Good day everyone, just wanted to share my thoughts on this forum and would like your input, especially ladies.

We grew up watching disney movies, the earliest ones like snow white and Cinderella and sleeping beauty,( 1950s- 1970s) the princesses play a more passive role and maximised being the damsel in distress, as time went on beauty and the beast, little mermaid, Aladdin,mulan and the princess and the frog(1980s to early 2000s), the women were more opinionated and refused sitting ducks waiting for prince charming.
Then things took an ominous turn from tangled (even Shrekand frozen(Mid 2000s till date). Princes stopped coming, only common men and petty thieves started vying for the princesses' hearts or should i say princesses were encouraged to mess with common folk.

Ladies, if our standards continue to fall who do you think will benefit from it?
it is the men not you.
Sadly today many ladies have been forced to take the roles of mothers to grown men under the guise of 'relationship'. MEDIA HAS COINED SUCH WOMEN AS "RIDE OR DIE" CHICKS. pls where are you riding and what are you dying for?

Men are doing less and women are picking up their slack while still being expected to continue their own duties on top of it. This is a recipe for disaster as a candle which burns from both ends has a shorter lifespan. This is evident today cos there are many women who look way older than men in relationships. You have to pick one, be masculine or feminine.



My point is this, ladies you have to have standards if you want to attract quality men. It is the first step to being a quality woman. Just as they say that men are polygamous by nature, I used to refute it before but now i dont because biologically men want to spread their seed, so they go about procreating with every titi and amaka to see which one will score . Biologically women are also wired to be hypergamous by nature so as to source for the worthiest man whose legacy we can carry for nine months and birth to this world. We are the safeguards of fertility as we bring forth life to the world just like MOTHER (not father) NATURE. That is why women who just allow everyman in are called women of easy virtue. It is also why women ovulate once a month but men release spermatozoa with every ejaculation

We can already see the effects of lowering our standards and procreating with weak men. The previous generation did it and what we have now are weak effeminate men who want the cow and the milk for almost nothing. At least some of them are true to themselves and either become bobrisky or join the MGTOW movement.

To the ladies out there who still have standards, i know that this is an uphill battle as there is pressure on all sides especially from society to settle. i am here to encourage you all and even myself not to lose sight of the prize. The result will be worth it in the end. Be strong and be of good cheer, She who laughs best laughs last.

Tomorrow i will continue this series and explain in detail what lowering standards is.

Everyone please remember to love yourselves and your fellow human being. Adieu

Your handle says you are male. Your article says you are a woman. What's up with that?

Opinionated:
Your handle says you are male. Your article says you are a woman. What's up with that?

Lol

Nigerian girls a.k.a whores prefer to be Baby mama to a rich guy than a housewife to an ambitious and struggling man.

What you hoes fail to understand is 99.99% of rich men of modern days don't want to get married but want Baby manufacturers,they are always ready to compensate with alimony to avoid living with you considering the zillions troubles ladies are naturally embedded with. If I were rich I wouldn't want to live with a problem. Only broke guys would want to live with that and you despise them.

which Kain Disney Princess be this

androidroot:
which Kain Disney Princess be this

the sweet one

Awesome post, op. So much to be said. I look forward to reading more from you.

lovely ladies, come here
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TomatoBiscuit:
Awesome post, op. So much to be said. I look forward to reading more from you.

thanks

I stopped reading the minute I saw Disney movies.
How old are you?
Rubbish post by an brainless individual.

Lucifer66:
I stopped reading the minute I saw Disney movies.
How old are you?
Rubbish post by an brainless individual.

move along, you are not the target audience.

PUSSYHOE:
Nigerian girls a.k.a whores prefer to be Baby mama to a rich guy than a housewife to an ambitious and struggling man.

What you hoes fail to understand is 99.99% of rich men of modern days don't want to get married but want Baby manufacturers,they are always ready to compensate with alimony to avoid living with you considering the zillions troubles ladies are naturally embedded with. If I were rich I wouldn't want to live with a problem. Only broke guys would want to live with that.

please quote your statistics with references or they would be treated as fantasy and heresay. I never said anything about rich men. A lot of low quality rich men with poverty mentality abound.

