Just some observations.

1. They way we talk with one another - The way Spouses, girlfriends and boyfriends talk to one another is often rude and disrespectful. The way you talk to your friends isn't the way you should talk to your spouse

2. Most people in relationships aren't looking for relationships - They are looking for: help, sex, money, to avoid shame etc..

3. Can't face the truth - Many have had previous failed relationships and have failed to work on themselves or improve themselves due to pride/arrogance.

4. They have a grudge against the opposite sex - they blame an entire gender because of the acts of a few. If all the men/women you meet are bad then it says more about who you are than who they are!!

5. They don't know who they are - Alot of people do not mature until they are at least 25-30 years or age. They get into a relationship before they know who they are. So how can you understand someone else when you don't understand yourself.

6. Online experts - Alot of people get advice online and feel that because of this they are ready or they have become relationship experts. Every relationship is different. Some people argue all day long and by night time they are cuddling up and can't go to sleep unless they are next to each other. Find out what works for you!! Treat tips as a guide

7. Bad advice - They receive bad advice from trusted "friends". Look well. Ask elders. Ask long term married couples.

8. Mindset - Many people going into a relationship with a bad mindset and sometimes a very selfish attitude. Anybody that thinks they are doing you a favour by being with you is not worth your effort... Move on.. No matter the number of years, money spent etc... Move on!! An inconsiderate person rarely changes and if they do it is because the get the shock of their lives. Who has time to waste?!

Note: If during this write up you were thinking about some of your exes or a certain gender then you are not ready either. For as bad as they may have been..... For whatever reason........ You chose them.

Many of these boil down to mindset...Get your mind right... Everything else will follow.
Hope this has blessed someone.
Happy Sunday

Bleep me I Bleep you, man no go vex, who cares about if a relationship works or not, babymama levels na im sure pass no let anyone deceive you.

Jayslicky:
Bleep me I Bleep you, man no go vex, who cares about if a relationship works or not, babymama levels na im sure pass no let anyone deceive you.

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