UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by Juliusdaughter: 10:06am On Dec 09, 2018 |
Thank you all for you inputs, unfortunately I couldn't modify my post since it got to FP. I was a 16 when I entered uni. 17 when guys were asking me out. I had some unrealistic measures then. Like not dating a guy from my school and not dating someone too older than I am. My ex was barely 4 years older than me while this other one was 8 years older. The age alone was enough to put off a 17 years old. I chose my ex cos he wasn't a student of my school and he was just a little older than me. Cheating is in DNA if I must say, if not I'd have dated my ex, this guy and even some more. It's not my fault he kept on asking me out while I was in a relationship. I didnt for once cheat on my ex. Neither did I have sex with someone else, as oppose what some people said. I broke up with my ex almost 8 months bfr this one asked me out again. I saw him as a frnd and someone I could trust. So I said YES. We started dating and less than two weeks he told me we might not be able to get married because of some family stuff from his side. I was ready to back off but he held on to me and we continued. So sad we were still in contact even few hours until his WEDDING ![cry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cry.gif) yes! He got married yesterday, and he was actually using me to cheat on his wife. It wouldn't have mattered wether I said yes to him 3 or two years ago. He would have used me same way he just did. I don't think I deserve a man like that either. I am ready to move on past my ex and him too. Why would he deceive me into a relationship when he knows he's getting married? We were cool as frnds, I would have attended his wedding too... I have learned that some guys are not worth your faithfulness. In as much as you want to hold on to them, be open to other suitors too. He just destroyed a cool friendship ![cry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cry.gif) been crying since I found out. 3 Likes |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by MJBOLT: 10:43am On Dec 09, 2018 |
the guy must have drilled op puna promising her marriage,boys wicked o 5 Likes
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Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by Homeboiy: 10:47am On Dec 09, 2018 |
Your story has justified what I said in your first thread
That if I happen to be the guy, After rejecting me cos of someone and later agreed to date me
I will fúck u and marry another
That's exactly what my niggga did
Congrats to him 5 Likes |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by DMerciful(m): 11:00am On Dec 09, 2018 |
He wanted to taste what has been hidden for 5yrs to see if it was made of gold.... norin special so he jogged on 2 Likes |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by IamD18: 11:01am On Dec 09, 2018 |
Fake story from an attention seeker. 3 Likes |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
You don't owe anybody an explanation much less these children on nairaland ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) 1 Like |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by ednut1(m): 2:20pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Fake story. Repent 1 Like |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by lilmax(m): 2:22pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
skarlett: You don't owe anybody an explanation much less these children on nairaland ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) nysc dey shack this one how many years did you stay at home before your call up letter came? |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by CaptainMitch: 2:23pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Adult ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) skarlett: You don't owe anybody an explanation much less these children on nairaland ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
lilmax: nysc dey shack this one
how many years did you stay at home before your call up letter came? Like I said, children. ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) 3 Likes |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Juliusdaughter: Thank you all for you inputs, unfortunately I couldn't modify my post since it got to FP. I was a 16 when I entered uni. 17 when guys were asking me out. I had some unrealistic measures then. Like not dating a guy from my school and not dating someone too older than I am. My ex was barely 4 years older than me while this other one was 8 years older. The age alone was enough to put off a 17 years old. I chose my ex cos he wasn't a student of my school and he was just a little older than me. Cheating is in DNA if I must say, if not I'd have dated my ex, this guy and even some more. It's not my fault he kept on asking me out while I was in a relationship. I didnt for once cheat on my ex. Neither did I have sex with someone else, as oppose what some people said. I broke up with my ex almost 8 months bfr this one asked me out again. I saw him as a frnd and someone I could trust. So I said YES. We started dating and less than two weeks he told me we might not be able to get married because of some family stuff from his side. I was ready to back off but he held on to me and we continued. So sad we were still in contact even few hours until his WEDDING yes! He got married yesterday, and he was actually using me to cheat on his wife. It wouldn't have mattered wether I said yes to him 3 or two years ago. He