NwanyiAwkaetiti:
People who lay much emphasis on physical appearances sometimes end up making making d wrong choice.

Good luck sha as ladies Don finish for your church or workplace

mrphysics:

Why it is good to look for someone good looking, i strongly think a serious marriage minded guy shouldn't focus on that. I am sure, the op didn't too.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Well if the op is handsome and social, he wouldn't open this kinda thread

IamDGrateful:
I have always been a career-minded person out there. So I have no time for it...but I felt this could be an avenue to reach out to that special person.
You never can tell, she may be out there waiting for it.

IamDGrateful:
Sir, there's no need for insult. What you want is not what I want....you don't know me as a person; you can cope with that but I CAN'T

Cheers bro!

mrphysics:

Why it is good to look for someone good looking, i strongly think a serious marriage minded guy shouldn't focus on that. I am sure, the op didn't too.

Valerie47:
Ugly women beget ugly children.

mrphysics:

I can't say that to your source please

AryaSand:

LMAO! But i'm never getting married EVER, sorry.

Ishilove:

Romance section isn't the place to post this. The family section is better

Ishilove:

Define 'presentable'

WinningEleven:
Lemme call them
Sweetbuns
Pocahontas
Saffi
Aryasand
Ibkayee
Allaboutkatie
Funministicqueen
Shellybee
Wuraola01
Tee59
Lemme think

mrphysics:

Ignore those people bro.

Let me tell you the raw truth, your standard is too high to the crop of ladies we have out there and on here. You will later realize that the ones here are kids who are more interested on nairaland/facebook likes and shares. Also, you see those ones saying they are not ready for marriage, don't mind them, the God of Shiloh already knows He will have to answer some prayers in the future when they go crying and pleading for a God fearing man. They are in their whoring age.

Secondly, as you may have realized, most don't have anything tangible to say. When you engage them deeply, they resort to name calling and perhaps use it to judge you. So we currently have ladies that judge men instead of understanding them. When the discussion is about sex and romance, they will argue till they get wet. But when it is a serious talk, they go mute and find a name to call you.

I would recommend you know the reality on ground and lower your standard. It is hard to get those with that quality especially on nairaland.

I understand how office work and relationship goes. They seem to be North and South pole.

Valerie47:
Ugly women beget ugly children. For the sake of your child, marry someone that is presentable, I think men should be more concerned about their genotype in marriage, too many AS these days.

bigpicture001:
I once made this same call on this same forum 4months ago....i got several pings nd eventualky narrowed down to a God fearing,hilarious,interesting workibg class lady. I like everything about her but...

Sh is a feminist,sh would never say AM sorry and always luk for how u are wrong instead. Now the main problem is all about pix..sh sent me multiple diffrent luking pix. Not any resemblib d other. Sh keeps confusing me with the pix .and citing the fact am.not on facebook as the reason.according to her,its not normal dt a guy is not on facebook. Nd u send her just two pix and that sh needs more pix

The pix issue continued for the next 3months. Inthe course of that,sh has frustrated my trip to see her physicaly at her own place,just the nxt city bordering mine. In one of the occasions,sh turned me back when am just like 30min to reach her destination.

Sh always accuse me of either being married which am.not or being in a serious relationship already which i dont even have any one. I tire for gals dont even know wot dey want .

Gud luck to u bro on ur own journey

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
People who lay much emphasis on physical appearances sometimes end up making making d wrong choice.

Good luck sha as ladies Don finish for your church or workplace

mrphysics:

When it comes to marriage, most men do not select from the circle of friends they have except if they are into a serious relationship with one already. Most people search for a new lady and start something serious with them.

Most working class guys feel that the ladies that now smiles with them are just doing that due to their status and not actually for love. So they ignore them and go for a new relationship. It has nothing to do with looks and being social. It's what one wants in a relationship that will possibly last till death.

IamDGrateful:
Sigh! I don't think being 'presentable' have any other definition that's different from what you know. I'm not about the morphological aspect so to speak but at least worth walking out with.

IamDGrateful:
Sigh! I don't think being 'presentable' has any other definition that's different from what you know. I'm not about the morphological aspect so to speak but at least worth walking out with.

IamDGrateful:
Ok, but is the family section not meant for those are married? Sorry, I'm just thinking aloud. Thanks anyways

Ishilove:

Sensible and mature users frequent the family section because of the large number of puerile Nairalanders who have made this section their haunting ground. It is hard finding wise people in the Romance section.

Ishilove:

Being presentable is subjective, meaning your personal preferences influence your perception of what beauty should be. What you consider 'presentable' is not sacrosanct. You need to be more specific.

iamTeBz:
oh really, I didn't even know that too

Ishilove:

Are you the OP?

Now you know

bigpicture001:
I once made this same call on this same forum 4months ago....i got several pings nd eventualky narrowed down to a God fearing,hilarious,interesting workibg class lady. I like everything about her but...

Sh is a feminist,sh would never say AM sorry and always luk for how u are wrong instead. Now the main problem is all about pix..sh sent me multiple diffrent luking pix. Not any resemblib d other. Sh keeps confusing me with the pix .and citing the fact am.not on facebook as the reason.according to her,its not normal dt a guy is not on facebook. Nd u send her just two pix and that sh needs more pix

The pix issue continued for the next 3months. Inthe course of that,sh has frustrated my trip to see her physicaly at her own place,just the nxt city bordering mine. In one of the occasions,sh turned me back when am just like 30min to reach her destination.

Sh always accuse me of either being married which am.not or being in a serious relationship already which i dont even have any one. I tire for gals dont even know wot dey want .

Gud luck to u bro on ur own journey

wizzypro12:
you no add highqueen and wuraola01

mrphysics:

These ones are still undergraduates and less than 20 years

mrphysics:


If she is still an undergraduate, it is a blindspot, they have not known what life is about. I pledged never to have anything to do with undergraduates, until I met one lady. She promised to be different and being in her final year, I thought she would be different, but I was wrong. They are just the same, the thought of how many people to fvck and flex during NYSC is more important to them. They don't know what marriage is about yet they claim emotional maturity.

IamDGrateful:
Nah, I can't even consider her. Her age isn't listed so that takes her out. She's definitely too young for me

PrimadonnaO:


Were you bored or something?

Ishilove:

Sensible and mature users frequent the family section because of the large number of puerile Nairalanders who have made this section their haunting ground. It is hard finding wise people in the Romance section.