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Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Fitbillionaire: 11:11am On Dec 03, 2018 |
i want the poor and jobless ones that are fine and sabi Bleep. no woman marrying me is allowed to work or hustle for any reason 2 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Nobody: 11:16am On Dec 03, 2018 |
I love youu zaragal: 1 Like |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by nanizle(m): 11:16am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Dfavouredone: Irrelevant part. |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Franklyine: 11:17am On Dec 03, 2018 |
>: ! Your head de there, Dee9977: 1 Like |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by nanizle(m): 11:18am On Dec 03, 2018 |
franchasng: Brutal. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Nobody: 11:18am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Its like a two-edged sword. |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by marvin906(m): 11:19am On Dec 03, 2018 |
I don't get it are you going to get married for money or for love 2 Likes
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Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by wakes: 11:20am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Confession: I did not read it! |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Edojoma(m): 11:22am On Dec 03, 2018 |
lastclaire4: Just get to know where she works,,, n u will just know d range of her salary,,,, 1 Like |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by clive2u(m): 11:23am On Dec 03, 2018 |
is your company recruiting? 1 Like |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Bostonfarms: 11:25am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Let me tell you a very personal story,my friend was dating a girl from a very humble background ,mind you he's not super rich but OK for a young guy. He meet lady B from a rich family working with good family name very popular family,immediately they got married because he felt she's OK that was the beginning of he's problem, madam refused family members from coming to the house,control started,she wants to live a very high life,my friend been a stubborn guy could not take it,marriage pack up not up to 5months .The other lady got married is blessed with 3kids now,my guy is still there lamenting .Just a quick question what will happen if the wealth is no longer there after getting married to her and responsible falls on her? 10 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Blazestar: 11:26am On Dec 03, 2018 |
kimbraa:MAKE THAT TWO |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by eightsin(m): 11:29am On Dec 03, 2018 |
When I am ready for marriage which will be soon (God willing) I'd surely go for someone who earns as much as I do or even higher. |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by adslipps: 11:30am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Ur marriage will surely end in divorce. Mark my word!! 2 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by oglalasioux(m): 11:31am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Have it at the back of your heart that nature has never gifted any human being with two things at the same time. It gifts you one and takes another thing dear to you. You may find girls from well to do, strong backgrounds but don't ever expect to enjoy that marriage. The worst condition a man can find himself is to be branded a gold digger by his in laws. Even if you provide everything in your family people will still see you as the parasite. Girls from well to do homes don't have anything to whip them into line unlike the poor girl who will be submissive knowing you are her lifeline. You can marry a rich girl if you don't mind the shame that comes with it (your respect as the husband is almost zero). Or marry an average girl and savour the love and respect. One of the reasons Adolf Hitler didn't marry was because he was surrounded by women from rich and influential homes. He was looking for a girl from low humble beginnings because he wanted the joys of companionship. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by shege45: 11:32am On Dec 03, 2018 |
longrunner:u are a hero 3 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by sisisioge: 11:34am On Dec 03, 2018 |
We go all dey alright last last o. 5 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by okwabayi(m): 11:34am On Dec 03, 2018 |
When the desirable is not available, the available becomes- 2 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Xisnin(m): 11:37am On Dec 03, 2018 |
franchasng: Another irrelevant social media advice that will only confuse fools. If you are old enough to marry, you would have understood why men generally go for "broke" or low-income women. Even the OP clearly stated the reason in his post; "they are submissive". What your advice bore down to is: "hey Nigerian men, stop marrying submissive women". You now see why your advice won't work? 7 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by edunwanna: 11:38am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Mould the wife by yourself naa 6 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Xisnin(m): 11:40am On Dec 03, 2018 |
ZIMDRILL:You are right but he has a right to determine his specs in women because relationships are never equal. If he found a woman who can take care of her family on her own(just like he does), I don't think he would avoid her. |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by ahjerryboy1(m): 11:40am On Dec 03, 2018 |
