Mizk:
That is how linda started yapping until she became a baby mama kwantinue.

funmisticqueen2:
I agree, at times i think we ladies are the bane of our existence and a lot of weak willed men feed off our strife and drama to boost their ego.

funmisticqueen2:
Isnt it better that she is single and happy than stuck in a 'situationship' with a low quality man under the guise of marriage. A lot of married folks are miserable wanting to be single again and yet they want people to be in their same predicament. Misery loves company.

Linda did not just procreate with a anyhow guy. Although her approach is a bit flawed, but she decided that it is better to be a baby mama than be miserable.

How did you know all this? She told you what she wanted you to know and her hypocrisy is repugnant, shey you're the one that will ask the quality guy out or propose? And i know most naija girls wouldn't do that you have no control over who is gonna pick interest in you, so i suggest you write " quality guys only" and stamp it on your forehead it'll go a long way in filtering the so called weakmen, if linda was so cool the quality man wouldn't have left her.

MissRaine69:

The hard working women who have their shit together and who refuse to settle, have standards are always viewed with disdain. You are swimming against the tide but that does not mean you will drown it is just a bit harder. Life as a woman is hard I agree if you fight and want something better for yourself you are a feminist. How that become an insult is a modern day wonder.

Mizk:
How did you know all this? She told you what she wanted you to know and her hypocrisy is repugnant, shey you're the one that will ask the quality guy out or propose? And i know most naija girls wouldn't do that you have no control over who is gonna pick interest in you, so i suggest you write " quality guys only" and stamp it on your forehead it'll go a long way in filtering the so called weakmen, if linda was so cool the quality man wouldn't have left her.

funmisticqueen2:
Isnt it better that she is single and happy than stuck in a 'situationship' with a low quality man under the guise of marriage. A lot of married folks are miserable wanting to be single again and yet they want people to be in their same predicament. Misery loves company.

Linda did not just procreate with a anyhow guy. Although her approach is a bit flawed, but she decided that it is better to be a baby mama than be miserable.

Kidaholic:


...with a low quality man under the guise of marriage Now you are beginning to sound depressed.

funmisticqueen2:
i am like the sweetest fruit at the top of the tree, everyone wants me, and everyone will try to have a go at me, so i am approached by both high and low quality men and i owe it to myself and future generations to sift out the wheat from the chaff.

funmisticqueen2:
Good day everyone, just wanted to share my thoughts on this forum and would like your input, especially ladies.

We grew up watching disney movies, the earliest ones like snow white and Cinderella and sleeping beauty,( 1950s- 1970s) the princesses play a more passive role and maximised being the damsel in distress, as time went on beauty and the beast, little mermaid, Aladdin,mulan and the princess and the frog(1980s to early 2000s), the women were more opinionated and refused sitting ducks waiting for prince charming.
Then things took an ominous turn from tangled (even Shrekand frozen(Mid 2000s till date). Princes stopped coming, only common men and petty thieves started vying for the princesses' hearts or should i say princesses were encouraged to mess with common folk.

Ladies, if our standards continue to fall who do you think will benefit from it?
it is the men not you.
Sadly today many ladies have been forced to take the roles of mothers to grown men under the guise of 'relationship'. MEDIA HAS COINED SUCH WOMEN AS "RIDE OR DIE" CHICKS. pls where are you riding and what are you dying for?

Men are doing less and women are picking up their slack while still being expected to continue their own duties on top of it. This is a recipe for disaster as a candle which burns from both ends has a shorter lifespan. This is evident today cos there are many women who look way older than men in relationships. You have to pick one, be masculine or feminine.



My point is this, ladies you have to have standards if you want to attract quality men. It is the first step to being a quality woman. Just as they say that men are polygamous by nature, I used to refute it before but now i dont because biologically men want to spread their seed, so they go about procreating with every titi and amaka to see which one will score . Biologically women are also wired to be hypergamous by nature so as to source for the worthiest man whose legacy we can carry for nine months and birth to this world. We are the safeguards of fertility as we bring forth life to the world just like MOTHER (not father) NATURE. That is why women who just allow everyman in are called women of easy virtue. It is also why women ovulate once a month but men release spermatozoa with every ejaculation

We can already see the effects of lowering our standards and procreating with weak men. The previous generation did it and what we have now are weak effeminate men who want the cow and the milk for almost nothing. At least some of them are true to themselves and either become bobrisky or join the MGTOW movement.

