Hello naiarlanders, I honestly suddenly became a bit suspicious over the love and care oozing from my girlfriend.

I have seen people posting there problems here on this forum and they get there advises from experienced and educated people with honest advice. It's my first post actually.

WARNING: This might be a lengthy one!

This girl has been my crush and dream even right from our teenage years, I was so tensed and engulfed with the quest to approach her even though she was all over me with her affectionate actions towards me, "Green light" I was a bit reluctant and hesitant at first maybe due to my nervousness or juvenile sentiment, it seems she knew it and then decided to take the lead role, oh yes! She approached me and I was scared, I was being paranoid just like any other teenager, I finally gave in to her proposals. That night she proposed love to me was the most happiest day of her life and I mean it, the unarguable evidence that can attest to this claims was written all over her. She kissed me! Oops.....

This lady romanced me to an extent that i could never imagine which then elevated me to cloud nine, Godamn it, she was a bomb and I never knew it until that prestigious day.

She was the perfect definition of beauty, very intelligent, this lady is extravagantly endowed with all feminine potential you can ever think of from a woman. She was tall, fair, I mean extremely fair, she was slim and curvy even though I never for once initialized an interest on physical looks, her's drives me crazy and her voice sends down a consolation stimulus down my spine when ever she speaks to me on phone or physically.


After so many romantic moment we had, she's just too good to my liking, she's a good cook, she's soft hearted, she's remorseful, supportive both financially and morally, I never said this huh? " Her dad is fucking super rich", Bleep me!

She will take me to hospital when I fall sick, she will settle the bills herself, she buy me clothes, she will take me out for dates, she will sing to my ears when I eventually seems moody, damn her voice is angelic and she knew it, she will credit my account even though I never asked for it cuz at first I made her realized that I'm ain't in a relationship with her for money or materialism, I have never for once demanded for sex from this girl, Gosh, she's a "Virgin" and with this I vowed never to deflower her even if she freely and willingly give it to me, she was sincere to me and for this I never cheated on this girl, I showed her love and care, I create time for her, could you imagine this girl has been acquainted with my siblings, especially my mom. Unknowingly to me where she got the numbers from cuz I can't remember given it to her myself. She tells me her every secret even if I never asked for them, and the last was the recent one she did, "Paying my house rent" even though I rejected, she insisted. She's in her third year in the university, I'm also a student as well though in my finials, she told me I'm the only one and I never for once doubted her, sometimes I become too weak to ascertain the reasons for all this.

Please Nairalanders here is where I need your advise. Please comment on this, its important to me as it my life decision, I don't want to make a regrettable mistake

Looking at what is happening this days as its very had to find a loving and genuine girl, I felt that when one comes across any, we should hold them with care and high prestige.

I never for one day made this girl to regret falling in love with me. This I vowed to myself and I'm living for it! Women like this are priceless!

Now, having said all this, I'm beginning to think of making this girl my wife, yes i want to make a family with her! do you think I'm being scammed or blinded by her love? Could this be pretence? Even if I knew it from my heart that she truly and genuinely loves me, can this continue for ever? I don't know what she sees in me but all I know is that she loves me not even because she approached me, but because she has given me every reason to love her, believe her, and confide in her.

I think you are sick

Oyindidi:
I think you are sick

Oyin please be reading first na, y abusing d OP he dey talk him plight...

Take ur time and read a post. Abeg.

@OP derz possibility you are her first guy dats y shes channeled so much love on u ds way. It will continue ds way if you are nt clouded by her money. Don't be her toy. Atimes reject monetary gifts from her. Dnt be controlled by her too. Sometimes hurt her intentionally.

Wen she sees d manliness in you it ll gv her more attraction to you.
Dats my own advice

ChopBellefull:

Oyin please be reading first na, y abusing d OP he dey talk him plight...

Take ur time and read a post. Abeg.

The girl love the op , watin be him problem?

Oyindidi:
The girl love the op , watin be him problem?

So u no knw say e get as girl go love u, u sef go dey fear.. I understand him as a guy

ChopBellefull:


So u no knw say e get as girl go love u, u sef go dey fear.. I understand him as a guy

If them no love una, we no go hear word

Oyindidi:
I think you are sick

Oh jeez, easy man! In what way do I sound sick in my post I posted it for people to advice me, pretenders are every where. I think I did nothing wrong by sharing my plight for advice

Thanks anyway for your comment

Op am not here for your big grammars

Can u help me out this lady's phone number?


Your too young to be dating someone like her

Elders like me only knows the secret

Genesiszero:



Oh jeez, easy man! In what way do I sound sick in my post I posted it for people to advice me, pretenders are every where. I think I did nothing wrong by sharing my plight for advice

Thanks anyway for your comment

Sorry, I thought you're a grown up.

Homeboiy:
Op am not here for your big grammars


Can u help me out this lady's phone number?



Your too young to be dating someone like her


Elders like me only knows the secret

Oyindidi:
If them no love una, we no go hear word

Same tin wit una na, if man get small preek una go complain, if una see big preek una go still complain

ChopBellefull:

Oyin please be reading first na, y abusing d OP he dey talk him plight...

