I've never seen a more stupid post in my life than this one...as if it's not embarrassing enough some old people here thinks it's derogatory and disrespectful for a wife to keep her father's name and even justify it. First, where in the scripture was surname mention rather Sarah the daughter of so so...and you come here to spew rubbish...many of You people you were not born when the oyinbos colonized us but your brain is still colonized do a proper research and you will see that nothing like this has nothing to do with religion but rather a white people thing...please many of you supporting the man,go and look into your great great grandparents and tell me if they use surname. Please receive sense..

Earthbound:

Maybe my illustration was a bit far fetched but you know I'm right. My guess is that you're married and there's no way you're letting this argument go..

it's disrespectful to have your wife keep compound name...personally I won't allow it. if she insist den I won't wear my wedding ring ever.

Barryston:
I've never seen a more stupid post in my life than this one...as if it's not embarrassing enough some old people here thinks it's derogatory and disrespectful for a wife to keep her father's name and even justify it. First, where in the scripture was surname mention rather Sarah the daughter of so so...and you come here to spew rubbish...many of You people you were not born when the oyinbos colonized us but your brain is still colonized do a proper research and you will see that nothing like this has nothing to do with religion but rather a white people thing...please many of you supporting the man,go and look into your great great grandparents and tell me if they use surname. Please receive sense..

you need the sense more nigger, you talking like a pvssy woped fellow. check the names of great women Of old how many compound names did you see? but cos all you think about is to impress a woman, you sell your birthright

alBHAGDADI:
You are the one deceiving yourself. If the whole passage was referring to man and wife, then Jesus Christ also ought to submit to the church too. If the church says it wants people to have sex orgy inside its auditorium, Jesus ought to submit too.

Can you see how wrong you are?

Doesn't he submit to the church?

How many of you can wash your wife's feet like Jesus did for the disciples?

DaddyNimo:

it's disrespectful to have your wife keep compound name...personally I won't allow it. if she insist den I won't wear my wedding ring ever.

You're like someone I know. One month into his marriage, baba ensured his name was on all of her documents asap. I told him to go and change the name on her WAEC result, her degree certificates too.

Lol this one thinks I'm impressing a woman...lol you are entitled to your problem oo...I'm selling my birthright...I've a happy marriage with kids I'm just telling you how insignificant name is to a marriage..But why am I wasting time on you I'm sure you can't be responsible in life..you can't even keep a lady with this your stupid mentality...you are very sick in the brain and you need help...enjoy your miserable life Amigo

DaddyNimo:

you need the sense more nigger, you talking like a pvssy woped fellow. check the names of great women Of old how many compound names did you see? but cos all you think about is to impress a woman, you sell your birthright

Elliot2:
if we must discuss things that don't make any sense then it should be why a woman should bear her husband's name;it doesn't make any sense. She is not a property a man acquires.

Men with sense

Saff, don't worry about it. You can keep your name.

pocohantas:


Oga, stop deceiving yourself. That whole passage was referring to man and wife.

it wasn't talking about man and woman. you guys also love to twist Bible to suit your genders? I thought it is only done by men according to niaraland? if will all can keep Bible principles in our life and marriage, we will be happy and secure with no one having to waste time thinking of who will submit and who will lead or who will change name. leading and following is almost same thing if it is being done with love as a good leader also participate in doing same thing they want their followers to do. the kind of world we are in , the kind of people we meet and other people wicked experience we hear have hardened our heart that we always want to challenge what is normal

Daeylar:




Men with sense

does that mean he is going to treat his wife better? what harm will bearing your husband name do to you?

If you are profiling a man and see the wife adding her maiden name to her husband's name, you do not need to be told that the man is a weak person.

Seems most people don't believe in a free world everyone should do as they please kind of life.
Why trying to stop women who want to keep their surnames and browbeat them into changing it? , why not marry women who don't have an issue with changing their surnames? Why this irrational need to Control women?

Small thing, Women should add keep their surnames in addition to their husband's names is disturbing you guys like this.

How will you survive when women refuse to change their names completely, insisting on keeping their names even in marriage,

Or when women insist just like you guys are doing that the man must change his name and bear their surname to be a family.?

Barryston:
Lol this one thinks I'm impressing a woman...lol you are entitled to your problem oo...I'm selling my birthright...I've a happy marriage with kids I'm just telling you how insignificant name is to a marriage..But why am I wasting time on you I'm sure you can't be responsible in life..you can't even keep a lady with this your stupid mentality...you are very sick in the brain and you need help...enjoy your miserable life Amigo

lol ode keeper of lady...theres no such thing as happy marriage...when a marriage is perfect and happy, it means one of the partners is bowing for the other and isn't truly happy....ive dated more women Dan you have ever said hi to so keep your advice to yourself. Your wife could probably be one of those forming happy wife at home just to keep the marriage going be finding solace on the arm of anoda man. odeokinrin kuku adopt her surname since it means nothing.

pocohantas:
This is one reason I can't stand over religious people, especially the men among them. Very manipulative creatures.

After fornicating, backbiting, lying... and all sorts. They wake up one day and select the part of the bible they want their wives to follow. When they were knacking her before marriage, they didn't remember bible verses o. I can only listen to the one that obeys the commandments to the letter, all others are total trash...

The best reply to the post . I totally agree with you!!!!!

Tizu:
If you are profiling a man and see the wife adding her maiden name to her husband's name, you do not need to be told that the man is a weak person.

