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Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by komols856: 3:59pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
ethankareem:. bros, from experience that lady is dating another man who she thought has more money than you in the moment. I was once told that by a lady I wanted to marry and I love her but she dumped me for another man that confuse her with more money. she later regretted. in fact the moment she left me things begin work and open well a for me. tell her to dump you or dump her first. |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by Nauttyprof(m): 4:24pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
MuttleyLaff: Never speak for God when He never spoke. The statement you quoted shows Adam just finding excuses for not taking responsibility for his actions. Also, after he uttered this statement, the Bible never said that God withdrew from deciding for men. Infact, no actions suggested that God withdrew from affairs of men instead He became more interested. As they were sent out of the garden of Eden, God gave them a better covering as clothes compared to the plant they have as cover. It will be very wrong to speak where the Bible never spoke. Please, take note of this. Many got guidance from God to choose the right spouse. Finally, God still chooses but we need to have a personal confirmation too as against just meeting with prophet. Some might not see anything and yet speak that God chose this and that. God can never make a mistake but man is fallible. 2 Likes |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by lorhema(f): 4:30pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
Originakalokalo: Nothing but the truth. |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by MuttleyLaff: 4:37pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
adetayo234:"let her be the one you have The original word used in the original text is "approved" and not "chosen' Eliezer, Abraham's servant, finds a wife for Isaac, so finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Upon finding, the choice is Eliezer's to make, the power of choice resides with Eliezer. The power of choice to decide who Isaac's spouse is was bestowed on Eliezer. Nothing is more compelling than the power of choice. With the power of choice, you can choose good over evil and right over wrong God does not choose spouses for us, you make the choice. Your choice shows who you truly and really are, and this is why we are advised to choose right Nauttyprof:"He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD." - Proverbs 18:22 After Adam, it's only Hosea and Joseph, that God had explicitly told about spouses Nauttyprof:Strawmanning |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by Patrik007(m): 5:00pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
Interesting Topic
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Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by adetayo234: 5:27pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
MuttleyLaff: Oga, don't change the words of the scriptures to satisfy your selfish, sensual, demonic human desire. The word is "chosen". Don't change it. God chose a wife for Isaac in the person of Rebecca And for your information, the unadulterated King James version said "appointed". So, God APPOINTED a wife for Isaac. Stop watering down the Word of God; it is demonic. 1 Like |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by Nauttyprof(m): 5:32pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
MuttleyLaff: He who finds a wife doesn't mean literally that it is done outside God. It is just like when God wanted a new King for Isreal after Saul. The Bible recorded that 'God SOUGHT for a man after His heart'. Why will God search and not just pick? You can search for this with the help of God and His standard as laid down in His word for you. Does God chooses? Yes, but the choice is your to either accept or reject this. There is nowhere in the Bible where it was mentioned that God backed out from choosing spouses for man. Let's not add to what the scriptures never said. 2 Likes |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by samlake(m): 5:37pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
Know what you want, back it with prayers... |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by erictus: 5:54pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by boxer022(m): 5:57pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
The issue is quite a simple one, I believe that God chooses a wife for you. If you go to prophets for prophecy concerning your marriage to a lady or you pray on your own seeking God's intervention and approval of your choice of who to marry, is the same thing. The important thing here is allowing God to guide you when deciding on marriage. |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by MuttleyLaff: 6:25pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
adetayo234:The original word used is "yakach" It means, to decide, to adjudge adetayo234:How many others, bar Hosea and Joseph, has God chosen a wife for? adetayo234:Can you not see that God was invited to show who He approved of? Can you not understand that God was invited to show who He decided is good for Isaac? It doesnt take away the fact that the power of choice resided with Eliezer, who is going to take or make decision. What would have happened if Eliezer didnt make that prayer request? Nauttyprof:"Never speak for God when He never spoke. The statement you quoted shows Adam just finding excuses for not taking responsibility for his actions" - by Nauttyprof(m): 4:24pm If that statement like you said today at 4:24pm, shows Adam, just finding excuses for not taking responsibility for his actions then other Adams can start finding their wives themselves and stop mouthing off to God Afterall, he, who then finds a wife, finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD This isnt rocket science nor needing to be over spiritualised Nauttyprof:Though I have already mentioned the power of choice, you still keep strawmanning. so let's cut to the chase, you are saying emphatically that God chooses spouses for us. Right? |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by adetayo234: 6:44pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
