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Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Inspectorsuga22(m): 10:51pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
kongolo: Don't mind those a$$licking half men cheering her up in her $tupidity.... 2 Likes |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 10:52pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
BMaretraitors:don't worry the fun you are looking for,you will surely get it. |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by escapefromusa(f): 10:55pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
BMaretraitors: In the United States (the capital of freedom) the black man or woman is traumatized, this is not a problem you can learn by reading books or watching a movie. You need to walk on the streets in their ghetto's, visit the schools and hospitals in black-american dominated neighborhoods, and the prison yard or county jails if you so can. You obviously have little knowledge of what you speak of and are simply using your "educated by the television" mentality to reach a conclusion regarding "the black man". You need to learn the difference between a black man and an african man these are two distinct entities or subjects with different ideologies, experiences and belief systems. This will help next time you vilify the black man or african man. So, you state it equivocally at the beginning of your self serving thesis. I have nothing against you because I have met many like you, male and female who hate the black man and african man even though they are either black or african. However, you need to realize the U.S, the college educated black man (black american) - is more likely to marry a mullato or white woman than a black woman. And African men (Nigerian men) in the US or Europe are increasingly settling with white women despite the cultural differences and high divorce rates. Alas, it actually is not the black man or african man at a disadvantage ... it is the black woman. 2 Likes |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 11:02pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
But I have to say there is some truth to this story, even my own brother is ashamed of being black, he likes only white women and is even married to one now. When we were younger, he looked at white people like they are some kind of gods. The funny thing is that back then before he got married, he would always try to make me jealous with all those skinny flat ass white women he used to sleep with but little did he know, I dont even like white women, I prefer Black women. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by hayoholla(m): 11:18pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
BlaqCoffee109: Yea she was, but I hope you read where she touched on the issue of chauvinism and misogynistic trait in the black man ( I am not arguing for or against any) and moreso, the issue she raised is broad, there are so many things involved. Black Feminist wannabes and black man's idlesness. Its a mental condition like you said but not be entirely the black man's fault. If you read her post very well, you will notice her it's subtly directed on the black man, some claim whicg are true. But the fault should be shared across board ma'am. |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Wallade(m): 11:22pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
BMaretraitors: The chicken will still come home to roost, las-last |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Wallade(m): 11:24pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
mhd5757: Your brother has a complex problem |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by hayoholla(m): 11:27pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
One part which I strongly agree with the OP is the inferiority complex being excessively displayed by the black albeit we africans. But I will say the media has done more damage than good to promote westernisation, although before the advent of mainstream media, this has been happening. Why this is happening, I dont know. But one thing I know is we have been subjected to mental slavery for too long that we have developed a way of life around it, we now consider it normal! When it is white, it is alright; but when it is black its your back against the wall. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by 2buffagain(m): 1:23am On Dec 06, 2018 |
BlaqCoffee109: Duuh. By her own admission. |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by ERCROSS(m): 2:17am On Dec 06, 2018 |
BMaretraitors: I think, by now, you should have realized you have no point. You almost made sense until you start generalizing. If you have something going for you, you may not have the time to type up this bull shit. Black men don't rule. I guess Obama was white when he was the president of a white dominated nation. Women are not expected to till the land. What kinda bleeped up mentality is this. You're obviously a failed feminist wannabe 1 Like |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by khiaa(f): 3:48am On Dec 06, 2018 |
2buffagain: You can't confuse Khiaa with Kimbraa, but I'll bite. I love and support black men from the core of my body, African American men, Afro-Latino men but I hold back from most of the Carribean and ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 8:28am On Dec 06, 2018 |
2buffagain:whatever mehn ( can Seun and his team put the rolling eyes already?). 2buffagain I have this strong feeling that with your antipathy towards Nigerian women, you really can't end up with a white woman. Some men like you always and in most cases can't do without a Black Woman ![]() |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 8:30am On Dec 06, 2018 |
khiaa:True 1 Like |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 8:36am On Dec 06, 2018 |
hayoholla:So this important message should be reduced to blame sharing? Do please get the import of her message...we do see the sting effect of this fact...let's do away with our egos for a minute and see what it is the reflection of the black man in the mirror...#jussayin' 1 Like |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Eberechi24(f): 8:53am On Dec 06, 2018 |
Brilliant submission. Let's keep gender bias aside, X-ray this message objectively. There is some truth in it. I wish our men can see it and work on it. 1 Like |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by ImaIma1(f): 9:55am On Dec 06, 2018 |
Interesting and brutal, but true. Sometimes I actually sit and wonder why our men especially on this forum are so consumed by hatred bitterness and cannot resist the urge to bash women all the time. It is probably their way of lashing out due to the bad situation of the country and somehow women are easy targets of their wrath especially if they have been dumped or or let down by one or two of them. Guys, why not focus on the positive. It is really getting tiring opening NL and seeing many sulky and bitter threads dedicated to us. I pray you all outgrow it and learn that complaining and murmuring changes nothing. 1 Like |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by 2buffagain(m): 10:03pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
BlaqCoffee109: I don't find white women attractive. (or other nationalities tbh) Ofcourse I'll be ending up with a black woman. Ain't nothing sexier than a cute black woman....that has sense. I know a few of them that do....and a lot of them that don't. |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 10:10pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
2buffagain:Fixed. We black women have all the senses the others lack ![]() |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 10:13pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
