HARDDON:


did you read the post?

HARDDON:


did you read the post?

Mizk:
You can't be the sweetest, its good to have high self esteem, but yours is pride, if you check the stats you'll see that girls like you usually end up getting used, and miserable, because when the quality man has explored everything you have to offer he'll realize there's nothing to you afterall, just pride and hype, then he'll go get a decent and submissive wife, it's Nigeria dude, that feminist sh!t won't work here.

Valerie47:
What effect? I've even trimmed down on my standards sef cause I reviewed it and thought mehn my ideal man might not really exist, or I might not get to see him.

funmisticqueen2:
please how am i spreading bad blood? Instead of you to work on yourselves to be the man every woman wants to spend their lives with you are being pained and accusing me of spreading bad blood.

victorian:









Hmm ok

I have not trimmed down on my standards. I even added spirituality and someone who has a very good relationship with God into mine.

I tried settling for less in the past but such men end up Infuriating me the more.

I don't think I can settle for less in a man. I don't have the patience for such.

Kidaholic:

Lmao Me? Pained? Last time I checked, you were the one encouraging feminism, saying shii about men being slack and ladies being the one to do all the hardwork. So how did the metamorphosis happen? Wake up from your Disneyland and face reality jare, this post is nothing but a shenanigan from a feminist!!!

funmisticqueen2:
By the way are you supposed to be submissive to a man that is not your husband.

They're alot of men in my life I'm submissive to, my dad, my older brothers, my future husband etc, I'm not a feminist because they're a very confused set of people, especially the ones in Nigeria.

Valerie47:
Remember that the perfect guy for you is also expecting a perfect Lady from you and you might not be the perfect lady he wants. That is how these things work out.

Mizk:
They're alot of men in my life I'm submissive to, my dad, my older brothers, my future husband etc, I'm not a feminist because they're a very confused set of people, especially the ones in Nigeria.

funmisticqueen2:
i am no feminist.

funmisticqueen2:
please explain how? i dont really understand that statement.

Mizk:
They're alot of men in my life I'm submissive to, my dad, my older brothers, my future husband etc, I'm not a feminist because they're a very confused set of people, especially the ones in Nigeria.

Mizk:
Even if i explain it to you for three weeks you won't understand.

Valerie47:
Remember that the perfect guy for you is also expecting a perfect Lady from you and you might not be the perfect lady he wants. That is how these things work out.

Kidaholic:
:-XJokes on you bae' Jokes on you!!

Mizk:
Lowering your so called standards doesn't mean you should look down on a guy and call him weak because he doesnt meet your expectation, there's someone out there for the weak man, if marriage is important to you, just pray there's someone willing to overlook your high standards and marry you, i highly doubt there's such a man,That is how linda started yapping until she became a baby mama kwantinue.

Mizk:
Hope you're a quality man? According to OP, is like she hasn't experienced life.

victorian:









I know and I have worked on myself and am still working on myself. But I can say categoritically that have gotten to a level in life and in my character where a good wise successful man will always thank Baba God for having me in his life.

OK its like this: I have always wanted a very goodlooking successful kind guy as a spouse.
But along the line, all I got was drop dead gorgeous guys with terrible behaviors and the relationships always ended even before 3months
I wasn't perfect my self then but after breakups, I will evaluate where we both went wrong. Then advice myself and adjust.

I managed ugly guys, but I couldn't cope staying long in a relationship with an ugly guy. Lemme not deceive myself. Even if he's a saint. I moved on.

Thank God I'm with a God fearing man, a true Christian, he's handsome, very handsome but God has calmed him down. His looks doesn't get into his head, likewise my looks as well. I'm as grounded as I can be. He's humble and very kind then also successful with his career. He's committed to God. I'm committed to God but not as strong as he is.

But I like the fact, I draw strength from my man in keeping my relationship with God grounded and focused.

So I think that was what I didn't have in my previous relationship. None of them were close to God and the battles of life I have around me were too much and powerful , I needed a man who is spiritual and loves everything about God and ready to serve God .

funmisticqueen2:
As you see, your attempts to pick me apart do not work.

victorian:









Hmm ok

I have not trimmed down on my standards. I even added spirituality and someone who has a very good relationship with God into mine.

I tried settling for less in the past but such men end up Infuriating me the more.

I don't think I can settle for less in a man. I don't have the patience for such.

Kidaholic:


Pick you apart? why do you enjoy crediting yourself so much? I'm simply stating the obvious, the fallacy of your theory is just too biased and simpleminded
And if you still can't see that till this very moment, then you're just daft!

HARDDON:




I am in the mood today, could you list out the full requirements? I might give you a free promo, you never can tell

Valerie47:
Seems like you found your ideal man, good for you.

victorian:








Of course not!

Women shouldn't.

If a woman knows her value and onions, she shouldn't allow any man because he has dicck to touch, sleep and impregnate her.

For me, I wouldn't anyways. I know my value. And I have standards.

funmisticqueen2:
you are doing it again, cant you get your message across without shading someone or insults, is this how short tempered you are?

Kidaholic:

Sorry, if I was a little harsh
but you can't just go around publishing shii about men being slack and women being the burden bearer in relationships, do you know you can ruin someone's life with this stuff?
Anyways, since my so called attempts to pick you apart did not work carry on with your life. if you like get married, If you like want don't, its your funeral not mine!

No hard feelings sha..

victorian:









Yes I have.

And do you know I had to change my church, lol

The church I was attending before, the spirituality there is not strong. Even my Pastor then resigned from his post from the Church. I was already fed-up with it and the church was filled only with married people and jambites
I was like is this where I will get to see my Prince? I said to myself Victorian u are wasting your time here o.
I seek my friends opinion, they all laughed at me and Vicky stay in that church, your man will come from anywhere. But deep in my heart I knew that's not true.
The only places I go to in this life Is my office, market and church. I'm not a party or club person. I don't really socialize, so for Christ sakes! Where will this Prince Charming come from?

And don't tell me online, pleasseee! Have been burnt several times doing online date Biko.

So I saw another church on my way home on Sunday. It's was full to the brim. I saw ladies of my age and guys.. Youths everywhere! I was like wow! This is where am suppose to be lol
My dear, I changed church o!
The pastor noticed me on my first service, welcome me and all.

Then a Junior Pastor, Was sent to my house very early in the morning ,the next day on a Monday to give me another welcome letter and package from the overseer Pastor. This is the junior Pastor am with, and i made up my mind to spend the rest of my life with. He was all smiles as I ushered him in, after giving me the welcome letter again from pastor, we held hands and prayed. Then he left with his colleague. I was like this junior Pastor is handsome o! Lol
One mind ehhshhh! Vicky be focused on God! Forget handsome pastor lol. I laughed at myself. Lol

We always see in church and the rest was history

I still attend the church with him till date. Best decision ever made

victorian:









Hmm ok

I have not trimmed down on my standards. I even added spirituality and someone who has a very good relationship with God into mine.

I tried settling for less in the past but such men end up Infuriating me the more.

I don't think I can settle for less in a man. I don't have the patience for such.

solasoulmusic:
When a woman says ride or die she really means against all odds I will stand by you. As simple as vows are they mean a lot to some people it means that when you old and bald and you start to lose the looks you will always look handsome to me. It means that even if you lose love over the years I have more than enough to remind you everyday

It’s not a hopeless situation it’s one that takes faith and preserversance and vision

We don’t say it to die per say but to let the man know we won’t run at the slightest mental breakdown but stick around to breakthrough with you

The thing is finding a worthy man and hope he doesn’t forget halfway or fall for an illusion