would have used me same way he just did. I don't think I deserve a man like that either. I am ready to move on past my ex and him too. Why would he deceive me into a relationship when he knows he's getting married? We were cool as frnds, I would have attended his wedding too... I have learned that some guys are not worth your faithfulness. In as much as you want to hold on to them, be open to other suitors too. He just destroyed a cool friendship been crying since I found out. people r just roaming the streets looking for someone to damage.. either to prove say dem b ballers or to spread pain that someone else caused dem.. its almost as if guys and girls are competing who go wicked d oda gender pass.. Op just pray u find someone thats empathic enough to understand what they're doing to someone dat loves dem.. (my first comment on niarland in almost a year or so) ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Juliusdaughter: Thank you all for you inputs, unfortunately I couldn't modify my post since it got to FP. I was a 16 when I entered uni. 17 when guys were asking me out. I had some unrealistic measures then. Like not dating a guy from my school and not dating someone too older than I am. My ex was barely 4 years older than me while this other one was 8 years older. The age alone was enough to put off a 17 years old. I chose my ex cos he wasn't a student of my school and he was just a little older than me. Cheating is in DNA if I must say, if not I'd have dated my ex, this guy and even some more. It's not my fault he kept on asking me out while I was in a relationship. I didnt for once cheat on my ex. Neither did I have sex with someone else, as oppose what some people said. I broke up with my ex almost 8 months bfr this one asked me out again. I saw him as a frnd and someone I could trust. So I said YES. We started dating and less than two weeks he told me we might not be able to get married because of some family stuff from his side. I was ready to back off but he held on to me and we continued. So sad we were still in contact even few hours until his WEDDING yes! He got married yesterday, and he was actually using me to cheat on his wife. It wouldn't have mattered wether I said yes to him 3 or two years ago. He would have used me same way he just did. I don't think I deserve a man like that either. I am ready to move on past my ex and him too. Why would he deceive me into a relationship when he knows he's getting married? We were cool as frnds, I would have attended his wedding too... I have learned that some guys are not worth your faithfulness. In as much as you want to hold on to them, be open to other suitors too. He just destroyed a cool friendship been crying since I found out. people r just roaming the streets looking for someone to damage.. either to prove say dem b ballers or to spread pain that someone else caused dem.. its almost as if guys and girls are competing who go wicked d oda gender pass.. Op just pray u find someone thats empathic enough to understand what they're doing to someone dat loves dem.. (my first comment on niarland in almost a year or so) 3 Likes |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by Raalsalghul: 4:27pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Juliusdaughter: Thank you all for you inputs, unfortunately I couldn't modify my post since it got to FP. I was a 16 when I entered uni. 17 when guys were asking me out. I had some unrealistic measures then. Like not dating a guy from my school and not dating someone too older than I am. My ex was barely 4 years older than me while this other one was 8 years older. The age alone was enough to put off a 17 years old. I chose my ex cos he wasn't a student of my school and he was just a little older than me. Cheating is in DNA if I must say, if not I'd have dated my ex, this guy and even some more. It's not my fault he kept on asking me out while I was in a relationship. I didnt for once cheat on my ex. Neither did I have sex with someone else, as oppose what some people said. I broke up with my ex almost 8 months bfr this one asked me out again. I saw him as a frnd and someone I could trust. So I said YES. We started dating and less than two weeks he told me we might not be able to get married because of some family stuff from his side. I was ready to back off but he held on to me and we continued. So sad we were still in contact even few hours until his WEDDING yes! He got married yesterday, and he was actually using me to cheat on his wife. It wouldn't have mattered wether I said yes to him 3 or two years ago. He would have used me same way he just did. I don't think I deserve a man like that either. I am ready to move on past my ex and him too. Why would he deceive me into a relationship when he knows he's getting married? We were cool as frnds, I would have attended his wedding too... I have learned that some guys are not worth your faithfulness. In as much as you want to hold on to them, be open to other suitors too. He just destroyed a cool friendship :'( been crying since I found out. ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by OlaitanAkanbi(m): 5:01pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Never never and I can’t even go back to where I was being rejected because I don’t know there plan |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by HeWrites(m): 5:23pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Seems I would do same to this useless girl that rejected me 3 times last year and once again this year.