To the ladies out there who still have standards, i know that this is an uphill battle as there is pressure on all sides especially from society to settle. i am here to encourage you all and even myself not to lose sight of the prize. The result will be worth it in the end. Be strong and be of good cheer, She who laughs best laughs last.

Tomorrow i will continue this series and explain in detail what lowering standards is.

Everyone please remember to love yourselves and your fellow human being. Adieu

funmisticqueen2:
Nah, i am not. thanks for your concern though

Mizk:
You can't be the sweetest, its good to have high self esteem, but yours is pride, if you check the stats you'll see that girls like you usually end up getting used, and miserable, because when the quality man has explored everything you have to offer he'll realize there's nothing to you afterall, just pride and hype, then he'll go get a decent and submissive wife, it's Nigeria dude, that feminist sh!t won't work here.

Kidaholic:

Nah, I'm not concerned, I'm actually unfazed about it.
why will a low quality man like me be worried about a full blown feminist?

funmisticqueen2:
*smiles* , do you know what i like about this thread, it exposes the males under female monickers, what fellowship hath darkness with light? high quality men do not think like you said.

funmisticqueen2:
the fact that u r on yhis thread shows that you are.

Valerie47:
I can't go as low as marrying an illiterate, I can't marry from another tribe, I'm sorry, but I can't compromise these standards.

Mizk:
Lowering your so called standards doesn't mean you should look down on a guy and call him weak because he doesnt meet your expectation, there's someone out there for the weak man, if marriage is important to you, just pray there's someone willing to overlook your high standards and marry you, i highly doubt there's such a man,That is how linda started yapping until she became a baby mama kwantinue.

Kidaholic:

Cc funmisticqueen2
You see the effect you and your cohorts are producing? Hope you are happy now

Kidaholic:

Don't flatter yourself abeg! You ain't worth it
My point is just stop spreading bad blood is that too much to ask?

funmisticqueen2:
i never implied that one should look down on others, i am of the orientation that we give birth to stronger people in the world. Cos in this world only the strong survive. Never did i imply that women should marry only rich men. The first rule of femininity is to be approachable and kind to all.

We should all strive to be better versions of themselves.

If you are female as you claim, then you sound like someone who has settled. She who stands for nothing will fall for anything

Very delusional, especially your last sentence, ask linda dear, I'm done, before you accuse me of something else.

Valerie47:
What effect? I've even trimmed down on my standards sef cause I reviewed it and thought mehn my ideal man might not really exist, or I might not get to see him.

Mizk:
Lowering your so called standards doesn't mean you should look down on a guy and call him weak because he doesnt meet your expectation, there's someone out there for the weak man, if marriage is important to you, just pray there's someone willing to overlook your high standards and marry you, i highly doubt there's such a man,That is how linda started yapping until she became a baby mama kwantinue.

victorian:












Funmi dearest please summarise, I truly don't understand.


Kind of confused here


What's the topic about? Just short summary and I will give my answer

funmisticqueen2:
It is a start. We are not asking for Mr perfect, we are asking for men who are worthy to be treated like kings for us.

Mizk:
Very delusional, especially your last sentence, ask linda dear, I'm done, before you accuse me of something else.

funmisticqueen2:
women should not just allow any tom, dick and harry to sleep with them and impregnate them

funmisticqueen2:
*smiles* , do you know what i like about this thread, it exposes the males under female monickers, what fellowship hath darkness with light? high quality men do not think like you said.

Valerie47:
That's it. I understand that we human being can't be perfect, I am not perfect, I'm also flawed, so I try to accommodate people, I'm learning to tolerate people too. I will get there someday.

Valerie47:
What effect? I've even trimmed down on my standards sef cause I reviewed it and thought mehn my ideal man might not really exist, or I might not get to see him.

lefulefu:
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Mizk"s female oo

Valerie47:
I can't go as low as marrying an illiterate, I can't marry from another tribe, I'm sorry, but I can't compromise these standards.

HARDDON:


ouch! my rib cage! brahahaha

I love you already. What a mind! You are very lucky I'm taken if not, even a seven horned demon couldnt stop me from having you to my selfish self!