asuustrike1:

Were they bearing their names as we do today?
Did the Bible say they should use their husband's names? Where did you get all this man made tradition that has no scriptural bases. The Bible is clear on marriage but didn't say a woman should answer her husband's name as it is man made doctrine.

The Bible supports this kind of man made doctrine because that is what the husband wants from his wife whom the Bible ordered to submit to him.

What you are saying now is that your wife can allow her company transfer her to Europe leaving you behind in Africa because the Bible doesn't expressly say anything against such. You have to allow her go because the Bible doesn't prohibit it.

Guy, what you want is what your wife should want as long as you are the head.

alBHAGDADI:
Your husband is your Lord. If he says he doesn't care whether you bear his name, fine. But if he insists, you will not be disobeying your Lord if you go ahead to bear your father's name. It means you have not submitted as commanded by the Bible. Can you Now see how the Bible is applied in this case?

Your husband saying you should bear his surname on what bases does the Bible approves that in the first place? The Bible say submission which I agree but does it say you should answer his surname?. You talk as if submitting to one's husband means totality even if it means licking his ass out. That is what you trying to portray to the general public on submission. You are saying that total submission means doing anything even if it is contrary to the scriptures.

Saff:
The pattern I’ve noticed about weak men, everything and anything causes a dent to their ego. I think you’re a perfect description of that.

How will you react if your husband prevents you from going to Europe where your company has transfered you to with lots of benefits?

Will you call him a weak man?

If no, then why do you call men weak for saying they won't allow their wife use hyphenated names?

Is it ya wife?

asuustrike1:

Your husband saying you should bear his surname on what bases does the Bible approves that in the first place? The Bible say submission which I agree but does it say you should answer his surname?. You talk as if submitting to one's husband means totality even if it means licking his ass out. That is what you trying to portray to the general public on submission. You are saying that total submission means doing anything even if it is contrary to the scriptures.

Yes, it says you should answer his name if that's what he wants.

What part of submit don't you understand? Perhaps you think it means submit when you want and don't submit in instances when you don't want to. The Bible says submit and be in subjection to your husband in EVERYTHING, including names.


Ephesians 5:24
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in EVERY THING.

1 Peter 3:1-6
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands;

pocohantas:


Happy Sunday,

Product of trade by barter.

After all, if two families didn't sit and exchange one innocent girl for palmwine and kola-nut...you wouldn't be born.

The bolded is wrong oo....what about all the children born out of wedlock? there was n't any exchange of palmwine and kola~nut.

alBHAGDADI:
The Bible supports this kind of man made doctrine because that is what the husband wants from his wife whom the Bible ordered to submit to him.

What you are saying now is that your wife can allow her company transfer her to Europe leaving you behind in Africa because the Bible doesn't expressly say anything against such. You have to allow her go because the Bible doesn't prohibit it.

Guy, what you want is what your wife should want as long as you are the head.

Why would she travel without my permission in the first? Am not talking about Bible expressly saying it but having a link but a good one at that. The Bible gave choice and didn't make it compulsory. Men are trying to write traditions that doesn't have scriptural bases at all. We just quote scriptures but no locus standing at all. You mentioned pornography and I was able to give locus standing on it but you refuse to give locus standing on answering husband's name. From Genesis to Revelation, nobody bear their husband's name at all. The ones some of on this forum said about keeping names did add that to their names. Shalom

alBHAGDADI:


Yes, it says you should answer his name if that's what he wants.

What part of submit don't you understand? Perhaps you think it means submit when you want and don't submit in instances when you don't want to. The Bible says submit and be in subjection to your husband in EVERYTHING, including names.


Ephesians 5:24
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in EVERY THING.

1 Peter 3:1-6
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands;

I know but were does name answering comes from? Which scriptures support that?. You said everything right which means killing I suppose

asuustrike1:

Were they bearing their names as we do today?
Did the Bible say they should use their husband's names? Where did you get all this man made tradition that has no scriptural bases. The Bible is clear on marriage but didn't say a woman should answer her husband's name as it is man made doctrine.

man made tradition, supported by God?
were they not identify by their husbands name?
Sarah wife of Abraham and Sarah Abraham are they not the same thing? Aisha buhari and Aisha wife of buhari is it not same thing?
what is the use of using your husband name? is it not to identify as his wife?
if you see Aisha wife of buhari or Aisha buhari , did both not tell you that Aisha is married to buhari?
or you want us to do it in biblical format?
using Aisha wife of buhari or Aisha buhari in her documents, which of them relegate women the more according to your useless feminist ideas?
why did she not use Sarah daughter of-------------- or why did he not use Abraham husband of Sarah?

