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Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by SweetBuns(f): 11:03pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
revontuli:don't worry. You'll be safe. Just confide in the authorities or someone you can trust. Also arm yourself. Anything can happen. Getting a gun is easier over there right? |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by revontuli(f): 11:03pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
I couldn't tell any of this to my close friends and family cause of shame. Easier to tell complete strangers you know. I felt ashamed for allowing this to happen. I got the divorce in 2017 but didn't have the mental energy to kick him out and dealing with the lawyers and such, until this past summer. I shouldn't be ashamed, the shame isn't mine but it's quite embarrassing to tell family and most friends about such a thing. He got committed into mental hospital against his will for violent and suicidal behavior before, I found that out much much later. 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by revontuli(f): 11:04pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
SweetBuns: I relocated to Europe and we aren't allowed to get guns here. I can get a crossbow though, there are no restriction on non-firearms. Crossbow is just as deadly and no permits are required, just some marksman skills. |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by SweetBuns(f): 11:06pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
revontuli:that mindset you have can get you killed. If you can't tell your family this and call them to help you in this your time of need, what do you have them for? 1 Like |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by revontuli(f): 11:07pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
Offpoint: Met him through mutual friends. He wasn't a psycho then, though, quite the opposite. He had a reputation as a good Samaritan. Helping everyone in need, protector of the weak, he also helped me with a lot of difficult things and gave me support when I battled with chronic illness. Who could guess? None of his close friends had any idea, either. I am trying to get him arrested for possible child rape, cause he nearly admitted that to the woman he kidnapped and raped. He said he did "something horrible" and his little nephew took his own life. A 9 year old child. If they don't open a case with this, I will lose all faith in the American law enforcement. |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by SweetBuns(f): 11:09pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
revontuli:carrying a crossbow around is both unethical as it is strange. Imagine carrying a crossbow to work? Looks and sounds strange right?. Take some judo and karate classes on self defense. You might never know when you'd need them (your life could be on the line) Also get some thing lethal but less pronounced like pepper spray. It helps a lot( it has helped me once) 1 Like |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by SweetBuns(f): 11:10pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
revontuli:people change until their last breath |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by revontuli(f): 11:10pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
SweetBuns: I live thousands of miles away from my family, too. They are not in any position to do anything. If they had any power to do anything I'd bite the embarassment and tell them. But all of the friends I have in Texas know everything. 1 Like |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by revontuli(f): 11:12pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
SweetBuns: Not carrying but keeping at home and car in case. I can't learn martial arts cause of a disability I have. If I could I would. The possibility of him making such a long trip to go after me is low, though. I will report the threats and such to the authorities here, if it's possible to get him denied entry to the country. Looking into the options. |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Offpoint: 11:12pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
revontuli:What's responsible for his drastic change of behavior? is he doing drugs? do you suspect any case of drugs? |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by SweetBuns(f): 11:15pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
revontuli:there is ability in disability. And don't think he won't come after you. He is now unhinged mentally and won't think like a normal human Girl, its almost midnight here and I need to catch some sleep. I have a big day tomorrow. Stay safe okay? |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Mariangeles(f): 11:15pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
revontuli:OMG ! ![]() What attracted you to him in the first place ?? |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by SweetBuns(f): 11:17pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
She has been banned by an anti spam bot. Revontuli, please stay safe. I know what will happen if he tries to find you |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by manutdrichie(m): 11:22pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
revontuli: beautiful lady.. |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by RSVP: 11:27pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
ha ah this oyinbo woman is smart and kinda funny too... I like the way she uses her word. i still can't believe someone actually survived living in that house.. It's good you've kicked him out anyway . problem solved huh ![]() I just hope you can handle what's coming at you right now as I'm pretty sure so many people on this forum will start shooting their shot. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Cladez(m): 11:53pm On Dec 18, 2018 |
Every country has its own problems you can't do these things with people knowing and still get away with it in Nigeria. The part about jungle justice was actually funny.She has a way of adding comic relief to her rants. ![]() |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Newboss(m): 12:01am On Dec 19, 2018 |
That moment you realized that the cute babe you've been chatting with is a bored young man hiding behind a smartphone ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by RSVP: 12:18am On Dec 19, 2018 |
Newboss:[s] ha too much sense no go kee you ma broda but she sounds feminine tho... I have no doubt she's white too. Oyinbo no too sabi lie. only if they're whining and they have this way of typing enlgish .. especially American . |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Remix10(m): 12:30am On Dec 19, 2018 |
SweetBuns: Where do you stay? |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Remix10(m): 12:33am On Dec 19, 2018 |
revontuli: This got me ![]() ![]() |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Remix10(m): 12:36am On Dec 19, 2018 |
revontuli: Come to think of it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by mikejj(m): 8:12am On Dec 19, 2018 |
lefulefu:thats why they call them woman and wife...its their nature to do the cleaning...but this man own too much. |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Starboytwo(m): 8:36am On Dec 19, 2018 |
Let me help you clean that up...cleaning up("idoti)rubbish Is my hobby..... Infact I was born to clean I swear... |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Nobody: 8:59am On Dec 19, 2018 |
mikejj:the man na complete werey |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by ecstasy357(m): 9:02am On Dec 19, 2018 |
Offpoint: I LOVE NAIJA, DEM NOR DEY CARRY LAST. MY GUY DONE QUICKLY DROP CV. MAKE I DROP MINE. @OP, PPLE SAY I'M AS HUMBLE, DEPENDABLE, CARING, TRUSTING, LOVING AND AN EXCELLENT COMPANION AND FRIEND LIKE JESUS... WOULD U LIKE TO FIND OUT IF I'M SO MUCH MORE ![]() |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Nobody: 9:03am On Dec 19, 2018 |
Cladez:it happens in nigeria but only if the property u using was purchased by ur lover and u mess up then she trashes it up. |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by ecstasy357(m): 9:05am On Dec 19, 2018 |
revontuli: @Op, the difficult part has past. He's out of the house. Now you can rebuild. Before you get too moody, look at the brighter side....that man is out of your life for good |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Offpoint: 9:19am On Dec 19, 2018 |
ecstasy357:Guy I no like that level o, abeg submit your CV elsewhere o, I need this job more than you.. country hash. 3 Likes |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by Ranchhoddas: 10:10am On Dec 19, 2018 |
revontuli:Burning fire or cancer? Make up your mind. |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by mikejj(m): 10:36am On Dec 19, 2018 |
lefulefu:full time werey...d wife no go ever open for am next time now... 1 Like |
Re: This Is What My Ex-husband Did To My House. A Monster For Real. by zinaunreal(m): 11:17am On Dec 19, 2018 |
Wow this is really nasty and i woke up this morning complaining about a roach that was abandoned in the kitchen to my family members |
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