Op i understand how you feel and that shows how much he feels about you. I would advise you not to take the relationship serious, infact start making plans for another person by the side unless you are not ready for marriage plans.

AshakeT:
Can you pass your advice without calling names? Shows what you are made off my dear working class man, for your info, i have a well paying job.

Sorry dear.....

abandoned ship if you like..
buh your relationship is still too young 2 months old so calm down

he did the right thing

I don't think its something you should be worried about just yet. The relationship is still very new. If 6 months or a year into the relationship he is still referring to you as a friend (e.g. friends and family) thats when you should be worried.

AshakeT:
What do I do, should I just forget it or talk about it and start acting like a friend to him (it's just a 2months relationship)

First off, you are his friend na arent you? Secondly you say you have only been dating for 2 months, he may not be sure of you yet, 2months is still pretty early, for all he knows you can bolt with the next available rich guy, not like u cant even if its a 2years relationship but the probability is higher now.

The bottom line is, I would do the same especially when the relationship is still new, what happens if I introduce you and the next 1 month we break up and my mom ask me about you, what would you expect I say? So to avoid stories that touch, at this point you are still a friend. Forget the knacking he has knacked you.

Also stop reading meanings into everything and dont be too eager either to meet the parents, you appear and sound desperate wanting that to happen just yet.

Maintain your friend lane for now and enjoy your relationship, build it to the point that he will be confident enough to introduce you otherwise.

In the meantime stop bugging us with your problems that is a non - issue, when you have more pressing issues you can then come!

Kapish?!

Mursz:


First off, you are his friend na arent you? Secondly you say you have only been dating for 2 months, he may not be sure of you yet, 2months is still pretty early, for all he knows you can bolt with the next available rich guy, not like u cant even if its a 2years relationship but the probability is higher now.

The bottom line is, I would do the same especially when the relationship is still new, what happens if I introduce you and the next 1 month we break up and my mom ask me about you, what would you expect I say? So to avoid stories that touch, at this point you are still a friend. Forget the knacking he has knacked you.

Also stop reading meanings into everything and dont be too eager either to meet the parents, you appear and sound desperate wanting that to happen just yet.

Maintain your friend lane for now and enjoy your relationship, build it to the point that he will be confident enough to introduce you otherwise.

In the meantime stop bugging us with your problems that is a non - issue, when you have more pressing issues you can then come!

Kapish?!

Please!!! No one should contribute to this topic again. He has nailed.

Op. In a nutshell, it is too early to play the fiancee/ wife role. Forget the fact you guys have been engaging in sexual activities for 2 months. It doesn't in anyway qualify you to be called girlfriend/fiancee more especially on a phone call with his parents, that you haven't even met physically.

Just abolish those thought that he owe you his life simply because of sex you guys mutually enjoy. Yes! He had to lie (fake a call) to pacify you since he sensed you are angry because he did not addressed you properly to his parents. It was a lie told to help you cope psychologically unfortunately it didn't come out very well.

AshakeT:
Sincerely speaking i'm not really bothered about the "friend" thing, he stammered about 3times before he could say "friend" and we were talking after the call but yes my countenace changed which to be sincere a lot of ladies would have acted upon but i didn't, it was just my countenance but the part that he frame a call was the one i didn't like.

just address that issue of him faking a call ao that it will at least help you a little in getting over the event... If he denies he didn't fake a call, just try and get over it and move on ... The guy is most likely serious with you but I don't know if he wants to make you his wife
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I don't even know your age and what you guys do for now, it probably would have made me make a better judgement... All the same, enjoy your relationship... Misunderstandings are part of a relationship

IamD18:
I hate ungrateful ladies. Who are you to detect to him what and how to address and discuss with his mother?

Are you his wife?

You should be happy he called you a friend, because from all indications, you are nothing to him but a sex-partner. Just a sex-partner.

This one don already dey DISPLAY BAD CHARACTER.
They are every where.
Don't be surprised she is unlikely to have anything to offer...
She wants to assume the position of WIFE but can't think nor act like one