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Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ComputerOperato: 4:16pm On Dec 12, 2018
Hello to ya all!

I read about an English lady that died when having masochist sex on front page today.

Some guys commented about having sex with girls who wanted to be beaten first.

I normally read about this in books not knowing it exists in Nigeria.

Now my question is: Have ever had a partner with weird sexual behaviour like beating, smacking etc right here in Nigeria?

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by FreshBoss007: 4:30pm On Dec 12, 2018
none yet but I'd be waiting to read comments

the closest I've had would be one who gave me green lights during the days and goes all red lighted at night

if she's reading this
fvck you

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by nifemi25(m): 4:32pm On Dec 12, 2018
Unbelievable. How would a lady be beating before you have an intercourse with her ? Its weird.
Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ComputerOperato: 4:43pm On Dec 12, 2018
nifemi25:
Unbelievable. How would a lady be beating before you have an intercourse with her ? Its weird.

I know it happens in the West.
Never knew it could happen here in Naija.

I attached the posts of guys who said they met people like that here.

Hope its not against the rules..

FreshBoss007:
none yet but I'd be waiting to read comments

the closest I've had would be one who gave me green lights during the days and goes all red lighted at night

if she's reading this
fvck you

@ Bolded. The thing really pain you. grin grin

Lol... Experienced this once.
She came to spend the night and when its time to start the match, she started showing red light.
Just gave up and slept.
Though I didnt know it then, she was reluctant because she had a very tight ermmm.. "womanhood" and was kinda shy.
Though we eventually "do the do" some weeks later.

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ColdPizzas: 4:53pm On Dec 12, 2018
ComputerOperato:
I know it happens in the West.
Never knew it could happen here in Naija.

I attached the posts of guys who said they met people like that here.

Hope its not against the rules..

Why would it happen in the west and not happen in Nigeria? Are westerners predisposed to certain sexual behaviors that black Africans aren't?

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ComputerOperato: 4:57pm On Dec 12, 2018
ColdPizzas:


Why would it happen in the west and not happen in Nigeria? Are westerners predisposed to certain sexual behavior that black Africans aren't?

Obviously yes.
Culture plays an important part in people's behaviour you know.
Especially when it comes to se*x.
This I am pretty much aware of.

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Dec 12, 2018
nifemi25:
Unbelievable. How would a lady be beating before you have an intercourse with her ? Its weird.
It's not weird, some ladies get turned on by extreme violence that only a man can provide. Why do you think girls don't leave guys that abuse them? Why do you think they like that kind of men so much?

When you yell at a girl;
Her head is like sad

Her pusy is like smiley

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ColdPizzas: 5:05pm On Dec 12, 2018
ComputerOperato:

Obviously yes.
Culture plays an important part in people's behaviour you know.
Especially when it comes to se*x.
This I am pretty much aware of.

Are you implying that masochism is a learned behavior of which is subject to cultural conditioning, rather than an innate sexual preference of which culture has little effect on how it manifests?

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by Nobody: 5:06pm On Dec 12, 2018
She likes BDSM and I'm a big big fan of CFNM.
So it was very weird when the tables got turned on me for the very first time when she wanted me to take control of her and for me to do anything that pleases me. It weird but I got used to it very fast and even liked it.
Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ComputerOperato: 5:24pm On Dec 12, 2018
Admin401:
It's not weird, some ladies get turned on by extreme violence that only a man can provide. Why do you think girls don't leave guys that abuse them? Why do you think they like that kind of men so much?

When you yell at a girl;
Her head is like sad

Her pusy is like smiley

Very funny @ your last line.

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ComputerOperato: 5:28pm On Dec 12, 2018
ColdPizzas:


Are you implying that masochism is a learned behavior of which is subject to cultural conditioning, rather than an innate sexual preference of which culture has little effect on how it manifests?
Actually, I am not implying anything.
What I am very sure of is this "Culture and the environment plays an important part on human behaviour".

