Bamidey:

kiddoiLL:
Not all guys think like that... Truth is we all love smart women, personally I love women who can work my mind, simulate my mind and show she's different from the norm. That I want you smart, Independent, strong and beautiful isn't a bad thing is it? That's what most and all guys demand. But here's where the problem arises, most women after becoming Independent, strong nd beautiful, tend to disrespect their men. So it's a thing that most guys now see as a threat. Especially the African woman.
It's when you know you have nothing to offer a guy you'll be seen as a sex object.
I've seen strong women who people might term as feminists with happy and beautiful homes, it's all about balancing it. You can be flaunt you feminism outside there to the world, but keep that bullshit away from your family. I've noticed most girls think guys just see women as sex objects, that's the biggest lie my fellow guys won't admit to. I REPEAT, IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER A GUY IN HIS LIFE AND HE'S RICH WHILE YOU DON'T BRING A THING TO THE TABLE OTHER THAN ASS. THAT GUY WILL TAP IT AND MOVE ON UNTIL HE FINDS THE PERFECT AND STRONG WOMAN.
Your point no 3 is true and bullshit, but you won't blame it totally on them, blame it on the African culture. Africans tend to see not getting married on time as some sort of curse or a bad and miserable thing. Not guys alone, that no 3 point is general

Saffi:
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.

Saffi:
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.

SweetBuns:
Thank you for your wise and detailed reply.

kiddoiLL:
Not all guys think like that... Truth is we all love smart women, personally I love women who can work my mind, simulate my mind and show she's different from the norm. That I want you smart, Independent, strong and beautiful isn't a bad thing is it? That's what most and all guys demand. But here's where the problem arises, most women after becoming Independent, strong nd beautiful, tend to disrespect their men. So it's a thing that most guys now see as a threat. Especially the African woman.
It's when you know you have nothing to offer a guy you'll be seen as a sex object.
I've seen strong women who people might term as feminists with happy and beautiful homes, it's all about balancing it. You can be flaunt you feminism outside there to the world, but keep that bullshit away from your family. I've noticed most girls think guys just see women as sex objects, that's the biggest lie my fellow guys won't admit to. I REPEAT, IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER A GUY IN HIS LIFE AND HE'S RICH WHILE YOU DON'T BRING A THING TO THE TABLE OTHER THAN ASS. THAT GUY WILL TAP IT AND MOVE ON UNTIL HE FINDS THE PERFECT AND STRONG WOMAN.
Your point no 3 is true and bullshit, but you won't blame it totally on them, blame it on the African culture. Africans tend to see not getting married on time as some sort of curse or a bad and miserable thing. Not guys alone, that no 3 point is general

LuciferGospel:



Dear pocohantas,

You are so obsessed with me you have been opening new monikers upandan Nairaland.
Auntie, you nor dey tire?

Sleeping with mods to get me banned seems not to be working again so you've switched to hiding behind different monikers.


I've successfully turned you into a raving lunatic; always creating topics ontop my matter like a coward instead of you to face me.
I thought you said you were crazy, you never see craze yet. I'm just getting warmed.


This is a monster you created by instigating gender war on Nairaland last year.
You, saffi, shugavee, funmisticqueen and all those other broke so-called feminists that have been passed around on NL.
Now that it has grown bigger than you & the guys have decided to call out all you hoes for your bullshit, you are now preaching peace.

You have always been a shameless, bitter, frustrated & aggressive evening newspaper which is why no matter how many PMs you send me, I will keep ignoring them.

Stupid feminist.

*spits

Lord I wish I had more spit

pocohantas:



I wonder how I am the one obsessed with you, when you are the one going about creating monikers for me.

Cc; Mynd44.

DanDeeBoss:
Lol... Sweetbuns, you have written intelligently... I am impressed... BTW team "30 inches dick" won't like this

SweetBuns:
The average nigerian male has been stereotyped and programmed by society to have some bad assumptions about the female gender.

