Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by tevanso(m): 9:05pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
No matter what we tell u here, u will still do what us in ur mind. I can see that u are madly in love with this girl. My brother don't trade your happiness for a LovePeddler that doesn't worth it.my one cent 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Sanemind(m): 9:09pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
PraisePiano: Hello guys.... I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are. I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes. We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok” She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me. Please what should I do? my broda don't be blinded by luv,ur gf is taking advantage of that,act like a man please,am not saying u shud be beating her oh,but seriously ur babe is playing with u,me no go fit take dat trash 1 Like |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by DONADAMS(m): 10:20pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
you're in a relationship with yourself...she doesn't love you as much as you love her...she still wants to explore life...she's just like a girl I used to know(also from ikd)..just bounce man 1 Like |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Dabzyblaze(m): 10:22pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Dreambeat: 10:23pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
Guy you are in a relationship with a kid.She is not ready to be in a stable relationship yet.Use your head! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by ghettochild(m): 10:23pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
PraisePiano: Hello guys....
I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are. I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.
We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok” She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.
Please what should I do? Mr Oga, must you date this olosho ni?? |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Dabzyblaze(m): 10:24pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by abbey621(m): 10:26pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
Just one question, you don knack? If yes then knack some more and GTFO and if no, try to knack ASAP and if no luck cut your losses! 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Articul8(m): 10:26pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
PraisePiano: Hello guys....
I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are. I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.
We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok” She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.
Please what should I do? Guy, waka farrrrrrrrrr....... |
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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by naijjaman(m): 10:27pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
PraisePiano: Hello guys....
I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are. I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.
We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok” She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.
Please what should I do? If she is not the woman you want her to be, why put up with her? She can't change and you can't make her. Move on and untie your feelings and emotions. ...... If you can ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by TDonald: 10:29pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
Ikorodu : the capital of Olosho in Lagos state. My brother you are just an option for that girl. Stop fooling yourself ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by yesloaded: 10:30pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
PraisePiano: hmmm truth is bitter, go out there & make money! make money, make money, plz make more money! I don't know how old you are but am sure you are above 18yrs which means you should able to know the difference between right & wrong. don't be a 'love slave'! be a man! QUIT D DAMN SHIT! 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
She no good for your head Quit! (In Maleke's voice) 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Captainsklyer(m): 10:31pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
Some part of the story line is missing... Only from her actions you should know the next move.. My brother you are dating a slay queen and she is slaying you... If you have noticed all slay queens are bats and vampires, they operate only at night and rest in the morning... You omitted the part where you spent on her onto say you dey pamper her.. My bro comot body for high tension before hypertension kill you.. 13 Likes |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by 12345baba(m): 10:31pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
STUPID LOVE |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by nams77: 10:33pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh: From your write up, here are
A) Reasons why you should not quit the relationship
1) you love her.
2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.
B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship
1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!
2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.
3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!
4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.
5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.
OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?
yes or no? Guy, you too get sense. I wonder why people see clear handwritings on the wall and still ask foolish questions. Op, hope you reading this 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by sacramento1212: 10:33pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
PraisePiano: Hello guys....
I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are. I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.
Please what should I do? How old is your girl friend? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Reelmii: 10:33pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
omode lon se yin
if u are not matured enough to know when to leave a relationship or not, then u should not be in a relationship at all for now
what kind of advice are u even expecting
when u met her on social media, did u consult us before going into a relationship with her?
mr oga, matured minds solve their relationship issue on their own not tru public announcement 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by SniperSmurf(m): 10:34pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
Tldr |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by tete7000(m): 10:36pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
You sought anyone's novice while entering the relationship? Why seeking advice to quit now? |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by uche08066959705(m): 10:37pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
What's so unique in the lady?? Slay Queen Intern... You are in for a mess bro 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by whytediamond(m): 10:38pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh: From your write up, here are
A) Reasons why you should not quit the relationship
1) you love her.
2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.
B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship
1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!
2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.
3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!
4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.
5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.
OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?
yes or no? This reply is the summary of the whole matter. We might as well close this thread. The ball is in your court O. P 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by xavierx: 10:39pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Softay(m): 10:40pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
My Guy!! Don't kill yourself! U dan try. Break up if she is starting to misbehave! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
She may love you,but love don't pay the bills,she reeks of a runs girl . |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by maxiuc(m): 10:41pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
Better start running 1 Like |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by ensodev(m): 10:41pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh: From your write up, here are
A) Reasons why you should not quit the relationship
1) you love her.
2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.
B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship
1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!
2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.
3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!
4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.
5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.
OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?
yes or no? The best thing have read today...am using my head right now ooo I once heard that every sure guy done strive oloso yet did not know because they look responsible and quite presentable. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by seenter84: 10:42pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
PraisePiano: Hello guys....
I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are. I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.
We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok” She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.
Please what should I do? Make ena first shag then have a re think |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by israelmao(m): 10:42pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
"You apologize if even though she was wrong"?There are some attitudes that are condonable and there are some that could endanger peaceful co-existence please identify them if this relationship is leading or will eventually lead to marriage.Courtship is the springboard to marriage if the springs in your board are weak your marriage could end up in a terrible crash.The choice is yours. 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by 2day6(m): 10:42pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
if you didn't quite the relationship now now. I will personally flog u...i can't take that shit. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by ayomide8990(m): 10:43pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
PraisePiano: Hello guys....
I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are. I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.
We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok” She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.
Please what should I do? Removing certain people from your life makes room for better people. 2 Likes |