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Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by DaniDarvey: 9:01pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
I am always amazed when I see many always fixing hair on a regular basis. Sometimes you come across a lady with a nice Brazilian wig or something and when its time to go to bed and she takes it off you begin to see a whole new different face. Some worwor but some thing very ok with their natural hair. But the main question is why do most ladies feel uncomfortable going out with their natural hair? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Gmajor(m): 9:07pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
That's sadly the bane of the black gene. Our hair is just not as good as that of our caucasian brothers and sisters. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:14pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
The Weather is a problem the weather doesn't really favour one leaving their natural hair for long. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by daveP(m): 9:27pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Waiting patiently for the all kinds of flimsy excuses that would be given and justified here tonight. Na only us weather dey adverse to? We've been always finding a way, why not circumvent it like others too? Now a market large enough to serve national budget 100times has been functioning cos no one wants to appreciate the natural. Oops, I forgot I was waiting 3 Likes
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Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
For me its because i hav a very stuborn hair,d only day i enjoy my hair is d day i loosen it,d next day it gets so strong,i hardly use wigs tho,i prefer weaving my natural hair,hardly use attachments too...all in all i dont leave my hair for Long because combing it is a great deal of work for me...here 6 Likes
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Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by folake4u(f): 11:18pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Simplep: Wow! . Your hair is amazingly long oh. I'm jealous. Uhm for your stubborn hair, you could use Shea butter and other hair softening products. I have a stubborn hair too@ check my dp. We face the same plight, my dear. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by folake4u(f): 11:20pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
daveP: Lmao! . You're such a troublemaker Dave. I go out with my natural hair ALWAYS. Its not every lady that likes her natural hair na. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by edictng: 11:28pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Simplep:do you have to show us, cmon take it down |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Tapout(m): 11:44pm On Nov 19, 2018 |
Simplep: Why did u have to cover ur face when u pics is up on ur dp?? Except either one of the pictures is fake. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by MissRaine69(f): 12:10am On Nov 20, 2018 |
DaniDarvey:Because they were raised in a society that views natural hair negatively. Children before they walk have their hair chemically processed what does that teach that female child ? Look at the celebrities how many have natural hair? The magazines? The media as a whole? Beauty products? How many are advertised by women with natural hair? Women of colour have been brainwashed to view their whole natural self as substandard You are not beautiful unless you have long hair or fair skinned. . 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Nobody: 12:17am On Nov 20, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: This is the same shiit that black women in England, America etc say. Instead of admitting that you lot have an identity problem, low self esteem and the need to look like your European counterparts. If the African weather and European weather ain't good for your hair.. Where else can you lot rock your natural hair. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Nobody: 12:19am On Nov 20, 2018 |
Simplep: You are beautiful with your natural hair. Peace out. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by MissRaine69(f): 12:21am On Nov 20, 2018 |
Gmajor:That’s not true How do people with dreadlocks grow their hair to floor length? Women start ruining their hair very very early in life ....if you nurture hair, treat it with kindness hair grows. Abuse it and you will struggle. Did our grandmothers and their mothers not have amazing hair? Where they not black? Not all Caucasians have amazing hair They struggle too. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by daveP(m): 12:23am On Nov 20, 2018 |
folake4u:I dunno o, cos natural and nature suppose dey like 5&6 ba. Me kon dey always wonder why the natural is not appreciated, yet nature is appreciated. Asin ayam confused too o. Abi. Okay I get the first excuse, but now importing another person's natural. own kon dey wear dey feel like goddess, Ahhh. ko tun ye MI mo o. They should Kukuma complain to God to help rectify it abi? I thought we used to sing from SOP All things bright and beautiful All creatures great and small... The Lord God made them all Abi creator dey make mistake again? Your own looks good on you. Lemme sit-down dey wait again. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by folake4u(f): 12:35am On Nov 20, 2018 |