Why do you think there were few if any gay behaviour in the days of our fathers (in Africa) as in contrast to what is obtained now when the whole world is a global village?

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by newdawn2017(f): 5:50pm On Dec 12, 2018
Admin401:
It's not weird, some ladies get turned on by extreme violence that only a man can provide. Why do you think girls don't leave guys that abuse them? Why do you think they like that kind of men so much?

When you yell at a girl;
Her head is like sad

Her pusy is like smiley
my brother, d abuse own na lie & ignorance on ur part. They still stay with abuser cos they ve lost d strength 2 leave due d fact d@ they got accustomed 2 d abuse & began seeing d abuse as a norm. cry, 2dly, no surpport 4 outside, if they leave who will they turn 2?

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ColdPizzas: 5:56pm On Dec 12, 2018
ComputerOperato:

Actually, I am not implying anything.
What I am very sure of is this "Culture and the environment plays an important part on human behaviour".

Why do you think there were few if any gay behaviour in the days of our fathers (in Africa) as in contrast to what is obtained now when the whole world is a global village?

There is quite a difference between human behavior and human sexuality. Culture and environment has a way lesser effect on the later and this effect is mainly on how it's expressed in public. Human sexuality pertains to our sexual preferences - this is primarily biologically mediated and since lots of human sexual activities are done in private, culture doesn't play that much of a role. There were female masochists in sub-saharan Africa before the advent of the internet.

Anthropological research has confirmed that homosexuality was prevalent in ancient African cultures. The current opposition to homosexuality in African countries is a consequence of the spread of Christianity post colonization.

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by IamPlato(m): 6:04pm On Dec 12, 2018
Yes... She Asked Me To Beat Her, Hold Her Neck Tightly Her...

Some People Sha!
Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Dec 12, 2018
ColdPizzas:


There is quite a difference between human behavior and human sexuality. Culture and environment has a way lesser effect on the later and this effect is mainly on how it's expressed in public. Human sexuality pertains to our sexual preferences - this is primarily biologically mediated and since lots of human sexual experiences are done in private, culture doesn't play that much of a role. There were female masochists in sub-saharan Africa before the advent of the internet.

Anthropological research has confirmed that homosexuality was prevalent in ancient African cultures. The current opposition to homosexuality in African countries is a consequence of the spread of Christianity post colonization.

you assertion about homosexuality is wrong. It is just a propaganda

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Dec 12, 2018
ComputerOperato:
Hello to ya all!

I read about an English lady that died when having masochist sex on front page today.

Some guys commented about having sex with girls who wanted to be beaten first.

I normally read about this in books not knowing it exists in Nigeria.

Now my question is: Have ever had a partner with weird sexual behaviour like beating, smacking etc right here in Nigeria?

Yep, every man has his fetish, it is left to you to decide if it is worth indulging him or not
Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by luizpippo(m): 6:54pm On Dec 12, 2018
My ex would lie on her tommy and ask me to pin her waist abi na hips down and penetrate the kuntus from behind(not anal ), she would be screaming harder, faster, deeper and all sorts, meanwhile i will only be thinking how not to hurt someone's daughter because i won't want to end up in jail.

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ComputerOperato: 6:55pm On Dec 12, 2018
Every man? Please educate me.
funmisticqueen:
Yep, every man has his fetish, it is left to you to decide if it is worth indulging him or not

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ComputerOperato: 6:58pm On Dec 12, 2018
luizpippo:
meanwhile i will only be thinking how not to hurt someone's daughter because i won't want to end up in jail.
Hahaha. Funny dude

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ColdPizzas: 7:12pm On Dec 12, 2018
thebosstrevor:


you assertion about homosexuality is wrong. It is just a propaganda

What's a propaganda? The research material is fake or that homosexuality isn't biological?

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by Macdonald001: 7:19pm On Dec 12, 2018
ColdPizzas:


What's a propaganda? The research material is fake or that homosexuality isn't biological?

