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Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Nobody: 4:47pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
Stay with her and comfort her! I no of a woman that gives birth to 6gals before having a boy.. Tell her that it is God that makes and gives children not our presumed efforts! |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by NoToPile: 4:51pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
It seems nobody wants to ask the main question. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Oyindidi(f): 5:40pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
bamidelee:What ish? I've seen mothers refusing to breastfeed their children cos its not the sex they wanted. Next time say your opinion don't quote me 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Hisduchess(f): 6:23pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
my ex told me straight that we gonna have two kids their gender wouldn't matter |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by DrFlora: 7:35pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
DUNKA: Well, I will say that there's no "actual" pressure from the husband's family. The major pressure here is the one my sister put on herself simply because the wife of her husband's brother is giving birth to boys. So, it appears there's an unwritten rivalry or will as say "dare" 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by DrFlora: 7:37pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
Alexk2: Thank you. We will consider getting a psychologist for her. |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by DrFlora: 7:43pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
chiommy123: Firstly, there's one of my sisters that has been married for 19 years going to 20 without any child. My sister that is directly younger to this one has just one female child that is 4 years now and they are planning on doing IVF soon. So you see, she has enough life experience to learn from and be grateful. But then again, I understand it's not easy for her. But one of the parts of being an adult is accepting things that we cannot change 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by DrFlora: 7:45pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
Katier00: You are not far from the truth. She said that she doesn't want to give birth again and that explains the reason that she desperately needs a boy. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by DrFlora: 7:48pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
carammel: I wish it is possible to visit her. But we're living miles away from each other. We will ask our sister living close to the state that she is, to visit her. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by DrFlora: 7:51pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
sean079: One of my sisters is a nurse. She followed them through when they were about to conceive and put them through on when to have sex to have a male child. Unfortunately, it didn't work. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by DrFlora: 7:57pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
ifyalways: One thing that I have noticed about some nairaland commenters is that they can stay in their home and tell what is happening in another man's home. If you read through my post, you will see where I stated that she just delivered few days ago. Do you think we are not working? Do you know the distance between where we are and where she is? So, if you were in our shoes, you will just jump and start rushing to visit a woman that just delivered without any preparation? Think before you judge! 9 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by DrFlora: 8:02pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
nnamdibig: She tried this method but it failed. Thus the reason it seems to her all hope is lost as she has tried everything within her knowledge as human. Unfortunately, it cost minimum of 3 million to do IVF that can allow you select the gender of the child. |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by sean079: 10:04pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
DrFlora: That is why i said its a chance/probabilty which in entirely rely on the husband properties like his sperm Health, mobility, etc. Even the room temperature play its own role but she aint need to give up if sure she already got dat knowledge. Trying n trying again with accurate precision will win the war for her |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by thorpido(m): 10:04pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
You didn't say anything about the husband.Is he putting her under pressure even if it is subtle? At this day and age,education should have changed the perception of people about the gender of the babies they have. Unfortunately,your sister is depressed and needs expert counseling to come out of it.Family members should make out time to see and be around her. |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Nobody: 10:23pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
Mtcheewwwwwwwww! In quarter to 2019, a woman is still beating herself because of the gender of a child!.. Radarada! |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Uyi168: 10:42pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
ifyalways:.. Don't just jump into conclusions.. Maybe they live very far apart.. 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Katier00(f): 10:48pm On Dec 16, 2018 |
DrFlora:give her time, she will come around |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by DrFlora: 7:13am On Dec 17, 2018 |
thorpido: The husband cares less. Both my sister and the husband are educated so they know that the man determines the gender of the child. But you know, men are cunning. They will say that it doesn't matter, but in future, their opinion will change. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by thorpido(m): 8:33am On Dec 17, 2018 |
DrFlora:Keep talking to her on phone till you can be around her.Talk to the hubby too so he canhelp change her mood. She will overcome the phase. |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Nobody: 10:31am On Dec 17, 2018 |
Oyindidi:low IQ on display
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Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Oyindidi(f): 10:39am On Dec 17, 2018 |
bamidelee:See what the op said up there. Take yourself out of my mention |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Nobody: 10:42am On Dec 17, 2018 |
Oyindidi:oloun je ya |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Oyindidi(f): 10:45am On Dec 17, 2018 |
bamidelee:Back to sender! Type in English |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Nobody: 10:47am On Dec 17, 2018 |
Oyindidi:you too like food you're temperamental |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Oyindidi(f): 12:04pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
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Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by ifyalways(f): 12:31pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
Uyi168:I will jump into conclusions because family means everything to me. It comes first always. Pregnancy is a nine months journey. She claimed her sister refused scan or any type of care from her pregnancy days. I dont care if they all live abroad, they have no excuses. If they all cared, as siblings truly should. They could get their mom, MIL, an aunt, a female cousin even if it means contributing money to pay whoever to go visit and spend at least a week with their sister. Imagine the depressed lady alone battling with her depression, child care and perharps trying to get some rest and her phone keeps ringing from busy, " caring" siblings. If she harms herself or baby now, they wil have time to visit and type lenghty fake love epistles online. Shioooooor 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by ifyalways(f): 12:33pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
DrFlora: GTFOH with your excuses. Fake love siblings. I detest your likes. I will never be in your shoes, God forbid. My family comes first. You have no excuse!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Nobody: 1:27pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
Oyindidi:you dey alright |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Oyindidi(f): 1:28pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
bamidelee: ![]() |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Nobody: 1:35pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
Oyindidi:I no abuse you na |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by victorian(f): 3:16pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
Her husband is the one putting pressures on her to give birth to a male child. She might be going through hell at home, then the in-laws may also have a hand in her depressive state. May we not marry the wrong man and wrong in-laws for God sake! Amen! Poor woman marry, no peace of mind henceforth. God forbid! Some married people are in hell already. Na wa ![]() |
Re: My Sister Is Crying Inconsolably After Giving Birth. Please Help! by Oyindidi(f): 3:20pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
victorian:How you come to this conclusion weak me. 1 Like |
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