1. Any female that tries to be unique and different i.e Focusing on her career and goals rather than staying at home is quickly termed a bitter woman aka Feminist
This is very true and it is also very evident on this site. Any woman who holds an opinion contrary to that of the males is quickly tagged a bitter woman and shame to society. Try to rear you head up as a woman and they will quickly try to pull you down. That is why some men in this country will never like to see their wives prosper more than them. They will always try to pull her down and bind her with wild societal beliefs like...
"YOU SHOULDNT BE WORKING ANYMORE FOR NOW. YOU HAVE CHILDREN TO TAKE CARE OF. STAY AT HOME WOMAN!"
Some men even take it too far in banning their wives from working at all. Especially if she is richer that him. No work at hand, she will be needy of money and the same men will turn round and call us parasites. Its sickening.



2. Most guys think like this, "IF YOU HAVE MONEY AND BIG DICK, GIRLS WILL FLOCK YOU

This is also very evident on this site as most guys tend to think that if you have money and a big phallus, girls Will follow you around like flies. This is as funny as it is untrue. I don't know about other girls but I myself despise big dicks. Its very painful. My ex had one and I never liked to perform coitus with him. Average is okay and good for girls like me.
And about the money part, most things actually needed and very important for a woman can't be bought with money. We women are creatures of many needs and many layers, and these layers need different needs. Most of which money cannot buy. So not all girls can be freaked out with bundles of cash. Only the loose ones behave like that.


3. ONCE A WOMAN CLOCKS 25 AND ABOVE, SHE HAS BECOME " EVENING NEWSPAPER"
I personally hate this one like shit and only the ignorant use this phrase and thinks they're right.
It has been scientifically proven that woman ovulate I.e produce eggs well into their late twenties and thirties and even fourties for the lucky ones (its somehow rare). So I wonder why some men would open their mouths and say a woman that's 15-20 years away from menopause is "evening newspaper".


P.S :- I dont expect my own opinions to work with every woman or man and I don't expect everyone to agree with me. Kindly observe constructive criticism as you reply. Female bashers are not allowed to comment on this. Thank you.

Saffi:
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.

Eberechi24:

Lmao, our firebrand nl misogynist is timid offline. Offline character is different from online in most cases. I don't take some issues serious till it reflects offline.

Saffi:
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.

kiddoiLL:
Not all guys think like that... Truth is we all love smart women, personally I love women who can work my mind, simulate my mind and show she's different from the norm. That I want you smart, Independent, strong and beautiful isn't a bad thing is it? That's what most and all guys demand. But here's where the problem arises, most women after becoming Independent, strong nd beautiful, tend to disrespect their men. So it's a thing that most guys now see as a threat. Especially the African woman.
It's when you know you have nothing to offer a guy you'll be seen as a sex object.
I've seen strong women who people might term as feminists with happy and beautiful homes, it's all about balancing it. You can be flaunt you feminism outside there to the world, but keep that bullshit away from your family. I've noticed most girls think guys just see women as sex objects, that's the biggest lie my fellow guys won't admit to. I REPEAT, IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER A GUY IN HIS LIFE AND HE'S RICH WHILE YOU DON'T BRING A THING TO THE TABLE OTHER THAN ASS. THAT GUY WILL TAP IT AND MOVE ON UNTIL HE FINDS THE PERFECT AND STRONG WOMAN.
Your point no 3 is true and bullshit, but you won't blame it totally on them, blame it on the African culture. Africans tend to see not getting married on time as some sort of curse or a bad and miserable thing. Not guys alone, that no 3 point is general

SweetBuns:

Dear.... I don't even know what to call you,

First off, I am not Pocahontas. Why is it so hard for you to see that?
Secondly, every thing about you, the way you talk, the way you act, the way you think is influenced by gender discrimination. You form as if you hate women so much and abuse them forgetting that without women, you wouldn't exist let alone live.
Last of all, you called me evening newspaper. This make me laugh anytime, anywhere. I'm a young woman still in her prime and you follow me everywhere like a jobless he goat and tag me a feminist or Pocahontas or any other new term your twisted mind has to offer.

Leave Me alone and stop stalking me. I am not Pocahontas, leave my posts alone and stop following us around.
Thanks.

Biglittlelois:



Very true

EbukaHades10:
Story. Na una go still dey contradict unaselves