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Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by MrGist: 9:30am On Dec 01, 2018 |
A Nigerian man who took to Facebook to dish out advice, disclosed that many ladies in their late 30s never saw it coming. According to the Nigerian man, ladies who fall in this category had plans of finishing their ‘first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32’. He further disclosed that only few men would marry a 35-year-old woman who is independent and opinionated when we live in a highly hypergamous (act of marrying someone wealthier than you) society. He wrote; Many women who are single and in their mid and late 30s today never saw it coming. They had a plan: finish their first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32. Of course, nature always laughs back at their fantastic attempt to dictate the pace of their lives. News from Gistmore - http://gistmore.com/many-ladies-in-the-late-30s-never-saw-it-coming-nigerian-man 27 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by MrGist: 9:30am On Dec 01, 2018 |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Olalan(m): 9:34am On Dec 01, 2018 |
He's right....forget the fake Talk about not needing a husband to live a fulfilling life as some say just to save face, many of them wish to be happily married. BTW there seems to be a wide difference in women who are happily married and their unmarried counterparts especially in a working environment. Thus for me a happy marriage makes a woman better. 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:34am On Dec 01, 2018 |
Maybe feminists might as well not get married......The guy is right sha ... 6 Likes |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by IamD18: 9:34am On Dec 01, 2018 |
In my opinion. No sensible and reasonable man will stoop so low to marry an expired woman in her 30s. These set of ladies are condemned and a big disaster to humanity. Starting from their toxicity to their bad attitude, starting from their sexual expired features to their infertility, starting from their over 700 body counts to their overused pussay looking like an expired liver. Spit on them! After reading my comment, a reasonable unmarried lady in her 30s will not hesitate to do as the picture below interprets. They are not needed on earth. 60 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by highqueen(f): 9:37am On Dec 01, 2018 |
Let the bashing begin, 1, 2,Go!!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by GOFRONT(m): 9:38am On Dec 01, 2018 |
Na table you wan shake so!! 2 Likes |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:42am On Dec 01, 2018 |
highqueen: |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by PUSSYHOE(m): 9:43am On Dec 01, 2018 |
highqueen:Will someone please marry this one before she hit 40? always why is the truth about girls considered insult to them? 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 9:43am On Dec 01, 2018 |
it is normal for ladies to feel pride in their young age because of the attention they attract from men. But learning how to manage it, makes you mature and assist you in meeting a mature husband. 33 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:46am On Dec 01, 2018 |
Rextizzle... Food don done.... Lefulefu follow suit 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Evablizin(f): 9:50am On Dec 01, 2018 |
IamD18:Nnaa oo,o gini? Haa.... 21 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 9:51am On Dec 01, 2018 |
IamD18:guy seriously this is unneedful. Ladies are fragile oo, they might end up doing what you wrote 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by SenorFax(m): 9:52am On Dec 01, 2018 |
O ma seo Before 30--------After 30 30 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:53am On Dec 01, 2018 |
So a woman should settle for anybody because she must marry before 30.She settles for anybody and starts crying in the marriage. This man should advise his fellow men on how to be responsible and on how to respect women.Maybe then women would agree to marry them. You can't tell me that the likes of Dambisa moyo,Oprah are unfulfilled because they are unmarried. This closed minded society of ours should understand that you do not tell people how to run their lives. A woman should never reduce her standard because she must get married before a certain age. Love,happiness,companionship etc knows no age. So this talk is silly and not factual for everybody. Even evening tabloids would be calling wonderful humans newspaper. 74 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by bigpicture001: 9:56am On Dec 01, 2018 |
Very true 2 Likes |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 01, 2018 |
To all the women who feel pressured to tie the knot, do not purposely make your life a misery, it is not worth it. People will always talk, you’re damned if you do, damned if you don’t. Unfortunately we have unfortunate men and even women that will shame you and ridicule you for not getting married at the “right time”, these people will be the same ones that will laugh at you when you’re running from one place to another, crying about your marriage issues. Be patient, work on yourself spiritually, mentally and emotionally, build your finances, build relationships, work on your craft, and God will compliment you with your equal. My mother got married at 31, my mothers sister also got married at 34 and she’s blessed with 3 children today, and they’re still very happily married. Its not a rare situation, it’s called life. Shiit doesn’t always go according to plan, is your life suddenly over because of this? It’s not a crime to run your own race, quality men attract quality women. Men, see quality before anything. Boys use foolish stereotypes to produce their thoughts. This actually applies to both genders. Heck marriage is not for everyone, if its not for you, jejely stay on your own and live your life in peace. I shall say no more. 111 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:57am On Dec 01, 2018 |
IamD18:Donstan go and tell this to oprah winfrey,Stacy Adams,Dambisa moyo etc.The people that respect these women can never respect you. Your type would not hesitate to marry these women just to get a green card.Is it not your Nigerian or Afrcan brothers that stoop so low to marry them or are these men not responsible? Be careful how you use your words because you don't sound sarcastic. *spits on you* 45 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:58am On Dec 01, 2018 |
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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by ednut1(m): 10:00am On Dec 01, 2018 |
Always blaming the ladies. Na everybody wey marry dey happy ni . Some of these ladies were played and scammed by same men blaming them. Der would be many ladies over 30 without husband so what. 24 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:05am On Dec 01, 2018 |
ednut1:Age doesn't determine happiness.... You have spoken well... 10 Likes |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Oreofepeters: 10:46am On Dec 01, 2018 |
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Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 10:47am On Dec 01, 2018 |
LADIES are finished again |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by VERDA: 11:00am On Dec 01, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: First of...I doubt he is advocating women settle for less, a woman need not settle for an irresponsible man because she is desperate to get married. Any man that does not respect women is not a real man...suffice it to say a lot of women make it hard for themselves to be respected given their attitudes,not generalizing of course. The problem with the whole reducing standards thing is not that it is bad to have standards but that a lot of ladies at their prime have very unrealistic standards which begin to reduce as they get older,more matured and understand life better. One cannot find the perfect person but certain things are important : 1) Good character 2) Kind heart 3) Willingness to accept when they are wrong and make corrections 4) Willingness to put in the effort to grow in every aspect of their life....psychological,emotional,financial. Every other thing will eventually fall into place provided both put in the effort. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 11:02am On Dec 01, 2018 |
Evablizin:my dear ow you |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 11:03am On Dec 01, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:feminist spotted low IQ 9 Likes |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Nobody: 11:05am On Dec 01, 2018 |
ednut1:how many ladies have you used and dump be sincere with yourself 2 Likes |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Missbee99: 11:06am On Dec 01, 2018 |
Not everyone wants to get married and thats okay. 7 Likes |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:07am On Dec 01, 2018 |
VERDA: You have a point but our standards can never be the same.Even men who are not worth respecting would be shouting for respect because they feel they are men so that your use of attitude as an excuse for women not being respected goes both ways Anyways nice submissions. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Ladies In The Late 30s Never Saw It Coming – Nigerian Man by ednut1(m): 11:07am On Dec 01, 2018 |
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