2buffagain:...and I know alot of women you'll be quick to regard as having "no sense" who can hold a grown man like you down... isn't that the irony of life? ![]() |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by 2buffagain(m): 10:16pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
BlaqCoffee109: Might just be a spiritual thing. Either way, the darker the berry...and the thicker the thighs....the sexier. I've always been team darkskinAndThick |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by 2buffagain(m): 10:18pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
BlaqCoffee109: Then that would mean she has sense. A man like me cannot be held down simply because of kpekus. That shyt is common af. |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 10:21pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
2buffagain:no comment |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 10:26pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
2buffagain:what kind of man are you? KpeWhat? Who ever said holding a man down was limited to between the sheets? Trust me, a man like You is easy to handle... |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by kunleweb: 10:37pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
BlaqCoffee109: Babe are you single? |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 10:40pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
kunleweb: ![]() |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by kunleweb: 10:42pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
BlaqCoffee109: Argh I can.relate. too many potentials and too much hesitation from brothers. I refuse to be number 70. Runs off. Bye bye |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 10:45pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
kunleweb: ![]() |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 11:14pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
2buffagain:the thicker the thighs and the bigger the ukwu |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 12:01am On Dec 07, 2018 |
ADHD here take control, do your thing. |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by Nobody: 1:08am On Dec 07, 2018 |
BMaretraitors:But y'all fight for equal rights, equal pay at jobs... Equality , equality !! Now women are not expected to till... What happened to equality ![]() Now i know that 80% of u females on NL are just men haters pure & simple.. The last 2 paragraphs got me laughing tho... Maybe ur just not into Black men or ur joking ![]() |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by khiaa(f): 1:39am On Dec 07, 2018 |
[quote author=escapefromusa post=73588248] In the United States (the capital of freedom) the black man or woman is traumatized, this is not a problem you can learn by reading books or watching a movie. You need to walk on the streets in their ghetto's, visit the schools and hospitals in black-american dominated neighborhoods, and the prison yard or county jails if you so can. You obviously have little knowledge of what you speak of and are simply using your "educated by the television" mentality to reach a conclusion regarding "the black man". You need to learn the difference between a black man and an african man these are two distinct entities or subjects with different ideologies, experiences and belief systems. This will help next time you vilify the black man or african man. So, you state it equivocally at the beginning of your self serving thesis. I have nothing against you because I have met many like you, male and female who hate the black man and african man even though they are either black or african. However, you need to realize the U.S, the college educated black man (black american) - is more likely to marry a mullato or white woman than a black woman. And African men (Nigerian men) in the US or Europe are increasingly settling with white women despite the cultural differences and high divorce rates. Alas, it actually is not the black man or african man at a disadvantage ... it is the black woman.[/quote] ****************************************************************************************************************** Let us discuss some of your points, shall we? ![]() 1. You people need to stop this crap about black Americans ghettos, what about your villages, schools, and prisons? There are black American suburbs and higher class, but for some reason, you always find a reason to overlook those Black American neighborhoods. so stop with the stereotyping. 2. An African man is a black man, just like a Swedish man is a white man. 3. The prisons are filled with black men including Africans, not because they all are guilty of any crime other than being black. It is coming out every day about the police and judges framing black men for things they did not do. A police chief in Florida just got sentenced to three years in prison for framing unsolved crimes on black men, along with his three officers. He went from solving less than 50 in a few years to 200 in one year. That's 200 black men wrongfully imprisoned. I know you heard about the judge who got sentenced to twenty years in prison for doing the exact same things. Prison is a business and slavery only ended on paper. 4. That comment that you wrote about college educated black men marrying mulato and white women is so wrong. The statistics show that 88% of Black American men marry black American women. As far as the college thing goes, it's black American women who are finding it difficult to find an educated Black American man because there are more educated women than there are men. The interracial marriages in Black America are low. You may be right about African men with white women tho, I'm pretty sure you are because that sounds about right, also your women are marrying white men as well. |
Re: Black And Nigerian Men Are My Last Choice Of Men by escapefromusa(f): 8:03am On Dec 07, 2018 |
khiaa: Listen princess, I am sure in principle we share similar views but communication has remained a challenging activity for humanity - hopefully someday we shall reach perfection. From the points you raised, it all boils down to the disproportionate opportunities the black man has access to in the western world. I mentioned the black man and African man are distinct. My position is based on a simple fact, and people fail to see this. You also suffer from this bias, as you have demonstrated in “point 2” of your post. A man is not African because his skin is black and a man is not black because he is African. Same way a man is not an Israeli because he is a Jew. The instant you understand this principle, you free yourself from bias and you take an extra second to think about racism, systemic discrimination and women rights (not feminism). Regarding “point 4” there is some truth to what your saying, nonetheless the eligible black men – the top tier marry white women. And black male college kids, are increasingly choosing white girls as partners. Statistics are often averages – and averages are generalizations. The new generation of black men choose white women whenever possible. Regarding “point 4”, we are on the same page here. The black man in the west is traumatized. I don’t see why anyone would get up in the morning, surf into nairaland and start vilifying the black man like racists. In the U.S you cannot get a descent job with a criminal record, the black man has the most criminal records. Why they have such high numbers is a phd thesis on its own. I have always preferred high value African women. I used to have reservations in regards to their enhancement like hair extensions, make up and other stuff; but I thought deeply about it and I found there is nothing wrong with a women enhancing or improving her looks. I mean how does she attract a man or woman and keep them interested over a period of time. The enhancements allow women vary their looks and enkindle’s a man or woman’s interest. Wait … wait just shutup mr. just zip it. (I’m talking too much) |
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