I don kuku move on |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by Ishilove: 5:46pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
HeWrites: Seems I would do same to this useless girl that rejected me 3 times last year and once again this year.
I don kuku move on She is useless because she rejected you? 2 Likes |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by HeWrites(m): 5:53pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Ishilove:
She is useless because she rejected you? Lmao.. Seems you don't understand what I meant by 'Useless' Smh |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by kazyhm(m): 7:54pm On Dec 09, 2018 |
Lol.
Na e dey pain |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by topiiiiiiii(f): 2:53pm On Dec 12, 2018 |
Juliusdaughter: Thank you all for you inputs, unfortunately I couldn't modify my post since it got to FP. I was a 16 when I entered uni. 17 when guys were asking me out. I had some unrealistic measures then. Like not dating a guy from my school and not dating someone too older than I am. My ex was barely 4 years older than me while this other one was 8 years older. The age alone was enough to put off a 17 years old. I chose my ex cos he wasn't a student of my school and he was just a little older than me. Cheating is in DNA if I must say, if not I'd have dated my ex, this guy and even some more. It's not my fault he kept on asking me out while I was in a relationship. I didnt for once cheat on my ex. Neither did I have sex with someone else, as oppose what some people said. I broke up with my ex almost 8 months bfr this one asked me out again. I saw him as a frnd and someone I could trust. So I said YES. We started dating and less than two weeks he told me we might not be able to get married because of some family stuff from his side. I was ready to back off but he held on to me and we continued. So sad we were still in contact even few hours until his WEDDING yes! He got married yesterday, and he was actually using me to cheat on his wife. It wouldn't have mattered wether I said yes to him 3 or two years ago. He would have used me same way he just did. I don't think I deserve a man like that either. I am ready to move on past my ex and him too. Why would he deceive me into a relationship when he knows he's getting married? We were cool as frnds, I would have attended his wedding too... I have learned that some guys are not worth your faithfulness. In as much as you want to hold on to them, be open to other suitors too. He just destroyed a cool friendship been crying since I found out. am so sorry about everything God will give you the best and satisfy all your desires....we ladies really need to be careful there is element of truth in this movie called "acrimony" can't just stop watching the movie and learning from it....God will reward expecally with that so called 'serious ex' that you spend so much time with.... 1 Like |
Re: UPDATE: Can You Marry A Girl That Refused To Date You Years Ago? by LordsApostle: 6:24am On Dec 21, 2018 |
Juliusdaughter: Thank you all for you inputs, unfortunately I couldn't modify my post since it got to FP. I was a 16 when I entered uni. 17 when guys were asking me out. I had some unrealistic measures then. Like not dating a guy from my school and not dating someone too older than I am. My ex was barely 4 years older than me while this other one was 8 years older. The age alone was enough to put off a 17 years old. I chose my ex cos he wasn't a student of my school and he was just a little older than me. Cheating is in DNA if I must say, if not I'd have dated my ex, this guy and even some more. It's not my fault he kept on asking me out while I was in a relationship. I didnt for once cheat on my ex. Neither did I have sex with someone else, as oppose what some people said. I broke up with my ex almost 8 months bfr this one asked me out again. I saw him as a frnd and someone I could trust. So I said YES. We started dating and less than two weeks he told me we might not be able to get married because of some family stuff from his side. I was ready to back off but he held on to me and we continued. So sad we were still in contact even few hours until his WEDDING yes! He got married yesterday, and he was actually using me to cheat on his wife. It wouldn't have mattered wether I said yes to him 3 or two years ago. He would have used me same way he just did. I don't think I deserve a man like that either. I am ready to move on past my ex and him too. Why would he deceive me into a relationship when he knows he's getting married? We were cool as frnds, I would have attended his wedding too... I have learned that some guys are not worth your faithfulness. In as much as you want to hold on to them, be open to other suitors too. He just destroyed a cool friendship been crying since I found out. He has done very well... OP please, I want us to date please, I'm seriously in need of a serious relationship... Please accept my proposal. Thank you.. Will send you a PM right away. |