Marriage is not transfer of ownership. No one is a product here. Stop mixing Christianity with dead traditions.
All these so called religious people that will have one leg in shrine and another leg in their fake pastor's church. They will never learn anything that will bring peace. All these religions and the country still looks like shiit.
Even obodo oyibo people that are not even religious practice better Christianity that some dundi united so called black Christians. Tueh!!!!

asuustrike1:

Why would she travel without my permission in the first? Am not talking about Bible expressly saying it but having a link but a good one at that. The Bible gave choice and didn't make it compulsory. Men are trying to write traditions that doesn't have scriptural bases at all. We just quote scriptures but no locus standing at all. You mentioned pornography and I was able to give locus standing on it but you refuse to give locus standing on answering husband's name. From Genesis to Revelation, nobody bear their husband's name at all. The ones some of on this forum said about keeping names did add that to their names. Shalom

Why can't she travel without your permission? Did she also hyphenated her name without your permission? Which Bible verse says she has to seek your permission before traveling?

If you can't see submission as a reason why a wife should not hyphenate her name when her husband kicks against it, then I don't see how you were able to use those verse to show that pornography is a sin when the Bible doesn't expressly state such.

BlaqCoffee109:
Who be this Suegbe? So you mean every woman you come across must be a broke fo.ol like you? The destiny of your generation sef join together no fit buy Benz that is why you think buying a Benz should be the greatest achievement of your destiny abi?...Kai, it is well with you...We are talking stock option in a fortune 500 kinda money you are here dreaming of buying benz...I can not begin to reason with you. Ewu Gambia,bia get off my mention, before I mop floor with you...

Stupid olosho whose account balance is 500 naira lol. Dem go still use you last last. A stupid daughter of a lovepedller

koyyes:
Marriage is not transfer of ownership. No one is a product here. Stop mixing Christianity with dead traditions.
All these so called religious people that will have one leg in shrine and another leg in their fake pastor's church. They will never learn anything that will bring peace. All these religions and the country still looks like shiit.
Even obodo oyibo people that are not even religious practice better Christianity that some dundi united so called black Christians. Tueh!!!!

Marriage is transfer of ownership. Jesus said they shall become one flesh, meaNing the wife in this Case is No longer part of her father or under his authority but the husband's.

BlaqCoffee109:
Who be this Suegbe? So you mean every woman you come across must be a broke fo.ol like you? The destiny of your generation sef join together no fit buy Benz that is why you think buying a Benz should be the greatest achievement of your destiny abi?...Kai, it is well with you...We are talking stock option in a fortune 500 kinda money you are here dreaming of buying benz...I can not begin to reason with you. Ewu Gambia,bia get off my mention, before I mop floor with you...

Olosho it’s almost time to go to Allen Avenue. Werey

noturbusiness:

man made tradition, supported by God?
were they not identify by their husbands name?
Sarah wife of Abraham and Sarah Abraham are they not the same thing? Aisha buhari and Aisha wife of buhari is it not same thing?
what is the use of using your husband name? is it not to identify as his wife?
if you see Aisha wife of buhari or Aisha buhari , did both not tell you that Aisha is married to buhari?
or you want us to do it in biblical format?
using Aisha wife of buhari or Aisha buhari in her documents, which of them relegate women the more according to your useless feminist ideas?
why did she not use Sarah daughter of-------------- or why did he not use Abraham husband of Sarah?

Please, leave them alone. They are blind.

alBHAGDADI:


Marriage is transfer of ownership. Jesus said they shall become one flesh, meaNing the wife in this Case is No longer part of her father or under his authority but the husband's.

Stop reading the bible side ways. Even that verse you read talked about the man leaving his family and sticking to his wife. No one talked about name changing. If Christianity is too hard for you to practice, dump it and continue with your idol worshipping. There are many females who are regular visitors of shrines that will be happy to have you as a husband. Good luck.

alBHAGDADI:


Proverbs 22:28 Remove not the ancient landmark, which thy fathers have set.

And...? If there is no mention of anyone in the Bible that changed their names after marriage, how do you know that it was their custom in the first place? How do you know that it was not an Anglo Saxon tradition from ancient times? Dude, stop being dogmatic.

alBHAGDADI:


Please, leave them alone. They are blind.

I am done with them my brother. All this feminist trying to challenge the headship of man by introducing useless ideologies. Does answering the man's name stop you from anything? All this weak men supporting them in public will end up beating their wife and subjecting them to all sorts of maltreatment in private

sweetrace:


And...? If there is no mention of anyone in the Bible that changed their names after marriage, how do you know that it was their custom in the first place? How do you know that it was not an Anglo Saxon tradition from ancient times? Dude, stop being dogmatic.

As long as it is a tradition which has been very good without harm, don't remove it.

Proverbs 22:28 Remove not the ancient landmark, which thy fathers have set.

alBHAGDADI:


As long as it is a tradition which has been very good without harm, don't remove it.

Proverbs 22:28 Remove not the ancient landmark, which thy fathers have set.

I give up on you.

sweetrace:


And...? If there is no mention of anyone in the Bible that changed their names after marriage, how do you know that it was their custom in the first place? How do you know that it was not an Anglo Saxon tradition from ancient times? Dude, stop being dogmatic.