daveP: (Rolling on the bed laughing) . Kai! SOP that year! That was my favourite song. "How great is God Almighty who made all things well". . Lol thankyou dear . You be clown! 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Quality20(m): 12:56am On Nov 20, 2018 |
Well our knowledgeable Muslim women don't add attachments to their hairs,be it rubber or animal hair or human/donkey |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Gmajor(m): 3:32am On Nov 20, 2018 |
MissRaine69: I don't understand what you are even writing. You that is a guy, If you don't cut you hair in 2 years, how long do you think it will be? Black hair is kinky, curly, very stubborn and just doesn't grow straight like oyibo hair. Even Caucasian children are able to have a long full hair without trying unlike black kids. So it's kinda very obvious - their hair grows faster and straighter than ours. Shikina |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 6:15am On Nov 20, 2018 |
Bidobado1:I don't have an identity problem or low self esteem.Your epistle is too long.The weather is a factor.End of discussion. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Nobody: 7:32am On Nov 20, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: The weave is smelly anyway hence why I buss nuts on y'all heads and faces. End of discussion. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Nobody: 8:10am On Nov 20, 2018 |
Thanks dear,urs is full o nd beautiful,but hw do u manage it being dat its virgin hair ,mine is nt virgin jst very strong,i dont think i can carry virgin hair o,i will jst die folake4u: |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Allaboutkatiee(f): 8:11am On Nov 20, 2018 |
I normally fix my hair so as to make it long. My hair is a natural one fixing makes it to grow fast and by the way it's very long now And also this dry season is not good for natural hair cuz it makes it to break. So yeah I go for fixing. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by folake4u(f): 8:16am On Nov 20, 2018 |
Simplep: You're welcome. Thank you too . My sister it's not easy. My natural hair journey started last year August, since its thick and very full I use shea butter always for moisture, coconut oil, aloe vera and other natural hair softening products. Go to a natural hair salon and tell the stylist you want products for your hair. I can recommend kaiyin naturals(she's on IG),I dont know if i spelt her username correctly sha. Her shop is at GRA since you're in Benin. Virgin hair na journey of the brave! . |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Nobody: 8:17am On Nov 20, 2018 |
edictng:
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Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Nobody: 8:23am On Nov 20, 2018 |
I jump am pass my love,natural hair is a no no for me,i use shea butter,coconut oil and mayonnaise..urs is really lovely, goodluck folake4u: |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by folake4u(f): 8:26am On Nov 20, 2018 |
Simplep: . Mayonnaise is good too. Thanks again and goodluck to you as well |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by rame18(f): 8:55am On Nov 20, 2018 |
I look prettier without a weave or fixed hair, pack my hair neatly without makeup and see me smile as heads turn around to tell me you are naturally beautiful. meanwhile, op why cant a girl do what she wants with her hair don't even start with what our mothers did and didn't do cos its not easy to keep up with natural hair. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by ednut1(m): 10:15am On Nov 20, 2018 |
The weather excuse. Bt in usa and uk black women still use fake hair. Nonsense. Low esteem pple |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by MissRaine69(f): 10:58am On Nov 20, 2018 |
Gmajor:I would love to argue with you but that would hurt my head. Hair grows regardlesss of the structure. Our hair tends to grow out not down. Not all black hair is kinky, curl definition varies based on genes you would know this I suppose right? All people in Africa have the same hair type based on your very informed argument.
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Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by MissRaine69(f): 10:59am On Nov 20, 2018 |
ednut1:Extensions are used by most women regardless of race. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by Gmajor(m): 12:51pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
MissRaine69: Not all black hair is kinky? Let me tell you, a vast majority of black people have kinky hair. In all the major races of the world, the black hair grows slowest and it all is curly which further hides it's true length. |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by MissRaine69(f): 2:29pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
Gmajor:Did I not say the curl definition is what differs? Not every black person has the same type of hair get that part right. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is It So Hard For Ladies To Feel Comfortable With Their Natural Hair? by havilla(f): 4:05pm On Nov 20, 2018 |
The day Nigerian men stop going after girls with artificial hair and start appreciating our natural beauty then women would start going natural. 2 Likes |
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