Please don't self-insert into children's movie, you're an adult for fvcks sake. Why should your life be based around a fairy tale? An African for that matter. To think you're going to be a parent one day.

PUSSYHOE:
Nigerian girls a.k.a whores prefer to be Baby mama to a rich guy than a housewife to an ambitious and struggling man.

What you hoes fail to understand is 99.99% of rich men of modern days don't want to get married but want Baby manufacturers,they are always ready to compensate with alimony to avoid living with you considering the zillions troubles ladies are naturally embedded with. If I were rich I wouldn't want to live with a problem. Only broke guys would want to live with that.

Hoes, really?

Not all ladies na

Wuraola01:




Hoes, really?

Not all ladies na

The first sign of a low quality man is in what he thinks of a woman and what terms he calls women. Ignore him

funmisticqueen2:
please quote your statistics with references or they would be treated as fantasy and heresay. I never said anything about rich men. A lot of low quality rich men with poverty mentality abound.

I am the source, you don't have to say it, it's crystal clear. guys are getting smarter women are now open books.

disney movies ,cinderella really? this is why most lady have fish brains

Uglymugg:
Please don't self-insert into children's movie, you're an adult for fvcks sake. Why should your life be based around a fairy tale? An African for that matter. To think you're going to be a parent one day.

i used children's cartoons as a case study to depict evolution of relationships with the times. I am waiting for disney to drop their first gay prince or lesbian princess

funmisticqueen2:
please quote your statistics with references or they would be treated as fantasy and heresay. I never said anything about rich men. A lot of low quality rich men with poverty mentality abound.

I am the source, you don't have to say it, it's crystal clear. guys are getting smarter women are now open books. Using " worthiest" doesn't change the insinuation.

PUSSYHOE:
I am the source, you don't have to say it, it's crystal clear. guys are getting smarter women are now open books.

if that is what you think who am i to dissuade you. It is a man's world after all

Disney this, Disney that! News flash: We are in Nigeria kindly wake up from your fantasy world

All I see is Feminism.

Kidaholic:
Disney this, Disney that! News flash: We are in Nigeria kindly wake up from your fantasy world

All I see is Feminism.

True, but not misandry. Disney movies have taken a more feminist turn and encouraged this trend.

funmisticqueen2:
The first sign of a low quality man is in what he thinks of a woman and what terms he calls women. Ignore him

Lol. Yes ma'am

Nice write up BTW

funmisticqueen2:
True, but not misandry. Disney movies have taken a more feminist turn and encouraged this trend.

Men are doing less and women are picking up their slack... I think that's where you were heading right from the onset

Kidaholic:


Men are doing less and women are picking up their slack... I think that's where you were heading right from the onset

truth hurts doesn't it. if that is all you can get from the post then i have passed a point across.

Just looking at the comments you can tell who actually got this and who is missed the point . So was the OP meant to use Nollywood characters an industry that is very mysoginistic when it comes to female characters?
A woman who refuses to settle is viewed as an anomly something I have always found baffling.
How low can you go? From what I see daily most can go lower than the ground

MissRaine69:
Just looking at the comments you can tell who actually got this and who is missed the point . So was the OP meant to use Nollywood characters an industry that is very mysoginistic when it comes to female characters?
A woman who refuses to settle is viewed as an anomly something I have always found baffling.
How low can you go? From what I see daily most can go lower than the ground

I agree, at times i think we ladies are the bane of our existence and a lot of weak willed men feed off our strife and drama to boost their ego.

funmisticqueen2:
truth hurts doesn't it. if that is all you can get from the post then i have passed a point across.

And this is suppose to be a wake up call for ladies?
...i am here to encourage you all and even myself not to lose sight of the prize. Oh! don't you worry about it, you made your point pretty clear
#feminism!

Kidaholic:


And this is suppose to be a wake up call for ladies?
...i am here to encourage you all and even myself not to lose sight of the prize. Oh! don't you worry about it, you made your point pretty clear
#feminism!

*rolls eyes*

funmisticqueen2:
I agree, at times i think we ladies are the bane of our existence and a lot of weak willed men feed off our strife and drama to boost their ego.

Feminism!
Stop creating bad blood please

Mizk:
That is how linda started yapping until she became a baby mama kwantinue.

Fatality!!