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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Kinzeyfranks(m): 3:53pm On Dec 08, 2018
It's either he is a fool or he is planning to get you screwed. See you really need to be careful with him o.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Kinzeyfranks(m): 3:54pm On Dec 08, 2018
Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Kinzeyfranks(m): 3:57pm On Dec 08, 2018
Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated
Give him a chance but you need to be careful maka adiamama Onitsha gwara Obosi.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by rhames(m): 4:03pm On Dec 08, 2018
Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

Follow your heart girl.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by paddyofboss(m): 4:49pm On Dec 08, 2018
samysmoothfresh:


this girl is so rude, aggressive, ill-mannered and violent!!! undecided undecided
She doesn't have d sense she Iis advocating for others
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by LaExpert: 5:07pm On Dec 08, 2018
Realhommie:
You don't seem to get it, your argument doesn't hold any weight in this discourse.

Now lemme ask, where's her relationship with the supposed ex now? No one here has said she should have been involved with both (that's what you meant by 'double date'?), she made her choice which is sticking with the ex.. But if this guy wasn't good enough for her then what has changed after 5years? What didn't she see in him then that she sees now? Do you now see why a lot of the guys you earlier quoted as being immature hold the opinions they do? You can take it anywhere but know that they aren't far from the truth. The truth is never going to be appealing or pleasant to the ears.

If she was diligent and had her priorities right she wouldn't be in this quagmire she currently finds herself. I wouldn't advice her to date him as he may be on a vendetta but then what do i know, you may never truly find out his mission.

Let her just be careful, whatever she decides, it's her cross so let her carry it.

You don't expect her to date all the guy she likes at the same time. It wouldn't even have made sense if she did leave her bf for this dude even if she liked him then.

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Realhommie(m): 6:12pm On Dec 08, 2018
LaExpert:


You don't expect her to date all the guy she likes at the same time. It wouldn't even have made sense if she did leave her bf for this dude even if she liked him then.

This same lady has complained bout her then bf in some threads before.. True she can't date all the guys she likes, none of us can but if she at a point was concerned bout goings on with her ex to the point of seeking opinions via NL then obviously there were red flags. That's what i meant by saying she wasn't diligent and didn't have her priorities right else she would have seen right through her ex that the relationship was going nowhere.

Now tell me it wouldn't have made sense still to go with this new guy then?? She should have given him a chance by dating him. I said "DATE" and not a full blown intimate/romantic relationship. I know that there are no guarantees, sometimes sh1t don't turn out how we expect but we just have to do our lil bits.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by virago(f): 7:01pm On Dec 08, 2018
tikkykay:
Pray abt it. That way...You won't be misled


Is she supposed to see a vision or something
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by ponti93(m): 7:02pm On Dec 08, 2018
You mean it took you more than five years to consider a guy that has been chasing you for that long... Damn... You are extremely selfish... And the guy is either madly in love living in hope or extremely foolish... You are now thinking of accepting because you are at the losing end and its convenient for you... If he was not good enough for you 5yrs ago...pack your ass one side and leave the poor boy alone
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by tikkykay: 7:56pm On Dec 08, 2018
virago:



Is she supposed to see a vision or something
She doesn't have to see a vision. God answers. He could reveal the guy's person to her. Nothing is impossible with God. If she takes it serious, she will get an answer.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by lordtim001(m): 8:34pm On Dec 08, 2018
But Nigerians can vote someone that was a head of State before, but they have the mind to reject someone that refused their shots years ago cheesy
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Ikpongiton: 7:30am On Dec 09, 2018
AryEmber:
I guess my advice is on point then, that way, he won't get to shag a poluted septic tank.
you sound like a macho woman or what american would call a stud, but in nigeria,you are an agbero.but i like your swag,cos with you as a wife,no one will dare your husband
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by AryEmber(f): 7:53am On Dec 09, 2018
Ikpongiton:
you sound like a macho woman or what american would call a stud, but in nigeria,you are an agbero.but i like your swag,cos with you as a wife,no one will dare your husband
You wish. I'm done with this topic anyway, you keep your views, I keep mine.

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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by tejiri4(m): 8:28am On Dec 09, 2018
This gurl has been sponsoring her ex on music. I don't think she is a gold digger. My advice to her is to first look inward if she loves this guy and if she do then she can give him a chance.


