LADIES tend to fall easily when approached by a guy perceived to be better than their dad
.It is like a everyone us in a social class ,let's say 1-8
A lady whose family is in level 3 well not play hard to get when approached by a guy in level 7 while making things difficult for a guy in similar dating class like her.


such lady would have so many e.g (20)from her current level, 15 admirer's from level 4. 7 admirers from level 5 , 4 admirers from level 6 and only 2 from level 7 in her entire life .

She would be tough toward her level mate .She won't value then much because they are many . The price tag/value she places on the few level 7 are high that she would remove those her boundary to please him .more like law of demand and supply.







Every lady wants someone better than than her own father .

Class comes first, Love second.


Guys know this that is why they they date all kind of women only to settle down for the village girl or one much lower than his class
Such guy are aware that even if they cheat or misbehave, she will stick By him since she value him highly .



Examine your current relationship . check your family status and your girl family status. the higher the difference, the more certain you are that love is not why she is with you

Go sleep abeg

Lol, you want him to go back to sleep again....

SweetBuns:
Go sleep abeg

carter009:
Lol, you want him to go back to sleep again....

he's sleep deprived. Thats why he's typing nonsense

SweetBuns:
Go sleep abeg

It took him time to make that analysis.
Why the negative comment?

SweetBuns:
Go sleep abeg

It took him time to make that analysis.
Why the negative comment?

SweetBuns:
Go sleep abeg

It took him time to make that analysis.
Why the negative comment?

SweetBuns post=<script></script>:
Go sleep abeg

It took him time to make that analysis.
Why the negative comment?

"<script>SweetBuns</script>" post=<script></script>:
Go sleep abeg

It took him time to make that analysis.
Why the negative comment?

sparkle6:

It took him time to make that analysis.
Why the negative comment?

how many times will you quote me

mumumugu:
LADIES tend to fall easily when approached by a guy perceived to be better than their dad
.It is like a everyone us in a social class ,let's say 1-8
A lady whose family is in level 3 well not play hard to get when approached by a guy in level 7 while making things difficult for a guy in similar dating class like her.


such lady would have so many e.g (20)from her current level, 15 admirer's from level 4. 7 admirers from level 5 , 4 admirers from level 6 and only 2 from level 7 in her entire life .

She would be tough toward her level mate .She won't value then much because they are many . The price tag/value she places on the few level 7 are high that she would remove those her boundary to please him .more like law of demand and supply.







Every lady wants someone better than than her own father .

Class comes first, Love second.


Guys know this that is why they they date all kind of women only to settle down for the village girl or one much lower than his class
Such guy are aware that even if they cheat or misbehave, she will stick By him since she value him highly .



Examine your current relationship . check your family status and your girl family status. the higher the difference, the more certain you are that love is not why she is with you

you say the plain truth. My dad's level makes the available guys fewer.

What type of bullshit is this? Guy person wey dey deceive u no go die well.

SweetBuns:
how many times will you quote me

I had to use your post to carry out a nairaland vulnerability test. Sorry

funmisticqueen:
you say the plain truth. My dad's level makes the available guys fewer.

Lies!

In Nigeria, every one knows that class is a synonym for money. And with the way you are on here everyday about guys having money, it means you never really had much of it growing up.
A woman who has never lacked money will not have money as her number one criteria when seeking out a man.
At best you are from a middle class family. No dey lie!!!

Ranchhoddas:
Lies!

In Nigeria, every one knows that class is a synonym for money. And with the way you are on here everyday about guys having money, it means you never really had much of it growing up.
A woman who has never lacked money will not have money as her number one criteria when seeking out a man.
At best you are from a middle class family. No dey lie!!!

Class differ from money though financial stability is a factor in determining ones class.

SweetBuns:
he's sleep deprived. Thats why he's typing nonsense

Out of every nonsense lies a little sense. throw away the non. make use of the sence

mumumugu:



Class differ from money though financial stability is a factor in determining ones class.

Tell me the difference. My ears are itching.

[quote author=sparkle6 post=73338345]
It took him time to make that analysis.
Why the negative comment?[/quote

thanks bro. It took years of research walking up to middle class a girl I know little off asking for a date( even when I didn't want to) comparing her response with my own class ]
many kept me hanging until they got to know my class . since It was just a research, I lowered my self told her U teach mathematics and watched her turn me down only to increase it by telling them i Just got a Job in an engineering firm to arouse their interest.( Their parent were mostly teachers ,middle/low ranked civil servant etc)
.The low class typical village brought up girl never really cared . as long as my spoken english was better than her entire families (neither parent is graduate). , she was willing to get married to me even when I said I was Jobless .

The highly classed ladies were not really affected by What I tell them . They needed seriousness and assurance that I truely loved them. ( I didn't love any of them). moreover, I was turned down many times as I wasn't in their class .




Every law has an exception though .

Ranchhoddas:
Tell me the difference. My ears are itching.

wealth is a primary factor
power is another factor ( this is why the rich venture into politics.
education ( a jobless graduate is perceived to be in a higher class than a jobless nom-graduate
A law graduate is perceived to be in higher class than a library graduate

Jayslicky:
What type of bullshit is this? Guy person wey dey deceive u no go die well.

no theory us hundred percent accurate. at the same time,it is not hundred percent inaccurate

Ranchhoddas:
Lies!