MuttleyLaff: Don't turn the scriptures upside down God chose Rebecca for Isaac as proven by the scriptures. God sees into the future. If he thinks a particular man or woman will will negativity affect you in the future, he will reveal it to you. If he isn't choosing wife, then he wouldn't be thus concerned. |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by MuttleyLaff: 7:02pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
adetayo234:You're missing an important point. What would have happened, if Eliezer didnt make that prayer request, that God should show him whom He adjudges of as wife for Isaac? adetayo234:If you invite God to show who He approves of, He will oblige you If you invite God to show who He decides is good for you, He will oblige you. God, just like the Holy Spirit, doesnt force Himself or choices on anyone The choice is yours to make. adetayo234:How many others, bar Hosea and Joseph, has God chosen a wife for? |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
erictus:ok so the path for one is 9 degrees 22 minutes and 42 seconds in alchemical water house and the other is 23 degrees 31 minutes and 51 seconds in alchemical air. MEANING this will be a relationship of conflict and affliction as each person takes turns in afflicting the other. its two people who are created and put together to attack each other. somebody in this relationship is going to have to exercise a lot of patience and long suffering or else it will be an explosive affair |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by Anas09: 10:24pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
MrPresident1:MrPresident1. What broke inside of you? When did you become this person? Yes God controls everything on earth, but is that enough to call him a Criminal? What the Hell? |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by Anas09: 10:31pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
Pidginwhisper:As much as i go with you 100%, but the Op is not about Pastor say. Its about God Himself affirming a spouse. Does it still happen? is the query here. |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by myk2mic: 3:54am On Nov 19, 2018 |
ADEMOLA144:Can I pm u |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by MuttleyLaff: 4:27am On Nov 19, 2018 |
Anas09:The query here is: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? and I'll add, how many others, bar Hosea and Joseph, has God chosen a spouse for? |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by adetayo234: 6:56am On Nov 19, 2018 |
MuttleyLaff: You are simply shooting yourself in the leg. You are saying God can show you who to marry and, at the same time, saying he can't show you. Where are you really standing? |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by erictus: 7:01am On Nov 19, 2018 |
ADEMOLA144: lol. brother, This na pure thrash. Both dates I gave u already lives in UK with 2siblings and nothing like fight nor afflictions neither conflict between both. Left to me, Money superceeds everything in life, All these superstition only applies to the POOR, YES, TO THE POOR in the society. So, @Op, If u love each other, Go for what u want and not pastor so wi pe kind of a thing. |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by Anas09: 8:00am On Nov 19, 2018 |
MuttleyLaff:I believe every Spirit-led child of God still gets divine direction as to who to marry. Most of us today walk by sight, hence do not know how to listen and be led by the Holy Spirit. I'm not sure a follower of Christ will be allowed to marry a pretencious person, then cry out later in anguish. When the Bible says the Holy Spirit is our Guide, what is the limit of his guidance? because marriage is a highly spiritual matter as it has it's origin deep in the Divine. The Holy Spirits Helps us, directs us, teaches us what tho. Is there a limit? |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by MuttleyLaff: 8:02am On Nov 19, 2018 |
adetayo234:Dont misquote me please I wrote: If you invite God to show who He approves of, He will oblige you If you invite God to show who He decides is good for you, He will oblige you. God, just like the Holy Spirit, doesnt force Himself or choices on anyone The choice is yours to make. Now the thread's question is: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? and I'll add, 1/ Are you married? 2/ Did God choose your spouse for you? 3/ How many others, bar Hosea and Joseph, has God chosen a spouse for? 4/ What would have happened, if Eliezer didnt make that prayer request, that God should show him, whom God adjudges of, as wife for Isaac? |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by MuttleyLaff: 8:10am On Nov 19, 2018 |
Anas09:Just like Eliezer did, so I prayed too God, about my partner. My complete specifications and all, were met when I found and set eyes on my partner, so I readily made the choice. The point is, God showed me whom He adjudged and/or appointed is good for me, it was left to me to choose or not but the power of choice resided with me I decide, I decided what choice action to make |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by 0ubenji(m): 9:18am On Nov 19, 2018 |
