Mariangeles:
But it's normal if she gets back from an energy sapping job and dashes straight into the kitchen abi ??

Like that STUPID AD from Maggi ...
I get stressed for that woman just by watching that STUPID AD

SweetBuns:
What the hell happened to brushing her up and teaching her?
Nigerian men and their unrealistic expectations form us.
Tell me if you don't have any shortcomings yourself. Love is not all about food. Its way more than that.
You need to change the way you see and think about love and marriage. It goes beyond a delicious meal

So expecting that your wife knows how to cook is now unrealistic abi? Same responsibility that our mothers carried out without complaining.

I hope love will allow you to marry a jobless and irresponsible man.

Chenzee:
I can vividly recollect, during my university days how beans(cowpea) and garri were so popular in the male hostel. Meanwhile, provision shops prefer to stock more than half of their shops with indomie (noodles) without any sceptism. These shop owners know very well that these noodles will be devoured completely by none other than those in the female hostels.
A friend of mine visited his girlfriend come fiancee several times in her house, and was always welcomed with garnished noodles and chilled soft drinks. It continued for their two years of courtship. Anytime he asks why she isn't cooking any other food, she says it's because she has been busy all through the day.
If he tells her to cook a special delicacy, she spends the whole day cooking and then serves him with a delicious and palatable rubbish (tasteless meal).
I told him that I can only marry a woman who can cook exceptionally well, and can also cook meals I can't cook (especially my traditional meals). I told him that I will be so proud to invite anyone to my house.
They ( My friend and his fiancee) are preparing to get married soon, though they haven't fixed a date yet.
I need your candid and unbiased advice. Thanks.

Chenzee:
Coming back from an energy sapping job and dashing into the kitchen is seriously out of place and unfair from that wife..
I think it's better she enrolls in a catering school and beg the instructors to treat her as a special student with intense training and lots of homework and spanking ASAP...Coz I love food, not just food but specially prepared delicacies..

DWJOBScom:
No naa
Every lady was trained to be a good chef and taught how to care for the home.

music4me:
Can U marry an impotent man for love?

GoTV:



Feminist wannabe

Chenzee:
Coming back from an energy sapping job and dashing into the kitchen is seriously out of place and unfair from that wife..
I think it's better she enrolls in a catering school and beg the instructors to treat her as a special student with intense training and lots of homework and spanking ASAP...Coz I love food, not just food but specially prepared delicacies..

kennygee:
This issue of marrying a woman who doesn't know how to cook, I use to think it was a big deal till I met someone who told me her dad cooks their meals cause their mum doesn't know how to. Plus her dad enjoyed cooking.

Her parents are grandparents now and still together.

If you know you can't deal with it as a man, let her know. If she's willing to learn, teach her or enroll her in catering school.

Or be the chef in the marriage. different strokes, different folks.

okwabayi:
No. It will force me to learn cooking on my own.
If I can cook then of what use are you?

SweetBuns:
What the hell happened to brushing her up and teaching her?
Nigerian men and their unrealistic expectations form us.
MY DEAR KNOWING HOW TO COOK IS NOT UNREALISTIC. DON'T MAKE EXCUSES FOR YOUR INCAPABILITY.

Tell me if you don't have any shortcomings yourself.
YOU SOUND LIKE ALL THOSE KINDS OF PEOPLE WHO LIKE TO REMAIN STATIONERY. NO IMPROVEMENT OR LEARNING.

Love is not all about food. Its way more than that.
BABE ANYBODY GOING INTO MARRIAGE AND EXPECTING CHILDREN SHOULD KNOW HOW TO COOK SOMETHING. BOTH MEN AND WOMEN. THE KIDS WON'T EAT SAND, OR NOODLES AND TEA FOR THE FIRST 10 YEARS OF THEIR LIVES.

You need to change the way you see and think about love and marriage. It goes beyond a delicious meal
PEOPLE SHOULD LEARN HOW TO COOK, AND THAT'S THE BOTTOM LINE.

Chenzee:
I can vividly recollect, during my university days how beans(cowpea) and garri were so popular in the male hostel. Meanwhile, provision shops prefer to stock more than half of their shops with indomie (noodles) without any sceptism. These shop owners know very well that these noodles will be devoured completely by none other than those in the female hostels.
A friend of mine visited his girlfriend come fiancee several times in her house, and was always welcomed with garnished noodles and chilled soft drinks. It continued for their two years of courtship. Anytime he asks why she isn't cooking any other food, she says it's because she has been busy all through the day.
If he tells her to cook a special delicacy, she spends the whole day cooking and then serves him with a delicious and palatable rubbish (tasteless meal).
I told him that I can only marry a woman who can cook exceptionally well, and can also cook meals I can't cook (especially my traditional meals). I told him that I will be so proud to invite anyone to my house.
They ( My friend and his fiancee) are preparing to get married soon, though they haven't fixed a date yet.
I need your candid and unbiased advice. Thanks.

akinreals:
What's big deal in cooking sef? In my house, anybody that get home first will cook, I love cooking and most time I intentionally get home before my wife just to cook and yes, I have been married for 6 years now and cooking has never been an issue in my house

Valerie47:
The expect us to be superwoman, we will leave work, go to pick the kids, bath them, dash into the kitchen and cook for oga.

tragergeorge:
so what if the wife works too,and the day was rough ,,,women are not slaves,,,,

Mariangeles:
But it's normal if she gets back from an energy sapping job and dashes straight into the kitchen abi ??

Like that STUPID AD from Maggi ...
I get stressed for that woman just by watching that STUPID AD

OneSentence:

well said...as for me my stroke is simple...u can't cook, we can't marry. simple.