All married women who were married to Christain men identify with their husband name in the Bible. Sarah was called Sarah wife of Abraham while Abraham kept his father's name.
Aisha wife of buhari and Aisha buhari, which one will you prefer in your documents if you happens to be the buhari wife

Evangkatsoulis:


Dude, where does it state that a woman shouldn't bear her father's name along with her husband's?

They are one flesh in everything including name.application of bible to ones way of life is very wide.

Chiefjosy:


Stupid olosho whose account balance is 500 naira lol. Dem go still use you last last. A stupid daughter of a lovepedller

I don't blame you, it's your mother I blame. She wasn't a good role model of a woman.So because your mother is a retired prostitute that raised a serial looser like yourself every other woman is Olosho? Funny oaf. Abeg oh, I am allergic to cretins like your self. Only a failure like your self can believe the only way to financial independence and riches is only by using people to make money.Serial looser abeg carry your failure for head dey go. My advice since you believe in using people to make money go and use your useless mother to make money so you can blow like E-money nah...no go do something meaningful with your life other than carry make am for your head...dondi united...Mumu, one of the fo.ols that deceive themselves and eat sh*t spotted

Chiefjosy:


Olosho it’s almost time to go to Allen Avenue. Werey

my dear go and remind your mother, make she make some money from her prostitution come feed you.Looser

See post o, is that not slavery? How on earth do you even have to change your fathers name to your husband because you are married to him? This is why ISLAM is a total religion. A woman must bear her fathers name whether she is married or not... biko

Well, my wife will bear my name only. It's that simple

[quote author=alBHAGDADI post=73287353]On judgment day, women will be called based on. their husbands name. If you like divorce and get married ten times, your first husband is who is recognized by God. Others are illegal before him.




I disagree,,.
Fathers name is more legal owing to the fact that it is found in ur birth certificate. A husband can easily disown his wife.
This is where christianism is getting it wrong,
In islam, a woman will spend her life till eternity and judgement day with her last husband, if she dies, the last husband is to burry her, in what way is the first husband is recognized by God, please don't lie against God.

The story is different in Nigeria. The woman uses her father's name mostly cos d name open doors for her when it's been mentioned... Especially the influential ones

BlaqCoffee109:
my dear go and remind your mother, make she make some money from her prostitution come feed you.Looser

Olofo whose borehole pussy is as wide as River Niger. Fk to Allen so you go chop today ok

BlaqCoffee109:
I don't blame you, it's your mother I blame. She wasn't a good role model of a woman.So because your mother is a retired prostitute that raised a serial looser like yourself every other woman is Olosho? Funny oaf. Abeg oh, I am allergic to cretins like your self. Only a failure like your self can believe the only way to financial independence and riches is only by using people to make money.Serial looser abeg carry your failure for head dey go. My advice since you believe in using people to make money go and use your useless mother to make money so you can blow like E-money nah...no go do something meaningful with your life other than carry make am for your head...dondi united...Mumu, one of the fo.ols that deceive themselves and eat sh*t spotted

I know you’re pained. Don’t cry. Smelling LovePeddler. Despite all your olosho business your account still Dey read negative.

ivanalimi:
good luck finding such a Nigerian man that will allow that.of course by the time u are 37 and still single, maybe u will have a rethink of ur girlish fantancies.

Faak off with mediaval mindset.I care less about a woman bearing my name and will never pay any rubbish called bride price.

pocohantas:


This is why I suggest History should be made compulsory in secondary schools. You know nothing about culture/tradition obviously.

Just like "white wedding", a woman switching to her husband's name is foreign.

That said, Bride price was started by you men. Men are the ones that sit and collect it all. Ego will not allow you all stop it, because you people must always have something to feel superior about.

Honestly I do wonder if some of you can exist as women. So insecure, despite how society has given you guys a higher standing...you people still fight over the pettiest of things. Jeez!!!!

Thank you!!!! Why are naija men complaining about bride price? It was started, taken and maintained by men ONLY!! So many weak men everywhere worrying about irrelevant things smh

noturbusiness:

man made tradition, supported by God?
were they not identify by their husbands name?
Sarah wife of Abraham and Sarah Abraham are they not the same thing? Aisha buhari and Aisha wife of buhari is it not same thing?
what is the use of using your husband name? is it not to identify as his wife?
if you see Aisha wife of buhari or Aisha buhari , did both not tell you that Aisha is married to buhari?
or you want us to do it in biblical format?
using Aisha wife of buhari or Aisha buhari in her documents, which of them relegate women the more according to your useless feminist ideas?
why did she not use Sarah daughter of-------------- or why did he not use Abraham husband of Sarah?

Buhari is the name of the great grandfather of the president.
Mohammed is the name of the president.

When you try to use the Bible to justify stupidity, you'll run into trouble.
If submission was about bearing your husband's name, it would be Aisha Mohammed not Aisha Buhari.

Jesus warned the disciples about people like you and the OP who pretend to be Holy on the outside but rotten on the inside.