In Nigeria, every one knows that class is a synonym for money. And with the way you are on here everyday about guys having money, it means you never really had much of it growing up.
A woman who has never lacked money will not have money as her number one criteria when seeking out a man.
At best you are from a middle class family. No dey lie!!!

i used to think that way before too that money and class are different, that poor men deserve a chance. Then i met some poor people. my conclusion is this. 'light hath no fellowship with darkness. Most broke men only want to drag you down of their level of suffering'. Thank God i didn't buy that bullshit

Rubbish!
See how you have turned everything on its head.

No girl who grew up without lacking money will use money as the primary determining factor when seeking out a man.
It does not mean they go for broke men. It only means that they consider other things first since the man's money does not add or subtract from them in any way.

You on the other hand continue to yap about how money is everything meaning you lacked it growing up. A rich man will no doubt turn your life around.

So which class did your "dad's level" give you?

You are from a middle class home at best or an ajekpako at worst.
This is why you have turned a man to your get-out-of-the-rat-race-card.

That's the point. Rich girls seldom if ever date broke men. So where did you meet your own broke men if you did not grow up broke.

Liar oshi!!!

mumumugu:

wealth is a primary factor
power is another factor ( this is why the rich venture into politics.
education ( a jobless graduate is perceived to be in a higher class than a jobless nom-graduate
A law graduate is perceived to be in higher class than a library graduate

It all comes down to money. Once you have money you'll tick all the boxes.
If the jobless guy somehow has money than the graduate with a job, who would you say is in a higher class?

Ranchhoddas:
It all comes down to money. Once you have money you'll tick all the boxes.
If the jobless guy somehow has money than the graduate with a job, who would you say is in a higher class?

some ladies from highly educated family would never get down with an illiterate irrespective of his bank account

Let me leave my few cents here. You don’t count the money when it comes to being real love and sacrifices you only do it at the end when you both have given up and are trying to score points on each other. Then that is when you will hear I did this and I bought this. In real love your pocket doesn’t matter it’s more about who can add to it and subtract less if given the opportunity. I say the opportunity because lifetime relationships take Time to build and make room for errors. The money comes and goes but the heart has to want to stay. If you can grow a heart that can then you will have access to everything

mumumugu:


some ladies from highly educated family would never get down with an illiterate irrespective of his bank account

Unless she already has money or has really good prospects, this is a big fat lie!

[quote author=funmisticqueen post=73339178] you say the plain truth. My dad's level makes the available guys fewer.[/quote

thanks for acknowledging the bitter truth. This is why most single ladies don't drive car. It increases her perceived class and reduces suitors

solasoulmusic:
Let me leave my few cents here. You don’t count the money when it comes to being real love and sacrifices you only do it at the end when you both have given up and are trying to score points on each other. Then that is when you will hear I did this and I bought this. In real love your pocket doesn’t matter it’s more about who can add to it and subtract less if given the opportunity. I say the opportunity because lifetime relationships take Time to build and make room for errors. The money comes and goes but the heart has to want to stay. If you can grow a heart that can then you will have access to everything

The issue is this...when one meets a guy he barely knows and he declares interest in her. does she automatically answer yes or know? what factors does she consider in giving him a chance for a date, swapping of numbers etc, ? does she first perceive his class? A guy he barely knows so she doesn't love him yet + except you believe in love at first sight)

Ranchhoddas:
It all comes down to money. Once you have money you'll tick all the boxes.
If the jobless guy somehow has money than the graduate with a job, who would you say is in a higher class?

wealth is major factor. the jobless wealthy guy is perceived as higher clasa

mumumugu:


wealth is major factor. the jobless wealthy guy is perceived as higher clasa

In Nigeria it is the only factor.
If na by class no yahoo boy suppose dey get "classy girls".
Of course every rule has exceptions.

mumumugu:


The issue is this...when one meets a guy he barely knows and he declares interest in her. does she automatically answer yes or know? what factors does she consider in giving him a chance for a date, swapping of numbers etc, ? does she first perceive his class? A guy he barely knows so she doesn't love him yet + except you believe in love at first sight)

Personality is the major one I look for I don’t want someone who will dull my happiness or be angry when I try to put a smile on his. You can also adjust as well sometimes when your dealing with some tough ones

Heart - are you capable of expressing the love you you seek to inspire in another

Will he listen even when he’s mad at me it’s inportant cause keeping malice is bad everything else is secondary like how much he earns they come with time we are here now

It’s in the process of getting to know someone that most relationships crash it’s a mirror so you can see your actions not a comparison. People treat love anyhow nowadays not knowing it’s one of the things that can heal the world. If You love someone it means there’s something about then that You love and it could be instant as well as something developed with time what’s not right is for you to take advantage of it and then start questioning whether it was Love in the first place pressing peoples buttons and pushing them to their limit.

If you can’t meet love halfway sometimes you won’t be able to learn how really deep and amazing it is