1StopRudeness:
i still don't get why all the experiences women go through be it good or bad. You blame it one men.

No one is restricting you choice, nobody gathered somewhere to analyse, evaluate and put a seal on these things. They are all unconscious social construct and personal opinions people make for themselves.

E.g. A man says he wants a virgin, u women start to cry river that is double standards, as there is no no way to know if a man is a virgin. Who cares? its his opinion. because he isnt a virgin does not mean he cant desire a virgin.
While you go about giving yourself you high standards like men do, be ready to face the consequences because at the end of the day there's no textbook approach to life. men too face the consequences we dont just cry out like you ladies do
for example, If you want to sleep around like men do because men cant have it all and its double standards, bla bla bla.... u need to remember that nature was biased from the beginning by making sure only the female gender can give birth, can have wide vagina, can have saggy boobs, can have menopause, can die from abortion, can have damaged womb.... and at the same time, ive seen women live a slut life and still have a good life afterwards, like i said life cant be lived with textbook approach.
set you standards, live life, face the consequences, dont blame men, dont blame social construct, dont look for how the rules should be bent in your favour.....becos really, there are no rules, just individual preferences and opinions...YOLO

MissRaine69:
Who rises women to be submissive and accept some of these behaviours that strip us of our individuality? Who cultivates the mentality of dependency? Always insists that as a woman marrying a rich man at any cost is the ultimate prize?
Other women ...mothers, aunts, grandmothers blame the state of the Nigerian women on Nigerian women.

BMaretraitors:
Yes, we are all expected to experience life and take responsibilities. And that is all i've said. Let Nigerian women voice out their preferences like everybody else.

smokers:


That's what women do in Nigeria and you've proven it. they blame everyone for their misfortune. the guy, the society the government. heck I'm not against equal rights and all others but it should be based on rational decisions not self entitlement

MissRaine69:
Who raises women to be submissive and accept some of these behaviours that strip us of our individuality? Who cultivates the mentality of dependency? Always insists that as a woman marrying a rich man at any cost is the ultimate prize?
Other women ...mothers, aunts, grandmothers blame the state of the Nigerian women on Nigerian women.

MissRaine69:
Who rises women to be submissive and accept some of these behaviours that strip us of our individuality? Who cultivates the mentality of dependency? Always insists that as a woman marrying a rich man at any cost is the ultimate prize?
Other women ...mothers, aunts, grandmothers blame the state of the Nigerian women on Nigerian women.

dederocs:
Do you have an exceptional beauty,brain or skill to attract a rich man?

BMaretraitors:

<sup>We have been bullied for not carrying out domestic duties to the fullest. We are supposed to appear 'wifeable' every munite and day.

Nigerian women we have changed ourselves, we have peeled our skin with creams, snaptchat filters, contoured our faces, hidden our hair carefully, some of us are even on diet trying to get that perfect shape, now there is surgery.

We are losing our voices, we can't openly desire a well to do man because that would be synonymous to poking our bleached fingers into the eyes of the men that have infiltrated this forum.

I see women that brag about earning their own money, which is great, but being independent-minded? i say lady, please, that's the perfect magnet for lazy never do wells, because in this age and time they would shamelessly leach you dry.

Everyone has that material thing they want to see in their partner, be it beauty, physical endowments, Finance, carriage et al. Men are allowed to salivate over theirs all day, why can't we. Or have they won again!</sup>

BMaretraitors:
Since you didn't bother to read the details of my post, grant me to cherry-pick yours. If Nigerian women have sacrificed so much for Nigerian women and men in extension, why are they silenced and forced to demand less in return! Why can't Nigerian women say they prefer well of men without backlash from men and women!