erictus: You just wasted that guy in grand style. Kudos 1 Like |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by adetayo234: 12:58pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
MuttleyLaff: You are still shooting yourself in the leg. God approving is similar to God choosing. Who does God approve if not someone he has chosen? Why not just shut up and stop turning the truth on its head? |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by MuttleyLaff: 1:48pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
adetayo234:Why don't you simply answer the five questions. and who does the power of choice reside with? |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by Anas09: 2:24pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
MuttleyLaff:Yes. This is the point i'm trying to make too. God does not interfere with and in our choices. God bless. |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by erictus: 3:32pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
0ubenji: lol. No be only the poor dey run after pastor when they wanna choose life partner, and at the long run sef, na divorce they end am for them. The rich gives out there children to one another without much noise on pastor. God help us in these country. |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by careidon: 4:09pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
men & brethren, you are all saying the same things... BUT WITH BIASED MIND SETS is all I see here. This issue started way back as between 1a.getting "the will" of God - premised on this same notion that God is to choose. 1b. Find yourself THE TWO ARE SCRIPTURAL but we try to lean on one (the "dramatic-spiritual" ) and totally discredit the other ("spiritual matured norm" ) We humans generally have a fancy for the dramatic. We do not consider miraculous putting a seed in the earth and having a harvest which is based on God's words & principles because it is almost now seen as just normal! what I mean & see is xtains trying to follow the exceptions (where God stepped in to direct/choose for men without considering that that is God's prerogative not ours) and leaving the norm. But because it sounds mighty spiritual, we try to claim its because of our EFFORTS of special fasting & prayers, gifts, dreams, trances, revelation came to that effect**! We seem to try abandon what should be the norm! Yes the norm should be to LIVE by the word of God. The choice & will (perfect, permissible etc) of God concerning partners is encoded in broad and general principles in His Words.... like don't do it for beauty (because it fades); don't do it for riches (it's got wings) look at character; agreement/like interests, purposes/visions etc go READ UP THOSE (of course your spouse's name is not written there. simply obeying and following God's words & principles YOU can find or have yourself a wife. Note also, none of the principles says to ask your pastor to discern anyone for you o!- so where did the practice come from. Except over bearing church leaders taking up the place of the Holy Spirit?? NAMING 3. let's digress (I pray & hope this helps someone understand better) and consider something analogous (I agree not exactly the same) by asking us to think about naming of children. And we can agree on importance/spiritual essence of naming/names. Yet a matured man CAN AND SHOULD simply give his offspring a name and asks God to bless the kid with it. as simple as that is, it's spiritual enough yet with no dramas. Now what happens when someone insists to fast & pray/ask God for the name so as to fit the few examples of people with "divine intervention" names (eg John & Samson unlike Moses/Esua) without considering some of those were about given other names AS NORMALLY DONE till God stepped in??! Well, the above is what most want to do with marriage without considering their mind set. So Op, please read the Bible teachings on marriage; find by yourself and judge your decision/criteria by the Bible s standard (if God wants to stop or correct you this is when & where it happens - He will step in to do. But if not, go ahead; then present yourselves to God to bless the Union. This way,You would have fulfilled His will. AND IF YOU WANT TO STILL HAVE THE CLAIM GOD CHOSE FOR YOU GO AHEAD BUT LET'S JUST STOP ARGUING. thanks |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by adetayo234: 6:32pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
MuttleyLaff: There is nothing to answer. You shut yourself in the leg |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by MuttleyLaff: 5:24am On Nov 20, 2018 |
adetayo234:Do you know why, for you, there is nothing to answer? You're unable to give answers because you're scared of the answers and that's why, you find it hard to answer the questions. The answers, will reveal that, it is our decision(s), on who we marry, the power of choice resides with you. I have explained this, many times, on this thread, that God does not choose your spouse for you but God, when invited, certainly orchestrates, to assist and help, like He did with Eliezer and I, to choose a spouse adetayo234:I dont blame you for being afraid of the answers, as you know, if you should dare answer those five questions, you wouldnt have a leg to stand on. Hosea was commanded by God to marry Gomer and the angel of God told Joseph not to be afraid to marry Mary. Those are the other two and only times God explicitly made a spouse choice for anyone |
Re: Does God Choose A Spouse For You? by adetayo234: 7:58am On Nov 20, 2018 |
MuttleyLaff: I just showed you a place with evidence that God chosen a wife for Isaac. Argue with the Word of God; it is your personal problem |
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