According to recent surveys, 44% of married couples believe that fighting more than once a week helps them to keep healthy and productive relationships for a long time. In fact, couples who argue often, but always in a peaceful manner, are more likely to stay together because, despite all the small misunderstandings, they know that their love is true and sincere.

9. Misunderstanding is a sign of a mature relationship.

Constant conflict avoidance is definitely not the best way to build a long-lasting relationship. On the contrary, if you’re able to speak your mind clearly when arguing, it means that you’re ready to take your love to another level.

Mature people don’t resort to personal attacks or yelling either. Instead, they always try to reach a compromise and improve their relationship with the help of a healthy argument.

8. Quarreling means you care.

Of course, it would be much easier to just turn a blind eye to some of your partner’s habits that drive you crazy. But the fact that you’re ready to withstand all the pain and discomfort of fighting to get a better result in the future may be a sign of your true love.

In other words, arguing means that you’re more committed. Just remember — how often do you fight with your parents or your siblings? The same goes for your partner: if you argue a lot and always get over it, this means that you see the bigger picture with your loved one.

7. Misunderstanding makes your communication easier.

In order to create trust in your relationship, you shouldn’t keep quiet. On the contrary, it’s necessary to approach your partner with an open mind, taking responsibility for your actions and listening to each other carefully.

Since arguing is one of the major forms of communication and the most honest one, it really helps to accelerate the feelings of intimacy, trust, and connection and to teach your partner how to communicate with you in a more productive way.

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Including punching her like a punching bag like seriously.

It’s always important to remember that there’s a difference between “good fighting” and “bad fighting” and only the good one can be beneficial for your relationship.

Here are some pieces of advice you should follow to turn your argument into a productive discussion:

Respect each other. You’re both human beings with your own weak points, so don’t hit below the belt and put pressure on the things that might irreversibly hurt your partner.

Apologize. If you were wrong, admit it and say that you’re sorry. This small action won’t make you feel weaker. On the contrary, it will show your partner that you still care about them.

Stick to the point. Never bring up the experience of your previous relationships or your partner’s mistakes that you’ve already let go. You have only one point to talk about, so be precise.

Don’t appeal to third parties. Bringing your friends or relatives into your argument may make your partner feel isolated and disrespected, so do your best to solve the problem on your own before addressing anyone.

If you say quarrel or misunderstanding,I'll agree cos they are probably finding out and correcting their ills...not fighting biko...where aggresive negative physical contact is involved.

Yuceeluv:
If you say quarrel or misunderstanding,I'll agree cos they are probably finding out and correcting their ills...not fighting biko...where aggresive negative physical contact is involved.

thanks.. topic title adjusted

Rextizzle:
Including punching her like a punching bag like seriously.

I didn't mean that, topic title and content has been adjusted already.

pakk:

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Earthbound:
What manner of fuckery is this?

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