rame18:





Read the story, a Benin yahoo boy in the ablood

i have read d story. whats wrong with d story?

lexy2014:

i have read d story. whats wrong with d story?

You feel there is nothing wrong with this story ?? abi you are use to it cos it's your way of life??

rame18:









You feel there is nothing wrong with this story ?? abi you are use to it cos it's your way of life??

whats d meaning of that?

I won't say dump him......yet!!!.....but he has to drop a lot of things (baggages) he carries for him to be seen as responsible


1.he has to stop yahoo(for 11 years he never hammar)....,abeg fraud no good.. I can't judge him..but he don try...let him come clean

2.you say he smokes and drinks..abeg you knew that before you dated him..that is not an issue abeg



3..I have serious issues with abusive people... he has to show serious effort he won't do that again!!!.....


4..he said he has cheated before?.. as he cheated on you?....well I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater like people..but anyone who cheats on me is a goner....since according to you he did that in that past and not to you.let it slide...


5.no one here can give you the best advice...6ou know this person..so be a true to yourself..will be want to spend the rest of your life with someone like him


please and please..there is nothing like born again yahoo boy...baba!!!!

At 24 you already have someone with lots of baggages


You just a novice, can't you distinguish good from bad

Please move on

Your own person will show up

Be prayerful

Imogenn:
Hi

I met this guy three months ago. We’ve been casually dating, he’s very calm, nice and he presents himself to be a very God fearing guy.

However, there’s some things that I’m not too keen about that I would like to share, and I’m wondering if I should continue the relationship or break it off as these could be signs that it may not work.

1. He’s a yahoo boy, he’s been into this for the past 11 years and this has been his main source of income.
2. He’s from edo state, some of his family members practice juju, although he is a born again Christian as he claims to be. I’m from Ekiti, I think there could be a tribal conflict.
3. He smokes everyday, which I don’t think I will be able to deal with long term. (Although he has promised to stop)
4. I live in the USA, he currently doesn’t have his papers so he is unable to do a lot of things. He married a lady to get his papers in 2012, (arranged marriage, not a real one) the arrangement didn’t work out in his favour, so he’s still on it till now.
5. He has been physically abusive to two of his ex’s, which he told me about. He also cheated on his ex that he was with for 10 years due to the distance. ( she’s in Nigeria)
6. He has tattoos on his body, which I’m not too fond about.
7. Most of his friends are heavy drinkers and smokers. His best friend cheats significantly on his wife.

I know we’re not perfect, and we all come with some kind of baggage. I’m a young God fearing lady of 24, and I just believe that this may be too much for me to handle.

He’s a nice guy, and he’s told me he loves me and I can see it in his actions. He was honest enough to tell me everything about his past, but I don’t know how to process all this information.

I don’t know what to do, but I believe God is warning me with all these signs. Am I being too judgemental or should I slowly drift away?

First of all,u are really embarrassing we women....I believe u are old enough not to b stupid...No offence tho, it's clear he needs favour from u cos as stated above, u stay abroad...A yahoo boy can never ever love u truly...Imagine a guy duping millions of people and d fact he opened up to u make u feel he is bin sincere? Cut d crap...His friends are smokers and drinkers? Ma they are all birds of a feather, they club,sleep with various women and womanize....He only opened up to u probably for help 2 secure his papers...All d stories of bin born again,not acting like his friends,cheated 10 years ago are all LIES....well I aint related 2 u in anyway so follow your heart and watch yourself get played...

Op, don't mind any Nigerian girl, based in Nigeria that tells you to drop the yahoo guy. In Nigeria, yahoo boys are prefered to normal hardworking folks.

As for the rest of your story, only you know the extent you can endure the baggages of your man.

Goodluck.

YeyeGirl:
First of all,u are really embarrassing we women....I believe u are old enough not to b stupid...No offence tho, it's clear he needs favour from u cos as stated above, u stay abroad...A yahoo boy can never ever love u truly...Imagine a guy duping millions of people and d fact he opened up to u make u feel he is bin sincere? Cut d crap...His friends are smokers and drinkers? Ma they are all birds of a feather, they club,sleep with various women and womanize....He only opened up to u probably for help 2 secure his papers...All d stories of bin born again,not acting like his friends,cheated 10 years ago are all LIES....well I aint related 2 u in anyway so follow your heart and watch yourself get played...

thank you so much I need this I think i have a soft heart, that’s why I’m fooling myself.

