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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by AdeMavrodi: 8:36am On Dec 08, 2018
I hv one girl that have been chasing for long. Trust me now that am a little loaded she's been acting normal now buy am just bidding my time to hit the cookie jar. God knows that No guy worth his salt wait that long for a girl with only beauty to offer. So if it's only beauty u hv to offer bliv me even if he marries u hell is awaiting u. He's gonna always rmba and treat u with disdain.

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by KevMitnick: 8:38am On Dec 08, 2018
Don't date a guy you rejected for 5 years pls. He's on a revenge mission, he'll make your life a living hell even if he has to marry you to do it. No one pursues a vendetta like a person who has been scorned. 5 years is too long a time, the dude is in psycho mode right now, he'll fvck u up seriously and wash his hands if he is a good psycho, but a real psycho will marry you and subdue you for the rest of your life. I advise you to wait for someone else and stop having sex in your relationships.

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Nobody: 8:38am On Dec 08, 2018
Look, my sis, I can't type much cos I'm doing it on my mobile. I see a lot of immature minds talking trash on the first page, so I'll go straight to the point.

Love does not fade. It may slow or simmer down after a while, but the fire still flickers somewhere in the deepest recess of the mind. People who truly love do so cos of your personality, not really the physical attributes (they matter but not number one). They're not after what they can enjoy being with you, but how both of you can be happier being together.

On the other hand, artificial love, which is actually infatuation and lust, don't last because the person likes you based on physical attributes (face, breast and backside and willingness to go down easily). They may like you for character, but what they can enjoy from you is priority for them. Most boys today are in this category.

If you married a man, would you stop loving him cos he's been away for 5 years? Yes, if it was lust or infatuation. But no, if it was genuine love. It would still be there, but reduced. When the person is now with you, the flame will go up again.

My point? Give it a chance. Do your own due diligence before committing. I've given a generic case scenario, but humans can be complicated too. So make sure he has a good heart.

Good luck. cool

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Odkosh: 8:39am On Dec 08, 2018
AryEmber:
Go about it the right way. Date him, don't sleep with him till he put a finger on it.
What is this one saying?
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Lahmeda(m): 8:40am On Dec 08, 2018
U nailed it bro. Fear woman!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by bonnyhope: 8:41am On Dec 08, 2018
IamD18:
You don't want to be used. How? Are you a virgin? Make una try dey get sense Abeg.

You have been having sex with your ex for five years without any thing to boast of from the relationship, and here you are, talking about being used.

Biko! Fire down with him, if he ends up as your husband, your luck. But if he fvcks, treat you like trash and dump you for refusing him then, you endure and vamoose.

Relationship na luck. No scripts for it.

you said my mind, some girls even after dating many guys and slept with them, they will still tell you that they dont want to be used as if they are virgin....rubbish

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by carter009(m): 8:41am On Dec 08, 2018
Lol, I know your ugly, I bet you upload your pic, let everyone see how ugly you are...
Oyindidi:
That blackboard you wear for face dey stop your reasoning abi? I talk to you?

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Lahmeda(m): 8:44am On Dec 08, 2018
[shiooquote author=Odkosh post=73652472]What is this one saying?[/quote]
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by juniorstar(m): 8:44am On Dec 08, 2018
Red alert, dont do it. You can be friends.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Lomprico2: 8:44am On Dec 08, 2018
Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

Follow your head!!
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Ikpongiton: 8:45am On Dec 08, 2018
AryEmber:
Go about it the right way. Date him, don't sleep with him till he put a finger on it.
because she is a virgin,abi?

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Woleleye(m): 8:46am On Dec 08, 2018
Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

You are fortunate that this man is still interested after 5 years of rejection. You better accept him and try your luck. You need to study him and be sure that he is truly interested. Though this may not be really certified. Behave well and if you realise that you are compatible, stitch to him. I wish u best of luck

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by AryEmber(f): 8:47am On Dec 08, 2018
Ikpongiton:
because she is a virgin,abi?
How would I know. Why don't you ask her?
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by buzodyke: 8:47am On Dec 08, 2018
Okafors law loading......
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Uyi168: 8:47am On Dec 08, 2018
highqueen:
If he's serious with You, then fine but first of all, don't ever have sex with him till he does some marriage rights.


He should visit your parents first since he is all for marriage not friendship.
...
Babes sha...
After years of marathon sex with her ex and many others,was there to loose again??..
Abi na now she wan form virgin ni

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Ikem11(m): 8:49am On Dec 08, 2018
Ọ dịkwa very risky.

First of all, when u rejected this guy was the reason of rejection made known to him in a polite way?