It is highly biological...
Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ColdPizzas: 7:20pm On Dec 12, 2018
Macdonald001:

It is highly biological...
I never said it wasn't.
Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by Nobody: 7:20pm On Dec 12, 2018
ColdPizzas:


What's a propaganda? The research material is fake or that homosexuality isn't biological?

the research material is fake.

I have read some research by western researcher about africa and many of them are wrong.

Pls post ur link to the research about homosexuality in african society before christianity came.

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ColdPizzas: 7:25pm On Dec 12, 2018
thebosstrevor:


the research material is fake.

I have read some research by western researcher about africa and many of them are wrong.

Pls post ur link to the research about homosexuality in african society before christianity came.

https://76crimes.com/2014/01/30/21-varieties-of-traditional-african-homosexuality/

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/sep/09/being-gay-african-history-homosexuality-christianity

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Dec 12, 2018
ColdPizzas:


https://76crimes.com/2014/01/30/21-varieties-of-traditional-african-homosexuality/

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/sep/09/being-gay-african-history-homosexuality-christianity

reading these article make me laugh because it an effort by westerners to justify that african had a homosexuality history which is not true.

In most pre christian african culture you can be killed and barnish from the land for homosexuality.

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ColdPizzas: 7:37pm On Dec 12, 2018
thebosstrevor:


reading these article make me laugh because it an effort by westerners to justify that african had a homosexuality history which is not true.

In most pre christian african culture you can be killed and barnish from the land for homosexuality.

Where is your own proof for your claims? If every research document is propaganda by westerners to justify behaviors that they want to push unto Africans, where is your own factual information to counteract their supposedly concocted data? What are your verifiable sources?

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Dec 12, 2018
ColdPizzas:


Where is your own proof for your claims? If every research document is propaganda by westerners to justify behaviors that they want to push unto Africans, where is your own factual information to counteract their supposedly concocted data? What are your verifiable sources?

what you posted are not proof just an article written without source to justify homosexuality.

I am african and i know the mood. Homosexuality is a cause on the land during those period.

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by uboma(m): 7:56pm On Dec 12, 2018
funmisticqueen:
Yep, every man has his fetish, it is left to you to decide if it is worth indulging him or not


Not every man has fetish ideas.

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ComputerOperato: 7:56pm On Dec 12, 2018
ColdPizzas:


https://76crimes.com/2014/01/30/21-varieties-of-traditional-african-homosexuality/

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/sep/09/being-gay-african-history-homosexuality-christianity
These are not researches. Please post journals.

I was about asking you to back up your claims with research but thankfully someone did up there.

I still maintain that homosexuality was rare in Nigeria in those days.

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ColdPizzas: 7:58pm On Dec 12, 2018
thebosstrevor:


what you posted are not proof just an article written without source to justify homosexuality.

I am african and i know the mood. Homosexuality is a cause on the land during those period.

The two articles I posted actually had academic sources. Maybe if you had read the entire document you would have seen it. One of the sources is a book by Stephen Murray and Will Roscoe titled: Boy wives and female husband's - studies in African Homosexualities.

Back to my question which you have done a poor job at evading. Where is your source to refute the prevailing academic literature on this subject? If your response is that "you are African and you know the mood," then that's not a very sufficient or coherent response.

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Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by Macdonald001: 8:00pm On Dec 12, 2018
ColdPizzas:


I never said it wasn't.

OK then... My bad
Re: Have You Ever Had A Partner With Weird Sexual Behaviour? by ColdPizzas: 8:02pm On Dec 12, 2018
ComputerOperato:

These are not researches. Please post journals.

I was about asking you to back up your claims with research but thankfully someone did up there.

I still maintain that homosexuality was rare in Nigeria in those days.

Don't you people read?

The links I posted had academic sources. If you read through them you'd have seen these sources. One of these sources is a book by Stephen Murray and Will Roscoe titled: Boy wives and female husband's - studies
in African Homosexualities.

Now provide your own verifiable source that proved that homosexuality was rare in Nigeria(and Africa) in ancient times.

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