She just wants to be adventurous like most girls in her age bracket. I can bet she has never met a good bad guy like him before.

A born again Benin yahoo boy that smokes like Wiz Khalifa and has tattoos like lil Wayne and also an Usher in the Church. Isn’t god marvelous?

I don’t judge a nigga though. Since I’m not perfect myself. I am a 420 advocate to be frank.

As they say, Bad Choices make good stories.

Sister Abeg carry on and update us from time to time.

Experience they say is the best teacher, and what is life without adventure.

lexy2014:

i have read d story. whats wrong with d story?

only an Edo person can infiltrate a church, become an usher and still be a yahoo boy.

lexy2014:

whats d meaning of that?

Imogenn:
thank you so much I need this I think i have a soft heart, that’s why I’m fooling myself.

Pls learn 2 control ur emotions...He just wanna use u... Am so sure he's got a main gf he loves deeply.. U and other women are just for him 2 make more dough/fun...Pls and pls wisen up.... May God bring forth a man who is yours.... Get a man with a legit work,one who earns d right way,not one u gotta feed when client doesn't pay.... Be wise ma.... E karo.....

rame18:





only an Edo person can infiltrate a church, become an usher and still be a yahoo boy.

How did u come 2 that conclusion?

rame18:

I really didn't c d point u were trying 2 make

Amen! Thank you very much God bless you.

YeyeGirl:
Pls learn 2 control ur emotions...He just wanna use u... Am so sure he's got a main gf he loves deeply.. U and other women are just for him 2 make more dough/fun...Pls and pls wisen up.... May God bring forth a man who is yours.... Get a man with a legit work,one who earns d right way,not one u gotta feed when client doesn't pay.... Be wise ma.... E karo.....

Young lady, I felt like slapping you across the face with these annoying comments/excuses you are making for this guy.

Like seriously, what is wrong with you? The marriage was arranged just for papers - that's deceit right there.

Please leave God out of this matter. There is faith, foolishness and presumption. I think you're operating from the last two and not the first.

Where is your God-given capacity to think in all of this? You're really vexing me oh. This shouldn't have even been a topic of discussion.

This guy has shown you all the signs you need to make an informed decision. His vices are just too many

Imogenn:
Yeah he had an arranged marriage just to get his paper, it wasn’t real but in the end it did not work out for him because he hasn’t gotten his papers still.

Imogenn:
Yes he claimed that he hit his ex’s from provocation and he claims that he will never hit a woman again. About his yahoo thing, he’s trying to find a way out but since he cannot work legally because of his papers, this is the only thing that can fetch him money for now.


I’m just confused, I feel sorry for him but I don’t want to deal with all those baggage

madridguy:
I cannot cast my fellow guy make I seal my mouth

I wish you would go ahead and cast so women (like this OP) can learn.

She is young, pleases help save her from any misery/miseries she may get herself into.

Such warnings/teachings have more of an impact when they come from men. You all know how guys think and how they run game better than us.

Even I would like to learn so I don't start forming old age & experience, only to fall mugu to one maga, somewhere.

Yahoo boy, heavy smoker with cheating tendency and yet God-fearing.

Like someone said, you're still in your exploration stage. When you're done exploring, you'll get sense by force.

A real and typical born again Benin boy can still be a torn in the flesh, let alone one that smokes heavily, scam oyinbo women for a living and even arrange marriage for papers.

No amount of warning you read here will change your choice until you're done exploring. So focus, keep it up and know when to exit. I don't believe in the evening newspaper sh!t but remember time lost can never be recovered.

Good luck!

Imogenn:
Yes he claimed that he hit his ex’s from provocation and he claims that he will never hit a woman again. About his yahoo thing, he’s trying to find a way out but since he cannot work legally because of his papers, this is the only thing that can fetch him money for now.