U guys should not be quick to judge , look up her thread for the whole story
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Canadianbreed01(m): 10:08am On Dec 09, 2018
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated[/quote]



I will personally use you.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Banter1(m): 8:15pm On Dec 10, 2018
highcollide:
you're destined to be husband and wife with a gold-digging ashawo. Amen!!!
May God soften your heart and forgive you Amen.
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Nobody: 10:36pm On Dec 18, 2018
Many of the guys in this thread are very stupid and slow Can you illiterate fools read and actually comprehend that she didn't want to cheat on her bf at the time, which is a sensible reason and that's why she wasn't interested? Look at these incel bitter beta males grin grin grin, circle jerking themselves over the prospect of this woman getting some type of comeuppance for the crime of not wanting to cheat (ironically these same fools would come and disturb nl with their one enraged rants about women who cheat on men, which still is wrong). Ndi ara grin grin
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Nobody: 10:39pm On Dec 18, 2018
WiseStarr:

What could have been your excuse back then,you have no point,my dear
Were you there for him when he needs you? here you are cooking up stories for us,So you think of considering him when he's making some money right,You too want to fella like anikulapo



You should put yourself in his shoes and think about the consequences before you step into it,you don't know how he got his money,so you think deeply before taking any action.I think yourself esteem is too low,You sound like a Gold digger




Never underrate anyone cos,No oneknows tomorrow

You're insane. Barking mad. She didn't owe and even today doesn't owe a man who's not her boyfriend/spouse anything, just as he didn't owe her anything too. You sound like you're trying to vicariously live through the ex, still pained over one small girl who rejected you in ss1 grin grin grin
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Dec 18, 2018
Now to answer the op. At first I was going to say give it a shot but seeing these mad men here makes me worried that guy may have the same evil intentions so my advice to you is to reject his proposal. If you choose to accept that's fine but please definitely be cautious and (if you're religious) pray over the matter, figure out what's his current personality, interrogate him, his friends and family over his intentions with you and why he's coming back after five years and read up on what are typical red flags that pop up at the start of relationships and take them very seriously if you notice them. God bless
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Dec 18, 2018
Canadianbreed01:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated



I will personally use you.

You will meet your match who'll pick her teeth with your destiny�
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by WiseStarr(m): 12:38pm On Dec 19, 2018
NandiIfeoma:


You're insane. Barking mad. She didn't owe and even today doesn't owe a man who's not her boyfriend/spouse anything, just as he didn't owe her anything too. You sound like you're trying to vicariously live through the ex, still pained over one small girl who rejected you in ss1 grin grin grin
I laughed so deep when i read your text.....Idiot girl
You deserve being a freedom fighter
Blood sister to the OP���
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Dec 19, 2018
WiseStarr:

I laughed so deep when i read your text.....Idiot girl
You deserve being a freedom fighter
Blood sister to the OP���


The same way your parents should've laughed at the idea of giving a test tube baby like you an education. I pity them for all that money wasted investing in a dullard like you. Please kill a goat and borrow it's brain to compensate for your lack, it's better than nothing
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by WiseStarr(m): 9:15pm On Dec 19, 2018
NandiIfeoma:


The same way your parents should've laughed at the idea of giving a test tube baby like you an education. I pity them for all that money wasted investing in a dullard like you. Please kill a goat and borrow it's brain to compensate for your lack, it's better than nothing

Have you eaten,An Hungry man is an Angry man,My dear sister,go eat,take something chill before you come back here
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Dec 19, 2018
WiseStarr:


Have you eaten,An Hungry man is an Angry man,My dear sister,go eat,take something chill before you come back here

I'll ask the same question to you smiley Some people can be driven mad due to hunger and thirst. If it's hunger that's bothering you, that's easily resolved wink My dear, have you eaten in three days prior to typing that rubbish?
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by WiseStarr(m): 8:12am On Dec 20, 2018
NandiIfeoma:


I'll ask the same question to you smiley Some people can be driven mad due to hunger and thirst. If it's hunger that's bothering you, that's easily resolved wink My dear, have you eaten in three days prior to typing that rubbish?


Ifeoma,Let's get off this and be cool,okay?
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by Nobody: 2:16am On Dec 21, 2018
WiseStarr:



Ifeoma,Let's get off this and be cool,okay?

Lol I can agree to a truce
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by LordsApostle: 6:14am On Dec 21, 2018
Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated
I wish I was him, I'll use you like a rag them use watch trailer, throws you inside bush!!! Foolish girl..
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Several Years Ago? by WiseStarr(m): 6:27am On Dec 21, 2018
NandiIfeoma:


Lol I can agree to a truce
Good,better

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