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Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:36pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
aforosco:God will make way for you |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Alezy(m): 9:36pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
tamethem:God bless u for this advice to him. 4 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by gidjah(m): 9:37pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo:bros most of the! Are scum bag and big time scams.once they get there like Our politicians, they block out !! Though I have lots of people (brothers and students )over there ,I yet won't condescend from !y Olympian height of excellence to go calling any for assistance .Been there mum self on several occasions so no big deal jare!.Wallahi 95%of dem no too get joy out there. Sef |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by myk2mic: 9:38pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Guy don't be decieved, it's not easy over there especially wen u travel with tourist visa, will take long to get a job which at best is just to help u survive, not until you r able to get papers especially thru marriage can u breathe a sign of relief, that can take a year or more. So no blame the bros, he is probably feeling the pain of being abroad. 1 Like |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by SirLakes: 9:39pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
abbey621: On point.... |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by sekundosekundo: 9:41pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo: Beautyaddy: I have some family members in Middlesex, the two of them have lived beyond 40yrs in the UK, I also have some friends there too. These people can disappoint....I don't want to share my experiences with them here. The day I visited the most senior of them (my aunt) I was shocked how wealthy they're but the chose not to help when an orphan like me needed them most but thank God that all na history today. 60% of Nigerians in London are stingy. 18 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by chiboy1116: 9:42pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe:why are you so wise ? 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Alezy(m): 9:42pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe:u passed a good message in a very wrong manner. U re so very stupid for this. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by translux(m): 9:43pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Even the one within the country is useless |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Nobody: 9:44pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
GavelSlam: Just this year I’ve been asked for help by up to 15 total strangers on here and three fools on Twitter. I mean stone cold and complete total stranger that I’ve never chatted with. I do consider myself a mini philanthropist, but I have specific and strict structure that I follow. If you’re on the internet you’ve struck out. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Daboomb: 9:44pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo: When you do good to others, it is not compulsory that it is the same person that will repay you! Just do good and forget about it, your reward will be in multiples from sources you dont even know about. But when you do good and you ocme online to rake like your life depends on it, you have recieved your reward already. You dont even know the kind of life the guy has been going through.....maybe he just got out of jail in the last few days and managed to come online and the next thing that surface is "one of his creditors' who borrowred him one yeye suit and okrika shoe! 5 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Tellemall: 9:45pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo: You were the friend to him. He was just using you. Now he's avoiding you so that you will not get the chance to publicly or privately remind him of the favor you did him. Don't blame him. Nigerians feel people are always after their money and that is why they commit crimes to make money so that they can feel Superior to other people. Once they go outside their country they feel they have bills like nobody else in the world. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Nobody: 9:46pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo: It’s not a crime for you to say and it’s not a crime for him to not reciprocate. Too much begi begi going on. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:46pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Alezy:thank you ..he doesn't understand ..am not a beggar am working and living fine...I am just saying why will you assist someone before he traveled out and on getting there ... they start behaving funny 3 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by deebrownneymar: 9:48pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
OP that's life for you. Just move on. |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:48pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Olarewaju89:thank you jaare |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Atiku007: 9:49pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Don't bother too much on the unknown focus on what you can do for yourself. |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by ronaldbecky(m): 9:49pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
GavelSlam:shut up there,bt 2 month is mature to send his bae some money abi...d hope are asking or begging bt want 2 know how he doing.na ona type wey dey women dey use do maga don pay.. 2 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Shikena(m): 9:49pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
aforosco:Don't blame your sister until you know the full gist. When you talk to your sister, do you ask her how things are going for her out there letting her know that you are aware of what people go through before settling down? For once, make the conversion all about her and her well-being. People abroad often tend to protect family members from the pains of what they are going through. Same way our parents do when they are in pains. Your sister is probably waiting for the time when she overcomes her present situation to have a heart-to-heart talk on what she went through - not a good idea but that is often the reality. Fellas, getting US document is no joke and that is just part 1 of the struggle. She might open up if she knows that you can handle the truth, and that will surely help her in dealing with the challenges until the rewards start coming - for most abroad, the rewards definitely come in waves! It might take time. |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Alezy(m): 9:50pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo:the behavior is cos of same reason some guys comments out there. Its as if when u try to reach out, u automatically want something. Very wrong mentality 1 Like |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Shikena(m): 9:50pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
ronaldbecky:It might not be true that he sent money to his bae. 1 Like |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by ronaldbecky(m): 9:50pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo:imagine... |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Jummy183: 9:53pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
You will not understand until you are here 1 Like |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Nobody: 9:54pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe: you people are just judging matters base on your personality ... someone you speak with everytime when he was in nigeria, suddenly he travels abroad n buzzing him up after 2weeks becomes a crime ... what da fvck his wrong with you people. Even if he had ask him for help , how is that a crime, same way he walked up to him n explained he had no shoes & coat without shame, why not explain to him same way you aint bust-up to help ... if he doesnt understand that is his prob. The only reason the wealth guys remain richer is becos they help one another ... its synonmous to investing in one another ... olamide paid 3m for the video that brought skales back to lime light .. i also believe in hustle for yourself, nobody owes you shit mantra .. thats y i wonnt even call my 100s of friends to say hello in the 1st place .... but i understand asking for help doesnt make you beggar, as long as you have an objective. there is no joy greater than seeing ur ordinary 5h or 1k puttin smile on human faces ... its last more than the joy you feel when you cum .. meanwhile dnnt get it twisted nobody owes you shit not even ur parent ... find the right cliq n hustle hard .... you go dey ok. 22 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Nobody: 9:54pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
handsomeyitayo: Na you get time to be explaining to this guy called NwaAmaikpe. He is one guy on nairaland that doesnt reason before typing. Out of about 1000 comments in a year just about three or four would make some sense. I read his judgement on you like having my mouth agape. He feels on top of the world spewing nonsense. Follow my advice. Ignore your so call brother, not him alone and your friends abroad. Block those blockable both on WhatsApp and Facebook. Face your life squarely, look for opportunities , take and use them, making something good out of your life with faith in God. And watch if the same people that ignored you won't look for you. Its annoying when you call to say Hi and some guys feel you want to beg like some other ppl. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by imam07: 9:54pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
GavelSlam:is like u are like one of those guys d poster complains about. Get wht d poster said. He said he only said hi. He did not ask him 4 money. 1 Like |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:55pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
tamethem:thank you bro..God bless you..one love bro.. 1 Like |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by OlujobaSamuel: 9:55pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
I have some sec sch mates like that, they were just forming as if person wan beg them for money, me sef no com send anyone again, that one of them that we were not even too close while in sch was the one even reporting me to a friend that I dont usually respond to his chats(e no know sey i don get experience), but i noticed that he dey follow up on we his padi back home, so i apologised and we dey roll as e suppose be. Lanre(aka Obo/Monkey), USI 06, i salute you bro. you no be like some pikin 6 Likes |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Analysiscorner: 9:56pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Sorry, Bro. His attitude showed arrogance, but rest assured that he doesn't know tomorrow, and that should your situation improves, he will be the one that will be disturbing you. You don't need to holler at him again. |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by Tmemzi: 9:56pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Savage! sassysure: 1 Like |
Re: Never Depend On Anybody That Is Outside The Country by GavelSlam: 9:57pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
ronaldbecky: As you old reach you never sabi decorum. See your ugly picture. Na for your body #EndSARS start? |
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