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Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by PSTEMMA1960(m): 9:32am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Good day my fellow nairalanders... there is a very minor issue that is about to scatter the marriage of my immediate elder sis.. we are from Imo state, last 2 yrs she got married to a yoruba man, they have been living peacefull until last week that my sister put to bed.... the man said that he wants to name the boy (Olaniyi )and my sister beeing an Ibo woman said it won't happen over her dead body, the naming ceremony is coming up next tomorrow... pls what should i do in a case like this? thanks and God bless.. lalasticla ifyalways ishilove... |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by sekundosekundo: 9:32am On Nov 21, 2018 |
![]() Olaniyi simply mean DESTROYER in Igbo language. I have nothing more to say. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by madridguy(m): 9:32am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Tell your sister to allow her husband perform his fatherly role. 11 Likes |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by adadike(f): 9:40am On Nov 21, 2018 |
What is this? Olaniyi is a beautiful name in Yoruba. didn't she know that we have differences in our cultures before she went ahead to marry him. let her husband give his son a good name he want meanwhile she can also have a good Igbo name on d side for him. 8 Likes |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by ImaIma1(f): 9:44am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Let her explain in plain terms her reason especially that it has a different meaning in igbo that is not good. And as an igbo lady, that meaning will keep ringing in her head Everytime she calls him that. They can both agree on another name. There are many beautiful Yoruba names to replace the one causing problems. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by Saff(f): 9:47am On Nov 21, 2018 |
So that is why the marriage will end because of a common name? I don’t understand this generation 3 Likes |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by PSTEMMA1960(m): 9:52am On Nov 21, 2018 |
ImaIma1:she has already done that, bt the man has already made up his mind, my sister says she can't imagine calling her child that name or hearing another person calls him the name, knowing what it means in Ibo... |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by tobodex(m): 10:09am On Nov 21, 2018 |
PSTEMMA1960: Olaniyi means wealth has worth in Yoruba.so that means is the mother that will do the explanation to people that want to know. In marriage, the father is the head, which your sister is suppose to be aware of, and in yoruba culture there's room for more than one name for a child and so if possible both of them can choose a christian name for the child. But for your sister to be adamant towards her husband, then I think she is planning to live alone or pushing her husband to begin to think of alternative ( you know what I mean). So she had better put her marriage before tradition or culture. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by babyfaceafrica: 10:19am On Nov 21, 2018 |
fictitious story.......can't they name him chigozie,olaniyi ,Johnson.?....looking for tribal fight 1 Like |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by PSTEMMA1960(m): 10:25am On Nov 21, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica:tribal war, go trough my posts and comments here... I don't have time and energy for tribal war.. |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by babyfaceafrica: 10:27am On Nov 21, 2018 |
PSTEMMA1960:your story is a lie abeg..you think na kids dey here abi?."..so married couple from different tribes will have issues because of names?..next!!! |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by PSTEMMA1960(m): 10:32am On Nov 21, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica:maybe u don't know what Olaniyi means in Ibo language... Have a nice day.9 |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by babyfaceafrica: 10:33am On Nov 21, 2018 |
PSTEMMA1960:warever |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by NoToPile: 10:34am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Nawa oo Never knew olaniyi means a bad thing in Igbo. She should simply explain to him what that spelling signifies in their dialect and ask it shouldnt be the one everybody will call him, it may just be among the long list of names not his first name thats all She doesn't need the 'over the dead body stance' not necessary at all Besides I believe the pronunciation is quite different from the igbo one, there are also other variations of ola the husband can choose from not necessarily olaniyi. As far as I am concerned for couple who understand each other, this shouldnt be an issue at all. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by babyfaceafrica: 10:34am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Saff:so you believe the Op? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by babyfaceafrica: 10:35am On Nov 21, 2018 |
adadike:well said |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by thorpido(m): 10:37am On Nov 21, 2018 |
The story is fictitious.Op is just trolling. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by ImaIma1(f): 11:58am On Nov 21, 2018 |
PSTEMMA1960: It is her child too. The husband doesn't have monopoly on issues like naming. She married a man that is not flexible or someone she can reason with, she has to carry her cross and call her son "destroyer" for the rest of her life or give him another name and call him that. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by sacx: 12:45pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
The real issue here is not the name but that the husband has neither respect nor regard for his wife 1 Like |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by murphyrichy(m): 5:47pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
This is a minor issue but can lead to a serious issue due to the ethnic differences, I have seen where it caused a problem. The woman went ahead to rename her children because she wasn't a Muslim and it lead to separation between the husband and the wife. Coming to your own sisters issue, was she not aware that such things might arise before agreeing to marry outside her ethnicity? Let her embrace the challenges and let the man name his child..Though it will be difficult for her but with time she will adapt..The name olaniyi in Igbo, is something else...it means doomed. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by Annwrites: 5:59pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
This post is hilarious sha.. It seems too good to be true. The husband seem like an adamant fellow. Why don't they just give him a name from the Bible or an English name. This name should be his first name. And they both are free to give him their own preferred tribal name as an addition. I doubt this will work though. Adamant people don't change perse they only become worse in marriage especially if they are men. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by JoannaSedley(f): 7:05pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
Yeah....the troll even insists on using IBO instead of Igbo. We are from IMO state my left yellow ball ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by sisisioge: 8:16pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Bet your sister is already Chisom Adewale nau...why can't her San be Adeniyi Chukwuemeka Adewale? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by PSTEMMA1960(m): 8:47pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
JoannaSedley:so u think i am nt from Imo state? |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by PSTEMMA1960(m): 8:50pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
sisisioge:my sister u won't understand, the naming is coming up next tomorrow (friday )and they are yet to agree, my sister said any other name is accepted, nt nt Olaniyi, bt the man has refused to listen... Pls should i do in a case like this? |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by Diamond23(f): 9:25pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
PSTEMMA1960:Y would ur sis interfere? Pls she should allow her husband name d child......Nd also remind ur sis hubby dat d name z incomplete without.... Olaotu Olanike |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by Nobody: 10:28pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
What’s the fuse about ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by 1stNumeroUno: 10:29pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
Abeg what is OBASANJO in Igbo? |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by frozen70(f): 11:36pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
PSTEMMA1960: What's your sister problem If he names his child "olaniyi" Which you and I knows that it's a yoruba name and it means something good in yoruba land She should go ahead and name that same child the translation of the name in ibo land Or better still give that child an ibo name of her choice It is now left for her to be calling the child any of his meantioned names That child is expected to have up to 7 names Though I know that this question is a joke anyway, lol 1 Like |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by ahnie: 12:22am On Nov 22, 2018 |
PRESENTATION: My guy...afar nau!...how d levels nau |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by Jman06(m): 6:45am On Nov 22, 2018 |
Olaniyi not only means destroyer it also literally means "lost one" I.e "efulefu" Double wahala for dead body 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Ur Urgent Advice Is Needed To Save A Marriage... by mrblessed(m): 6:49am On Nov 22, 2018 |
PRESENTATION:You must mean fuse and socket, brother. |
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