Take ur time and read a post. Abeg.

@OP derz possibility you are her first guy dats y shes channeled so much love on u ds way. It will continue ds way if you are nt clouded by her money. Don't be her toy. Atimes reject monetary gifts from her. Dnt be controlled by her too. Sometimes hurt her intentionally.

Wen she sees d manliness in you it ll gv her more attraction to you.
Dats my own advice

Oh my God, you're a bomb! I'm happy for your intelligent advise, I'll test her or hurt her intentionally just like you have said in order to see how she will react, and for the gift I sometime get tired of them, when I reject it she'll start crying and look so sympathetic. I'll work on that also!

YES "I'm her first guy"


I appreciate your comment.... Thanks a lot

ChopBellefull:


So u no knw say e get as girl go love u, u sef go dey fear.. I understand him as a guy

Thank you so much brother, it seems you're a bit experienced.........

ChopBellefull:

Same tin wit una na, if man get small preek una go complain, if una see big preek una go still complain

Yeye

how are you doing pretty?

Homeboiy:
Op am not here for your big grammars


Can u help me out this lady's phone number?



Your too young to be dating someone like her


Elders like me only knows the secret

Hahahhaha......you're very funny bro, thank you so much..... I'm just being a bit paranoid and logical in my endeavors........ Heart break everywhere this days..... One need to be careful this days.

God bless you for me! Thanks

Oyindidi:
Yeye

Oyin oya teh me small in my ear, small preek or big one which one u prefer?

Genesiszero:



Oh my God, you're a bomb! I'm happy for your intelligent advise, I'll test her or hurt her intentionally just like you have said in order to see how she will react, and for the gift I sometime get tired of them, when I reject it she'll start crying and look so sympathetic. I'll work on that also!

YES "I'm her first guy"

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I appreciate your comment.... Thanks a lot

Uwc brother... Buh her eye go still tear soon her, especially by her friends.. By then she ll knw dat deek has different sizes.

Oyindidi:
Sorry, I thought you're a grown up.

Of course I'm grown up nigga! A man talking about marriage is ain't longer a kid........ Thank you so much.

One love!!!

Baba pray it could be good it could be bad. Morever looking at it she dosent have anything to lose but u do. She can use her money to get who she can supress and love her but she didnt chose you..

just pray for guidance.. I admire you actually u arent blinded by her money.

ChopBellefull:


Oyin oya teh me small in my ear, small preek or big one which one u prefer?

Genesiszero:


Of course I'm grown up nigga! A man talking about marriage is ain't longer a kid........ Thank you so much.

One love!!!

She truly loves you.

Oyindidi:

I didn't see any answer in dat emoji na oyin...

ChopBellefull:


I didn't see any answer in dat emoji na oyin...

I'm frowning at your question

Oyindidi:
I'm frowning at your question

Exactly, frowning isn't an answer na.. Issa simple question. Anyway i can see us creating a thread soon.. U knw watta mean

Genesiszero:



Oh my God, you're a bomb! I'm happy for your intelligent advise, I'll test her or hurt her intentionally just like you have said in order to see how she will react, and for the gift I sometime get tired of them, when I reject it she'll start crying and look so sympathetic. I'll work on that also!

YES "I'm her first guy"


I appreciate your comment.... Thanks a lot

Men, very confused creatures. You love them - war. You don't love them- wahala
Gift them- wahala.
Beg them - Wahala

Wetin una want?

ChopBellefull:


Exactly, frowning isn't an answer na.. Issa simple question. Anyway i can see us creating a thread soon.. U knw watta mean

On what? I don't know what you're talking about

Ray97:
Baba pray it could be good it could be bad. Morever looking at it she dosent have anything to lose but u do. She can use her money to get who she can supress and love her but she didnt chose you..

just pray for guidance.. I admire you actually u arent blinded by her money.

Thanks a lot for your comment...... I don't think she can suppress a man, although human are unpredictable... But I think she loves me. And as for her money, she's the one Even forcing it on me!

I appreciate it......

Oyindidi:
On what? I don't know what you're talking about

Collabo ni... Ur moniker looks like u r yoruba. Shey omo yoruba ni e?

ChopBellefull:


Collabo ni... Ur moniker looks like u r yoruba. Shey omo yoruba ni e?

Collabo as how? No, I'm not

ChopBellefull:

Oyin please be reading first na, y abusing d OP he dey talk him plight...

Take ur time and read a post. Abeg.

@OP derz possibility you are her first guy dats y shes channeled so much love on u ds way. It will continue ds way if you are nt clouded by her money. Don't be her toy. Atimes reject monetary gifts from her. Dnt be controlled by her too. Sometimes hurt her intentionally.

Wen she sees d manliness in you it ll gv her more attraction to you.
Dats my own advice

Some guys are just confused. After all d love and care, he is still asking this question. Make i pass b4 i vex 4 una two