision for a Maiden's name, but satan has a way of confusing these women and making them feel cheated. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by selfwife(f): 9:52pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
sit the man down two weeks before marriage after he must have eaten his favorite soup,add a little more pepper to the soup than usual. tell him in a very sincere and strict tone that you will change or add his name to yours but on the day you find and detect evidence of him cheating on you, on that day, you will let him enjoy is favorite meal just like today, show him the evidence and make sure you kill him with no trace. because it will be better to have a late man's name than a man who will abandon I and my kids and be philandering elsewhere only to come back on their weddings.watch out if he chokes, chills or chuckle.then decide on your own if it is really worth it adding another man's name (who may kill, infect, divorce, hate you in the future) to yours. |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by Acidosis(m): 9:58pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
selfwife: How* about staying away from the institution called marriage? 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by selfwife(f): 10:13pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Acidosis:many women won't because I personally will not want to give birth to bastards and will start explaining to my child how I bleeped his father without even an intention of marriage(can be very embarrassing) .Nigeria is not yet truly ready for that with the way your family will be reacting to you, you will just start convincing yourself you need a faithful companion. |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by Acidosis(m): 10:18pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
selfwife: I like you. You're a realist |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by babyfaceafrica: 10:27pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
stale |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by nnamdibig(m): 2:13am On Nov 20, 2018 |
raptex: Before marriage you were answering your fathers name ba? Now you should ask your parents how they settled for your father's name and not your mum's. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by yvesboss(m): 7:29am On Nov 20, 2018 |
darol4real: You are bitter. You need help |
Re: What Is The Importance Of Women Changing Their Last Names After Marriage ? by ogawisdom(m): 12:31pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
raptex: The man has paid her bride price and all marriage rites and now belongs to the man's family hence change of family name to that of the man |
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