I would advice to my marry a lady you love not the one from wealthy background simply because this can extreme affect you in the long run... make sure you choose wisely 1 Like |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Daeylar(f): 11:41am On Dec 03, 2018 |
This thread is so calm, so peaceful. Let op type the same thing but just put F on his moniker and switch genders in the story. They will use golddigger and wicked woman to run op out from this forum and use that as a stepping stone to start their usual insult of Nigerian women. So you guys do the same thing Nigerian women do (looking for a partner that is financially stable), but when women do it, it is called good digging, when men do, it's called being realistic. Nigerian men. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by tunjilana: 11:41am On Dec 03, 2018 |
My advise, don't focus on her family, focus on her...I understand what you want, focus on a woman who is entrepreneurial or doing well in her career. In the long run it is not her father's money that she will use to support the home infact most times those from rich homes end up being "Liabilities", cos she won't see the need to struggle and plan with you cos las las she go return to her papa house and also she will want to still demand u maintain the standard she has in her father's house, she might also want to be controlling, knowing fully well she has the support of her family when fighting you. Despite contributing nothing to the financial worth of the new family you have created. So the emphasis is do not marry a lazy, brain dead, entitled woman who is not making sense with her life regardless of the worth of her family. But marry the exact opposite of that regardless of the worth of her family. Some of those ladies from humble background who have broken through(I mean broken through properly oooo) and carrying weight already knows what it feels like self, they are often self driven and appreciative of your efforts and will make sacrifices to consolidate your(you and her) wealth 10 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Nobody: 11:42am On Dec 03, 2018 |
The truth of the matter is that 90percent of Nigerian ladies below 33yrs these days are useless. Sorry for being blunt, but its the truth. 5 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Daeylar(f): 11:43am On Dec 03, 2018 |
ZIMDRILL: Lol he can't see that In essence what op is saying is, If he were a girl he can't marry himself
What was his response? Anyways. Op no I don't think you're not being realistic. If that's the kind of lady you marry then that's what you want. But op please, what do you mean by "submissive" 2 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by Xisnin(m): 11:43am On Dec 03, 2018 |
zaragal:What you described above only happens to desperate and poor gold-diggers. The OP is not poor from his description and can take care of himself. This is actually a good thing, I believe violence should come with stiff punishment regardless of the victim's wealth. Why should it be okay to slap a poor man's daughter? 3 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by ibkayee(f): 11:44am On Dec 03, 2018 |
On top of all this OP also wants his dream wealthy, ‘upper échelon’ lady to be ‘submissive’ lol. Good luck 3 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by islandmoon: 11:44am On Dec 03, 2018 |
most ladies from rich home are not the best in most cases, run from slay queens who can not presently take care of her personal need, all you need to do is just to avoid those kind of ladies that think marriage is a free meal ticket, go for a educated , God fearing, visionary hard working girl from a good home and support her dream! she will respect and value you for life, its far beyond finance and money, think of respect, happy home and the future.. dont fall for packagers, not all those big girls are truly good for marriage, most na package and you dont want to have snacks for dinner every night ...you dont want to chase a fowl that lays golden egg into a deep hell. 4 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by trilobite: 11:45am On Dec 03, 2018 |
The poster has a valid point!! For those saying he should look at her character only, haven't you seen successful women who are well brought up? They are everywhere if you know where to look. Good virtues can be found in some successful women, don't let anybody deceive you otherwise. 7 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by dustydee: 11:46am On Dec 03, 2018 |
GodisGood4321:Marry a decent girl from a decent background and not necessarily from a well to do family. There are working girls, from rich families, that will make you live to a standard that you cannot sustain just to show off. Have a conversation with your woman and you guys should have an understanding so you don't burden each other after marriage. 6 Likes |
Re: I desire to Marry A girl from a well-to-do family But... by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:47am On Dec 03, 2018 |
Xisnin: he is not thinking through coming from well up family doesnt mean, she wont be taking care of her family, when you marry you only realise family dynamic when you in there from outside you admire and see glossy life 2 Likes |
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