2. Did u stay good friends with him after rejecting him of u just doing imakwa ndị anyị bụ?

3. For 5 years he kept coming or he ignored u and appeared 5yrs later and tell u, "hey girl am rich now let's get married? "

4. You naming he is rich now gives me little impression why u rejected him cos being rich or poor shouldn't be mentioned if it wasn't an issue

I can go on and on reasons why u can't and shouldn't try dating or marrying him. But first if u can answer those questions above then I will give u honest answer and future gona look like.

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by silento(m): 8:50am On Dec 08, 2018
If u marry him u will suffer for all those year

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by kunleweb: 8:54am On Dec 08, 2018
IamD18:
You don't want to be used. How? Are you a virgin? Make una try dey get sense Abeg.

You have been having sex with your ex for five years without any thing to boast of from the relationship, and here you are, talking about being used.

Biko! Fire down with him, if he ends up as your husband, your luck. But if he fvcks, treat you like trash and dump you for refusing him then, you endure and vamoose.

Relationship na luck. No scripts for it.


This guy always blow my brain hot. What wisdom
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Nobody: 8:57am On Dec 08, 2018
Saffi:
Was it her fault that she was in a relationship and the guy was asking her out? Now she’s single, she’s ready to give the guy a chance, what’s the issue please?

Please don’t be a stero typical airhead, please try to use your brain. Just a lil lil bitttt
you are right.....but won't rush marrying her... I will date her for the number of years her ex dated her before any other thing..... after all her ex dumped her

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by leonard002(m): 8:57am On Dec 08, 2018
What's giving you the impression that you'll be used or is there anything else you need to tell us?

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by humilitypays(m): 8:57am On Dec 08, 2018
Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated
Give him a chance, whether he uses and dumps u is not a problem, just give him a chance. He may have come back to truly marry u, he may have come back to also mark register in your downstairs and move on like your ex, but it doesn't matter, just do your best and give him a chance.

Talking about him using u, like someone already said, u aren't a virgin so forget about using u cos u are not a virgin OK.

Relationship and marriage are a game of luck, it can work for you, it may not work for u.

In summary, we can't tell what the guy has in mind cos we all are different, give him a chance and whatever the outcome is, don't kill yourself, life goes on

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by tunwumi: 9:00am On Dec 08, 2018
Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated


It is not bad to give him a change. But what has changed in him that make him suitable now? If it's the marriage stuff please think twice. If it is financial stability think trice. If its maturity think and think again. If its marriage pressure think with your Brian not your sex organ please.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by kunleweb: 9:00am On Dec 08, 2018
samysmoothfresh:


my brother i tire o.


After 5yrs of multiple sex with ex and maybe 2yrs of freelance sex and one night stands when she dey single, she still dey talk about using.

wetin dem wan use again?


grin IamD18 Dandeeboss and samyfreshsmooth who are these three guys please. These guys burst my brains out

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by kunle75(m): 9:00am On Dec 08, 2018
Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated


He will use you if you yield to him and still leave your sorry ass

He only come back to show you that he's made it,trust me you will loose big time.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Yankiss(m): 9:01am On Dec 08, 2018
Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated
I do not understand what u are actually asking us. U can only be used if u allow it. Search ur mind. If u love him, give him a chance to prove his own love too. Don't submit to any intimacy until wedding night. Thank you.

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Akinkunmi69(m): 9:02am On Dec 08, 2018
Dandy52:
Marry person wey no gree date me years ago I dey craze?
LMAO
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:02am On Dec 08, 2018
kunleweb:



grin IamD18 Dandeeboss and samyfreshsmooth who are these three guys please. These guys burst my brains out
gringringrin
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by kunleweb: 9:02am On Dec 08, 2018
Oyindidi:
Most of the guys above talk like kids. Someone seek your opinion, you start attacking her instead of telling her your opinion. Small boys don hijack nairaland


I disagree. You're playing the gender card

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Oyindidi(f): 9:04am On Dec 08, 2018
kunleweb:



I disagree. You're playing the gender card
Which gender card oga?

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by walexy06(m): 9:04am On Dec 08, 2018
Let's even talk about dating her first bfor talking about marrying her. There's this perception we have about those kind. I hit it once I lose interest (in Eddie Murphy 's voice)
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by kunleweb: 9:08am On Dec 08, 2018
Oyindidi:
Which gender card oga?


Why didnt she see the suitability in him over the othwr brother five years back? You know the truth Ndidi its too early. The first thing lovers look out.in there other party should be the future . if she looked well before she would have seen the future in him iver the other guy. She's using the guy

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Jonegonu: 9:09am On Dec 08, 2018
My advice for you not to marry him, reason because you don't love him.

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