I’m just confused, I feel sorry for him but I don’t want to deal with all those baggage

hehehehe once a woman beater, always a woman beater. Them no dey change! The day he would beat you blue black enh, he go be like feem. You've seen all the signs, do yourself a favor and gerraraaaa the relationship

Imogenn:
Hi

I met this guy three months ago. We’ve been casually dating, he’s very calm, nice and he presents himself to be a very God fearing guy.

However, there’s some things that I’m not too keen about that I would like to share, and I’m wondering if I should continue the relationship or break it off as these could be signs that it may not work.

1. He’s a yahoo boy, he’s been into this for the past 11 years and this has been his main source of income.
2. He’s from edo state, some of his family members practice juju, although he is a born again Christian as he claims to be. I’m from Ekiti, I think there could be a tribal conflict.
3. He smokes everyday, which I don’t think I will be able to deal with long term. (Although he has promised to stop)
4. I live in the USA, he currently doesn’t have his papers so he is unable to do a lot of things. He married a lady to get his papers in 2012, (arranged marriage, not a real one) the arrangement didn’t work out in his favour, so he’s still on it till now.
5. He has been physically abusive to two of his ex’s, which he told me about. He also cheated on his ex that he was with for 10 years due to the distance. ( she’s in Nigeria)
6. He has tattoos on his body, which I’m not too fond about.
7. Most of his friends are heavy drinkers and smokers. His best friend cheats significantly on his wife.

I know we’re not perfect, and we all come with some kind of baggage. I’m a young God fearing lady of 24, and I just believe that this may be too much for me to handle.

He’s a nice guy, and he’s told me he loves me and I can see it in his actions. He was honest enough to tell me everything about his past, but I don’t know how to process all this information.

I don’t know what to do, but I believe God is warning me with all these signs. Am I being too judgemental or should I slowly drift away?

Listen carefully

RUN!

Thank you.

Acidosis:




Like someone said, you're still in your exploration stage. When you're done exploring, you'll get sense by force.

A real and typical born again Benin boy can still be a torn in the flesh, let alone one that smokes heavily, scam oyinbo women for a living and even arrange marriage for papers.

No amount of warning you read here will change your choice until you're done exploring. So focus, keep it up and know when to exit. I don't believe in the evening newspaper sh!t but remember time lost can never be recovered.

Good luck!

I will definitely. Thanks so much

hahn:


Listen carefully

RUN!

Girls and fish brain...

A yahoo boy 4 11 years ...Den com b born again sef biko sis 4 hw many years ...He smokes , D guy na full package all in one



Ma Sis run 4 ur life ,Abi 2 answer Mrs dey over hungry u?


Ndi Yahoo born again boy

lexy2014:

I really didn't c d point u were trying 2 make

Shows I was only trolling.

Imogenn:
He’s really into God from what I can see. He works in the ushering department in church but I think hes just living a double lifestyle which he can’t let go of, if that makes sense.

And so?

Even the Devil can quote the bible, you work for God doesnt mean you know the God of the work.

All that even aside

A yahoo boy
Smokes everyday
Married once for papers
His friends are drinkers and smokers
He hit his ex's before

You dont want to be judgemental abi, Forgget all those we are not all perfect its not applicable in this scenerio.

A non-God fearing Lady WILL NOT even consider someone like this, you say you are God fearing what do you want to do with a yahoo boy of eleven years who has been married once for papers , smokes every day , his friends are drinkers and he has history of hitting his exes

I just dont gerrit.

Imogenn drop him FAST

This thread is funny die but not funny

Oshey God fearing Yahoo boy.

Run I repeat run.
My Ekiti sister run Plsz. Being a Yahoo Boy is being a fraudster. Forget the hype. If he's into Plus MA ritualist him be. They bury them every day in Ekiti Now.
PLS run you will meet better persons.
I repeat RUNNNNNN

Modified
I saw your previous thread, YOU ARE NOT OLD.

Eazie351:
These are not signs, they are wonders . U compiled this long list and u say sign...

Una neva learn

Abeg make una no vex but this made me laugh like crazy......wahahahahaahahahahahahahaha......

Babe Run Run Run... when you are tired... just keep Running because if you Stop that guy go destroy your destiny

rame18:





You are not thinking straight anymore. I feel for you.

That's what we call love
I am just unhappy for her, cos I know she won't listen to what people are saying here.

OP, receive sense