I swear that's just the simple truth. if your wife uses compound name you're a weak man and dats why she married you cos you're weak and controllable

noturbusiness:

does that mean he is going to treat his wife better? what harm will bearing your husband name do to you?

Absolutely Nothing,

but it's a free world, everyone should be able to have choice., if i was a man and I want a wife who will change her surname to mine, then I should be able to find such a wife and marry her and live in peace,
There are women like that definitely.

Not attacking the women who don't think that way and trying to force them to change to what I want. Like I said. Free world, everyone should do what they want.

Now my question, what harm will a woman keeping her surname or even the man changing his surname to the woman's own do to you guys? That makes some guys campaign against it like this?

pocohantas:


Happy Sunday,

Product of trade by barter.

After all, if two families didn't sit and exchange one innocent girl for palmwine and kola-nut...you wouldn't be born.

Burn ..

Daeylar:
Seems most people don't believe in a free world everyone should do as they please kind of life.
Why trying to stop women who want to keep their surnames and browbeat them into doing changing it? , why not marry women who don't have an issue with changing their surnames? Why this irrational need to Control women?

Small thing, Women should add keep their surnames in addition to their husband's names is disturbing you guys like this.

How will you survive when women refuse to change their names completely, insisting on keeping their names even in marriage,

Or when women insist just like you guys are doing that the man must change his name and bear their surname to be a family.?

will your lives make sense if we don't marry y'all? you're not even happy someone decided to marry you, you still wanna drag name after paying brodeprice Ko possible Men

noturbusiness:

Luke 3:23-38 and Mathew 1:1-17 there is Jesus Father and ancestors.
the fact that he was refers to as son of David(his ancestor) in his day should tell you all you need to know about a man's name

Still not a surname.

You religious fanatics forget that it is a sin to add your own words to the scriptures

BlaqCoffee109:
that was some sarcasm in relation to @op...they need one to drop their maiden name and take up their name exclusively...but will also need you to actively contribute 50% or more financially for the family... talking about double standard. Whether feminist or not, I am team chop their money...Iranu Abasha... mtcheew

No mind them.
Any day my man opens his mouth and proclaims himself Lord and me the inferior partner, I will make sure he gets no support from me. He will slave day and night ALONE to keep the home running.

JeromeBlack:



Did they even use surnames in the bible?

What is John the Baptist's surname?

Even Jesus did not have surname.

Moses did not have a surname

LOL

Barryston:
I've never seen a more stupid post in my life than this one...as if it's not embarrassing enough some old people here thinks it's derogatory and disrespectful for a wife to keep her father's name and even justify it. First, where in the scripture was surname mention rather Sarah the daughter of so so...and you come here to spew rubbish...many of You people you were not born when the oyinbos colonized us but your brain is still colonized do a proper research and you will see that nothing like this has nothing to do with religion but rather a white people thing...please many of you supporting the man,go and look into your great great grandparents and tell me if they use surname. Please receive sense..

which Sarah the daughter of so so? it was Sarah the wife of Abraham. women names were mentioned with their husband name in the Bible. it is men who bear their their family name in the Bible. even the war hero who kill sirera the man who cause Isreal so much pain was refers to as Jael the wife of Heber

na some men wey Don over hype these women dey make dem bold enuf to even suggest compound name not to talk of actually doing it....their moms doesn't even use o.

JeromeBlack:


Still not a surname.

You religious fanatics forget that it is a sin to add your own words to the scriptures

what is surname? is it not your father's name? try and type with understanding

A woman should not use her husband name at all but her father name. Once your father he remains ur father forever and ever. You can get married to another husband but you can never get born for the second time to another father.

DaddyNimo:

will your lives make sense if we don't marry y'all? you're not even happy someone decided to marry you, you still wanna drag name after paying brodeprice Ko possible Men

Lol, this is a new Era, women are no longer happy with "at least I'm married, at all at all Naim bad pass" kind of marriage,

Either you step up and give women what they want or you step out of their way and manage your single life.

How will men like you cope?

Ugosample:
I'm wondering what's the link between keeping your father's surname and rebelliousness? ?

The million dollar question.





Any answers? Anyone on this thread?

noturbusiness:

what is surname? is it not your father's name? try and type with understanding

Then Jesus would be Jesus Joseph.

Use your brain

Daeylar:


Lol, this is a new Era, women are no longer happy with "at least I'm married, at all at all Naim bad pass" kind of marriage,

Either you step up and give women what they want or you step out of their way and manage your single life.

How will men like you cope?

we know your type, humble when with a guy but proud online...hard girl hard girl at the end na slap and broken teeth go end am...no worry team new era women una eyes go clear.

Daeylar:


The million dollar question.





Any answers? Anyone on this thread?

no worry sebi you go born boy and he go marry, him wife go drag surname with am. case closed.

Daeylar:


Absolutely Nothing,

but it's a free world, everyone should be able to have choice., if i was a man and I want a wife who will change her surname to mine, then I should be able to find such a wife and marry her and leave in peace,
There are women like that definitely.

Not attacking the women who don't think that way and trying to force them to change to what I want. Like I said. Free world, everyone should do what they want.

Now my question, what harm will a woman keeping her surname or even the man changing his surname to the woman's own do to you guys? That makes some guys campaign against it like this?

we are not trying to attack women who don't want to change their name. this post was created to admonish the Christian woman.
to your question, my woman keeping her name or me thinking of changing my name will do great harm to me in the society. women were created for men and because of men while a man was created for God 1corinthians 11:8,9.